Mafunso awa amazunza maganizo a anthu ambiri. Ngakhale, akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti nthawi zina chiwonongeko chimalimbikitsa mgwirizano.
Tiyeni tiwone chifukwa chake anyamata amayenda kuchokera kwa atsikana awo?
Anyamata akuyenda kuchokera kwa atsikana awo, chifukwa samangoyenda kapena sadzipeza okha. Amafuna kudziwa zosadziwika ndikumvetsa zomwe moyo uli.
Kuyendayenda kuchokera pa kudzikayikira, kusatsimikizika za luso lawo la kugonana. Mnyamata amanyengerera chibwenzi chake, potero akudziwonetsera yekha kuti amai ambiri angakonde ndipo, chofunikira kwambiri, angathe ndipo amasangalatsa atsikana ena. Amawonjezera kudzidalira, amadzikulira yekha.
Anyamata akuyenda kuchokera kwa atsikana awo chifukwa makadi akugona. Chimene chimatchedwa kugwirizana chabe ndizofala kwambiri chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika. Ndipotu, mnyamatayu sangayambe kugonana naye kumbali, koma ndi momwe zinthu zinalili.
Chiwembu chimayambanso chifukwa chakuti mnyamata akufuna kukupweteketsani. Mwinamwake iye alibe chisamaliro chokwanira ndi chikondi kuchokera kwa inu. Kuchita masewera ndi atsikana ena, amawotcha moto wachisomo mwa inu.
Anyamata akuyenda chifukwa cha mikangano ya mkati mwa awiri. Mipikisano ndi nkhanza, zipsyinjo zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi zonse komanso kusefukira - ponyani anyamata m'manja mwa atsikana ena. Pankhaniyi, asungwana akhoza kulangizidwa kuti asinthe khalidwe lawo, ayambe kuyamikira ndi kukonda wokondedwa wawo.
Kusakhutira pa kugonana ndi chifukwa chofunikira kwambiri chomwe anyamata amayenda kuchokera kwa atsikana awo. Mnyamata akuyang'ana njira yokhutiritsa zosowa zake zogonana. Chifukwa cha kusakhutira kapena kusagonana ndi mnzanu, mnyamatayo akufunafuna kugwirizana kunja kwa chipinda.
Anyamata akhoza kuyenda chifukwa ali ndi zochepa zogonana. Mwachitsanzo, izi zimachitika mwa awiriwa, komwe mtsikanayo ali kale kwambiri, ndipo mnyamata - posakhalitsa anasiya ubwana wake. Chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kwake, mnyamatayu ayesera kuphunzira zambiri, kuti asamachite manyazi ndi mnzake.
Ngati mnyamata ndi mtsikana amakhala limodzi, ndiye kuti munthu angapereke chinyengo chifukwa cha moyo wa kunyumba. Kwa iye, mtsikana ndi chizoloŵezi. Kunyumba, kugwira ntchito, kunyumba, kugwira ntchito - kuchokera kumtunda wotero mwamuna amasiya mutu wake ndikuyesera kumasula ufulu kumbali.
Kubwezera. Ngati munthuyo akukhumudwa, mumamupweteka kapena mumamupusitsa - adzakhala wokonzeka kuchita chiwembu. Zoonadi, kuchita kotere sikungatchedwe kuti ndi munthu wamkulu komanso munthu wanzeru. Kuperewera kwake - unyamata ndi zochitika zazing'ono. Mnyamatayo sanafike poti pangakhale vuto lililonse kapena kusakhutira ndi chibwenzi chake.
Kusalephera pa moyo waumwini kapena kuntchito, maganizo opsinjika-zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhulupirika. Mnyamata, wotopa ndi gulu lakuda la moyo, osapeza chithandizo m'maganizo a mtsikana wake, ayamba kufunafuna njira zina zochokeramo. Nthawi zambiri, njirayi ndi bedi losadabwitsa.
Atsikana, ngati mukuganiza kuti mnyamata wanu wamwano, muyenera kuganiziranso ubale wanu ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa: kodi mukumufuna? Kodi mwakonzeka kumukhululukira chifukwa cha kuperekedwa kwake? Ngati mungandikhululukire, zidzasintha mwanjira yabwino.
Ndikoyenera kuyankhula za chirichonse ndi mnyamata. Aloleni afotokoze chifukwa chake adapeza njira yotereyi - chiwembu. Malingana ndi momwe angalankhulire ndi inu ndi kutsogolera, ngati muwona kuti akulapa ndikuyamikira chiyanjano chanu - pezani zogwirizana.
Osati wokhumudwa, koma nthawi zambiri, poperekedwa kwa mnzanu, onsewo ndi omwe amakuimba mlandu.