Ochita kafukufuku pa yunivesite ya Pisa, ku Italy, adapeza chifukwa chake chilakolako cha pakati pa anzawo chikuchepa. Zonse zokhudzana ndi mahomoni-neutrophils. Kumayambiriro kwa bukuli, mlingo wawo wa magazi ndi wapamwamba kwambiri, koma patapita nthawi umachepa. Ndipo chilakolako chimapitirirabe. Komabe, akatswiri a zamaganizo amatsimikiza kuti kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa zilakolako sizikutanthauza kuti nthawi yabwino pamoyo wawo ndi kale. Ubale ufike kumtunda wosiyana, khulupirirani kwambiri.
Mukudziwa kuti m'thupi lanu pali mfundo zachinsinsi, zomwe zimakhudza mvula. Ndi momwe mungapezere iwo? Mwamuna wokondedwa waphunzira kale momwe angakondweretsere iwe. Iye ali ndi njira zingapo zopambana-kupambana zomwe nthawizonse zimatsogolera ku zotsatira. Koma apa pali zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi inu - nthawi iliyonse yomwe amatsatira njira yomweyo: choyamba kukumbatirana ndikupsompsona, kenako kumamenyetsa pachifuwa ndi m'mimba. Zingamvetsedwe, chifukwa izi ndizozigawo zofala kwambiri. Mnyamata wanu watha kale njira yakufulumira kukukondweretsani ndipo akuwopa zoyesera. Koma inu mukufuna kudziwa china chatsopano cha malo anu ovuta! Momwe mungamulimbikitsire mnzanu mukufufuza malo obisika?
Zigawo zam'mlengalenga zikufanana ndi mapiri. Pali okhudzidwa ndi "olembedwa kuchokera ku theka lamasana", pali "kugona" ndi "kugona". Inde, pali mapu ofotokozera omwe amadziwika bwino kwambiri pa thupi la mwamuna ndi mkazi. Koma ogonana ndi abambo amakhulupirira kuti: chirichonse chiri chokha. Mwina simungaganize kuti izi kapena izi zikukuchititsani kupenga mpaka wokondedwa wanu akakukhudzani pa nthawi yoyenera komanso m'njira yoyenera. Nthawi zina munthu sangathe kuzindikira zowonongeka chifukwa chakuti ali m'malo osakhala ofunika. Mwachitsanzo, ikhoza kukhala mawondo, mitsempha kapena khungu pamsana pakati pa mapewa (omwe amatchedwa "malo a paka"). Nthawi zina zosangalatsa zimayambitsidwa osati chifukwa chokhazika mtima pansi, koma, mosiyana ndi zimenezo, zimakhala zovuta kumenyetsa kapena kuzimitsa. Mwa njira, pamene wokonda wanu wopanda chifundo akukugwedezani pa ntchafu kapena mofulumira akukoka pakhosi, iye amayesera kudzutsa madera olakwika. Mufunseni kuti achite izo m'chipinda chogona, osati pamene muthamangira kupita kukakhitchini kuti mukawotche.
Kukopa bwenzi lanu kuti apeze malo amatsenga chabe, chifukwa anthu onse ndi ofufuza za chirengedwe. Ndi zokwanira kunena kuti: "Wokondedwa, simunayambe ndikuwona zomwe ndingathe kuchita." Tiyeni tiyesere, ndipo ndikukonzerani usiku wotentha! " Kumbukirani: zosangalatsa zimasintha maganizo awo mowa mwauchidakwa. Iwo sangadzutse ngati muli wotopa kapena mukuganiza zina. Kuti mutsegule mapu anu osiyana, muyenera kumverera. Lolani pakufufuza kwanu mfundo "X" mwamuna wanu amatsatira mfundo zitatu:
- Yambani kukonda chikondi kumakhala kosafunika.
- Pakati pa caress muyenera kufufuza malo onse omwe akuyesedwa komanso osadziwika pa thupi.
