Pa ulendo wobwera kwa anzanu kapena, kunena kuti, kuntchito, mumakumana ndi munthu yemwe amawoneka wokongola, ndipo samakhala osauka, komanso amatsenga, komanso amatha kusonkhanitsa, monga momwe munachitira ali mwana. Ndiuzeni, chifukwa chiyani si mkwati? Mwatsoka, pali vuto limodzi lokha: kalonga wamatsenga sakukuganizirani. Chabwino, ndiye mudzafunika kutenga zonsezi m'manja mwanu. Nazi njira zomwe mungapezere munthu?
Ikani pambali kukayika.
Mukukayikira, koma kodi mukufunikira kuyesa kupambana mtima wake? Inde, mukufunikira, pambuyo pa zonse, simudzasowa kanthu. Kuti mukhale ndi nkhope yosangalatsa ya masewera oipa mumakhala ndi nthawi nthawi zonse, mwachitsanzo, kunena kuti: "Tidakangana ndi chibwenzi kuti simukukonda kwenikweni." Ndikuganiza kuti ndapambana! " Mukhoza kukhala otsimikiza kuti pali amuna ochepa amene angathe kumvetsera mwachidwi mawu oterewa. Zodabwitsa, sizingatanthauzidwe kuti kuyesa kwanu kwa nthawi yayitali, kopanda phindu kuti muyang'ane naye, pamapeto pake, kudzakhala korona yopambana ndipo mutheka kupambana munthu.
Khalani mabwenzi poyamba.
Iyi ndi njira yakale, yoyesedwa nthawi - kukhala wokondedwa ndi wabwino kwambiri wa wosankhidwa wanu. Nthawi zonse tiwonetsere ubwino wake, mvetserani mwatcheru ndikudandaula ndikuyesani kupereka malangizo othandiza, kuthandizira kuthetsa mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku - m'mawu, kumudziwa kuti muli nthawi zonse, ndipo akhoza kukuyembekezerani nthawi zovuta. Mukhoza kugawana nawo chilakolako chake, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi chinachake chokamba, ndipo motero, mutha kugonjetsa munthu mwamsanga. Inde, m'zinthu zonse muyenera kuyesetsa kuchita bwino, osagwira ntchito ya mtsikana m'njira zina. Musaiwale, ndinu bwenzi, osati konse antchito kapena fani, kotero chitani ulemu wanu.
Ngati wokondedwa wanu anena / anachita mawu amodzi opanda ulemu, tikukulangizani kuti mutsirizitse chiyanjanochi - panthawi ina, "kuzunzika milioni" ndi "kuphompho kwa manyazi" kwapatsidwa kwa inu. Komabe, ngati ubwenziwo ulipodi, ndiye kuti zonse zimayenda motsatira ndondomeko, ndipo ndi nthawi yoti muyambe kukhazikitsa gawo lomaliza. Pofuna kuti munthu apambane, ndipo sizingakhale zodabwitsa, kudzakhala kokwanira kupita kutchuthi, kumene mungapume mpumulo musanafike pamtima womaliza. Ngati mutabwerera mudzakumananso ndi manja ndi mawu omasuka: "Momwe mukuwonekera, mukudziwa, ndikukusowa," mungaganize kuti mphamvu zakhala zikudziwika bwino.
Njira zosiyana.
Ndizotheka, mwa njira, kuchita mosiyana, iyi ndi njira yeniyeni yosiyana ya momwe mungapambitsire munthu. Konzani okondedwa anu okonda kusiyana, mosamalitsa kusuntha kukhumba kwambiri ndi kukhumudwa kosatheka. Choyamba inu mumakhala patsogolo pake momasuka, mukugogomezera ulemu wa zovala, kukondana ndi iye, kupenyetsa kumveka ndi kusonyeza khalidwe lanu lonse: "Wokondedwa, uyenera kutero, ndipo pano_ndiwe wako!"
Patapita kanthawi (ndikofunikira kusankha nthawi yoyenera), mumasintha khalidwe lanu mosiyana kwambiri ndi maonekedwe: muli okonzeka m'maganizo onse a mawu, ndipo mafunde ozizira omwe amabwera kuchokera kwa inu akhoza kuwombera ngakhale winterer wokonzekera. Ndiyeno wosankhidwa wanu, mwina, amadabwa chifukwa chake mwakumana ndi vuto lofanana.
Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe adakugwirirani poyamba, adzalangidwa chifukwa chakuti mwadzidzidzi anasiya kulambira kwanu. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti inu ndi makadi onse omwe muli m'manja mwanu: mutatha kupuma pang'ono, muyenera kudzichepetsa kwa mnzanu wosauka, kumwetulira mwachikondi, kuyamba kukambirana momasuka, ndipo ngati zitatha zonsezi, ubale usayandikire, mwatsoka, muyenera kuvomereza kuti ndipo kwenikweni osati molingana ndi kukoma kwake, ndiyeno izo zidzakhala pafupifupi zosatheka kupambana munthu. Ndipo mwa njira, poyamba mumamvetsa izi, ndibwino kwa inu-mkazi yemwe, kwa zaka zambiri osamutsatira mwamuna, ndikumvetsa chisoni.