Lero tidzakambirana za momwe galimoto yonyamulira amai ndi njira zomwe zingagwiritsire ntchito mwamuna zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi oimira abwino aumunthu.
Kunyamula (kuchokera ku Chingerezi kunyamula - "kunyamula") - sayansi yachinyengo. Zimachokera pazinthu zakale zamaganizo: NLP, kukopa, manja a masewero, ndi zina zotero. Popeza kuyang'ana kwa chodabwitsa ichi kwa anthu ambiri akujambula sikukhala chabe masewera ndi zosangalatsa, komanso nzeru za moyo.Chofunika cha masewera onse ndichaphweka ngati tsiku loyera. Kusudzulana ndi mkazi kugonana, ndipo mofulumira ndi mwachibadwa ngati n'kotheka, amasangalale naye usiku, ndiyeno mosavuta komanso mwachibadwa. Mwachidziwikiratu, pickpockets silingaganizire za khalidwe labwino - komanso, ambiri a iwo amachita izo kubwezera chiwerewere pazifukwa zina zotalika ... Koma izi siziri vuto lero.
Komanso chiwerengero cha amuna, chachikazi chinabadwa pa intaneti. Zonsezi zinayamba ndi malo ang'onoang'ono okhudza kayendedwe ka amuna, ndiye chuma chodziimira kwa amayi. Pogwiritsa ntchito amisiri amalondawa omwe anali osangalatsa nthawi yomweyo anakhazikitsa bungwe lophunzitsira, maphunziro ndi masemina opusitsa.
Cholinga cha galimoto yamakina yazimayi chimasiyanasiyana pang'ono ndi za mwamuna: kukopeka amene akuwoneka. Zitatha izi, pakhoza kukhala njira zomwe mtsikanayo angasankhe yekha.
- kunyengerera kugonana, ndiyeno musiye
- khalani okondana ndi inu nokha, ndikusiya
- yesetsani kukwatira
Ndiye ndi mavuto otani amene amayamba mkazi asanasankhe, kunyenga wozunzidwayo?
Ndipotu, mzimayi ali pachibwenzi choyamba, amakhala wovuta kuposa amuna. Ndipotu, sitepe yoyamba imapangidwa ndi mwamuna, ndipo pamene ndi mkazi - taganizirani momwe izi zilili zachilendo komanso zosangalatsa.
Ndipo ngakhale atakukondani, palibe amene adzakuchotsani - adzakopetsa mwamuna wakeyo.
Pafupifupi chithunzi chomwecho chokhudza kugonana. Pambuyo pake, kawirikawiri munthuyu amayamba kupita kumalo okhumudwitsa komanso kumvetsera kunyumba kwake. Ndiyeno mkaziyo ali wokonzeka kale kugonana pa tsiku loyamba. N'zosatheka kuti wina akukaneni. Chokhazikika, ndithudi, chingagwidwe kapena iwo omwe ali ovuta, adzakudabwitsanso ndi chipiriro chanu ndipo akhoza kukanidwa. Koma, mwatsoka kapena, mwatsoka, kwambiri, kuti mukhoze kugonana popanda mavuto.
Ndi nkhani ina ngati muli ndi ndondomeko zazikulu kwambiri - kupeza munthu kuti akupatseni mwayi. Padzakhala thukuta, chifukwa kudziŵa ndi kunyengerera n'kosavuta kusiyana ndi kusunga ndi kupanga.
Mulimonsemo, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso ndi luso lanu lonse, penyani masitepe awiri, ndikuwongolera ndikuwoneka ngati mukufuna chidwi pa chinthucho. Ndipo mwamuna ayenera kuganiza kuti iyi ndi njira yomwe akutsogolera osati inu.
Kotero, tiyeni tipite mwachindunji ku zidule za chitukuko cha amai, zomwe, ndithudi, zidzawonjezera ku chinyengo chanu chachinyengo.