- Musathamangire ku zotsatira.
Zonse zakhudza ziyenera kukhala zoyera komanso zoyera. Mloleni akupatseni inu ngati mphaka wamkulu. Ndipo pamene mutayankha kukhudza koyamba, mutha kuyesa kwambiri. Lolani wokondedwa wanu kuti adutse njira yodziwika bwino ya makina oyambirira - koma ndi maulendo okongola omwe akuzungulira. Amakupsompsonani pamapewa, kotero mukhoza kugwadira ndikuyika mbiya yonyenga pansi pa milomo yanu. Ndani akudziwa, mwadzidzidzi zigwira ntchito? Orgasm ndizizizira kwambiri. Koma ngati mutavomereza kuti musafulumire, mudzapeza kuti makina oyenerera amachititsa chidwi kwambiri. Musati muleke kuyang'anizana wina ndi mzake ndi nthawi yachiyanjano. Mwinamwake kuti mupeze chisangalalo chodabwitsa kwambiri mu moyo wanu, simunangompsompsona m'khutu lanu panthawi yoyenera.
Mukhoza kuphunzira wina ndi mzake malinga ndi momwe mumakonda. Musamangoganizira nthawi. Onse amayesera kusonyeza malingaliro. Njira yowonekera ingathandize kuti moyo wapamtima ukhale wowala komanso wokhutira kwambiri. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, kufufuza malo olakwika kungasinthidwe kukhala masewera achikondi okondweretsa. Choyamba, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito njira zotsatirazi pofufuza malo olakwika:
- Mumabwereza zonse zomwe mumagwira mnzanuyo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti wokondedwa amalandira kuchokera kwa inu zomwe mumapatsa. Ichi ndi masewera othandiza kwambiri, chifukwa mwa njira iyi bwenzi lanu limakupatsani chisangalalo, komanso limakupatsani inu zinsinsi zonse zolakwika za thupi lanu.
- Gwirizanitsani nthawi yoyamba kugwirana ndi milomo yanu, koma m'njira zosiyanasiyana: modekha, mwamphamvu, ndi kuluma. Tsiku lotsatira, musinthe malamulo: tsopano manja okha ndi omwe akuphatikizidwa - ndipo palibe kupsompsona. Kachitatu muli ndi ufulu wokondana wina ndi mnzake, koma osati zala zanu. Kodi mukuganiza kuti izi sizingatheke? Koma taganizirani momwe mwapang'onopang'ono mumataya tsaya lanu m'mimba mwanu. Masewera oterewa amangothandiza kutseguka kuchokera ku zosayembekezereka, komanso kumadzetsa madera osokonezeka omwe akugona.
Chodabwitsa kwambiri, mungathe kudziwa za malo anu ovuta kwambiri m'maloto. Panthawiyi, chidziwitso chimathandiza kuthetsa mavuto a ubongo monga maloto, makamaka - zolaula. Mwa njira, amayi pafupifupi 90% ndi amayi 70% amawona maloto osakondweretsa. Koma mosiyana ndi abambo a amayi ogonana amphamvu amapereka kufunika kofunika kwambiri. Musamvetsetse chithunzi chowonekera mwachindunji. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, zochitika zogonana ndi munthu yemwe simukumudziwa sizinalankhule za khalidwe lanu loipa. Mwachidziwikire, mumangomva kusakhutira ndi mnzanu - mu maloto maganizo osamvetsetseka amalowetsamo ndi woyenera woyenera. Usiku wamkuntho wa chilakolako ndi wokondedwa wakale umangonena kuti mukuyesa kuyerekeza ubale wakale ndi buku lanu latsopano.
Monga mukuonera, kufufuza malo ofala komanso osadziwika bwino kungasanduke masewera achikondi okondweretsa. Ndizosiyana komwe timaphonya nthawi zambiri pabedi ndi mnzathu.