1. Kondweretsa, koma wodziimira. Aloleni akuwoneni, mulole akuone kumwetulira kwanu ndi zomwe mumakondweretsa ena. Palibe manja amanjenjemera (ziboda zokopa pa chifuwa, zala zogwirizana, ndi zina zotero). Pano chikhazikitso chimakhala ndi ntchito yaikulu - mapewa owongoka ndi olunjika adzanena zambiri.
2. Khalani chete, khalani chete. Azimayi ambiri, akamakonda munthu amaiwala makalata ndi mawu a Chirasha, amatha kugwidwa ndipo amakhala ngati ana. Izi sizingaloledwe. Khalani chete. Zimakhala kuti mutangotsala ndi mphindi zingapo kuti muponyenso lasso wosaoneka pa chinthucho, sipadzakhala mwayi wachiwiri, ngati mukuchita mantha, mumasokonezeka, kapena musiye. Kuda mwazi ndi mnzanu.
3. Tumizani chizindikiro. Ngakhale muli okongola, okongola, okongola, ndi zina zotero. "Adzadziwa bwanji ngati sakukuonani?" Tumizani kuwala koima. Chinthu chophweka ndicho kugwira maso ndi kumwetulira. Mukhoza kugwetsa chinthu pafupi ndi icho, kuti icho chithandizeni kukweza, ndi zina zotero. Koma musadwale kwambiri kuti kuyesayesa kwanu kusayambe kukhala wopusa.
4. Yang'anani 100%! Aliyense amadziwa mwangwiro zomwe zovala zimapangitsa amuna kulikonse kumvetsera kwa iwe: Zovala zowongoka, malaya owala ndi mapepala okongola, zidendene zapamwamba, ndi zina zotero. Musasamalire maonekedwe ndi tsitsi. Koma! Chilichonse chiyenera kukhala chogwirizana komanso choyenera kutero. Yang'anirani zodabwitsa ndi zofunikira! Pankhaniyi, osati wodwalayo, koma ena onse adzakumverani - ndipo izi zidzathandiza kwambiri nkhaniyi!
5. Kukambirana koyamba. Pamene munayamba kumukopa, pause pakati pa mphindi ino ndi zokambirana zoyamba zisakhale zazikulu! Lankhulani momasuka, mwamtendere ndi momveka! Ndikofunika kuti adzichita nawo zokambirana pang'ono kuposa inu. Pa nthawi imene mumaseka chifukwa cha nthabwala zake, mutha kukhudza dzanja lake mwachikondi. Kawirikawiri, musaiwale za kukhudza.
6. Ganizirani zomwe mumanena. Musamuuze mwamuna tsiku loyamba, makamaka ngati mukufuna kugonana, ndi ana angati omwe mukufuna, ndi amuna angati omwe mumakhala nawo, kumbukirani - anthu ndi zolengedwa zamanyazi, komanso ngakhale "Chabwino, mwangopita kwa ine"? mantha ndi kukankhira!
7. Nenani zothokoza. Kumbukirani kuti munthu wocheperako amamuyamikira kuposa mkazi. Ndikofunika kuti iwo amve ngati apadera, apadera. Komabe, musapitirire. Phatikizani malingaliro ndi kunena chomwe akufuna kuti amve, malingana ndi nthawi, malo ndi chilengedwe.
Kuthokozedwa ndi njira yofunika kwambiri yogwirira galimoto yamwamuna ndi wamkazi. Kodi ndizolondola bwanji kuti muzichita izo?
Choyamba, m'pofunika kumvetsetsa kuti zoyamikirira za abambo ndi amai zimakhala ndi tanthauzo losiyana komanso lofunika kwambiri. Ngati kwa akazi ndi gawo loyambirira la zosangalatsa ndi chitonthozo kwa amuna ndizitsogolere kuchitapo kanthu. M'mawu anu musakhale opanda pake ndi tanthauzo losamveka. Ganizirani zachinsinsi.
Mwachitsanzo, "zomwe ine ndiri nazo zokongola, zomwe muli nazo ndizolimba" - izi ndizolephera kwathunthu, koma "wow, mumagwira ntchito mogwiritsira ntchito". Komanso, zotsatirazi zikugwira ntchito mwachindunji: pamene muthokoza, tchepetsani mawu anu mwatcheru - mudzawona, izi zigwira ntchito nthawi yomweyo.
Kuyamikila kuyenera kukhala KUKHULUPIRIRA, kapena, pofotokozedwa ndi 100% moona mtima. Kunena kuti kuyamikira pa bedi sikofunikira.
Koma! Musamamvetsere ndi munthu-iwo sakonda izo. Simukusowa kunyalanyaza mwakuya - imangowonongeka ndipo muyeso wanu umasowa pomwepo. Zithokozo zambiri zimakhala zoipitsitsa kusiyana ndi kupezeka kwawo. Kumbukirani izi. Nthawi zonse muyenera kudziwa chiyeso. Lankhulani momveka bwino ndi momveka bwino, palibe cholakwika.
Koposa zonse, pamene mumakhala ndi chifundo ndi malingaliro abwino kwa mnzanuyo. Pachifukwa ichi, njira zogwira munthu zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mugwire ntchito.
Chirichonse chinapangidwa kale kwambiri ndi chirengedwe. Amuna a mitundu yambiri ya zinyama ndi zazikulu kwambiri kuposa akazi. Ndipo pa masewera olimbitsa thupi, amafalitsa nthenga ndikusintha imodzi, kenako imzake. Kumbukirani izi. Musanayambe woimira zamoyo zathu. Iye ndi wamwamuna. Choncho, tamandani ndikumusangalatsa. Kuseka ndi kuvomereza. Koma! Musati muwerenge - sitikusowa kuti tizinyoza.
Pali njira yowonekera ngati galasi. Nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi ogulitsa ogula kugula katundu. Tanthauzo lake ndi kubwereza mawu ndi zofotokozera za interlocutor. Kupyolera mu izi, iye ali ndi lingaliro la umodzi ndi inu. Mwachitsanzo, iye adatsamira kumbuyo pa mpando wake - wotsamira ndipo mudasunthira pafupi - chitani chimodzimodzi. Mwachibadwa, yesetsani kuchita izi mogwirizana.
Musaiwale kuti wojambula chojambula, mu nkhani iyi, inu, osati iye. Ndipo vutoli likukutsogolerani, ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti akuwongolera njirayi. Phunzirani kuyang'ana-phunzirani kulamulira mtunda pakati pa inu. Kumbukirani kuti kukhudzana kwamtundu ndi kofunika kwambiri.
Zosangalatsa, malingaliro anga, ndemanga - zonsezi sizigwirizana ndi pikapersham okha, komanso akazi okwatirana, chifukwa kuchotsa ndi kunyengerera mwamuna wanu - ntchitoyi ndi yophweka kwambiri. Mudzasowa kuleza mtima kwakukulu, malingaliro a machenjerero ndi machenjerero, chifukwa ganizirani chomwe chiri, patapita zaka zambiri zogonera pamodzi zimamupangitsanso kukuwonani mumkaka wonyengerera, wamphongo, wotentha. Ndipo ndi ntchito yanu kuti mwamuna wake ayang'ane pa inu ndi maso ndi kuganiza mosiyana: "Kodi uyu ndi mkazi wanga?" Chifukwa chiyani sindinazione izi kale? ". Mwa njira! Ntchito yotereyi yomaliza ndi yopindulitsa kwambiri pa moyo wanu wa banja limodzi. Palibe chabwino kuposa banja labwino, limene okwatirana ndi abwenzi abwino komanso okonda kwambiri!
Kulemekezedwa, kupweteka usiku ndi kupatsa kwa amuna!