Kuganizira za kugonana ndi mkazi, omwe amaimira kugonana kolimba nthawi zambiri amaimira mbuye wokonda kwambiri, okonzeka kugonana nthawi iliyonse komanso pamalo aliwonse omwe akukhumba kugwira basi. Izi zimayesa kutipangitsa kuti ifeyo tizilumikize, koma ndi kutali kwambiri ndi chikazi. Inde, amayi mwa njira zawo okha ndi osasinthasintha komanso okondana, koma panjira yopita kuntchito akusowa kwambiri. Pofuna kuganizira zolakalaka zachikondi, chidziwitso chachikazi chimagwirizanitsidwa kwambiri ndi lingaliro la "chilakolako" mosakayikira kuphunzira zida zake ndi zinsinsi.
Thandizo
Chigololo chachikazi, monga chochitika cha thupi, chimaimira nthawi yovuta kwambiri yokhudza kugonana komwe kumachitika minofu ya mitsempha ya nyumbayo, yomwe imatsagana ndi mafunde okondweretsa omwe amasiyana ndi thupi lonse. Kupitiliza kufotokozera izi, zikhoza kunenedwa kuti zilakolako zochepetsera zazimayi zimakhala ndi chisamaliro chapadera, kuthetsa chisangalalo cha amuna.
Chochititsa chidwi ndi chakuti mkazi sanaphunzire kupeza zolaula kwa nthawi yayitali. Kuyambira pa chikhalidwe cha biology, kuti pakhale mimba ndi kupitirizabe kukhala ndi thanzi labwino monga chiwonongeko sichifunikira konse. Nanga nchifukwa ninji akazi adaphunzira kusangalala ndi kugonana? Mwinamwake, chifukwa cha kukula kwa uzimu ndi chilakolako, pambuyo pake, zowawa zapweteka zathandiza amayi kuti asankhe bwino bambo awo kwa ana awo.
Orgasm si aliyense
Ndikumva chisoni kwambiri, osati onse omwe amaimira akazi akhoza kuwona zowawa. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, 30-40% za maubwenzi apamtima samabweretsa chisangalalo kapena ndizochepa. Mwa njira, ngakhale amayi omwe ali ndi luso lotha kuzindikira chisangalalo, musasangalale nthawi iliyonse pamene mukugonana. Ngati mumakhulupirira malingaliro okhudza kugonana, ngati mtsikana samagonana kuyambira zaka 20 mpaka 23, izi zimawoneka ngati zachilendo, koma kusowa kwa chiwerewere ndi kugonana nthawi zonse pambuyo pa zaka 25 ndi kuphwanya.
Chigololo chachikazi nthawi zonse chimalakalaka ndi chowala
Osati kokha, chidziwitso chazimayi nthawi zonse chimachitika pa zovuta osati zokhudzana ndi thupi, komanso mkhalidwe wamaganizo. Malingana ndi maganizo a maganizo, ubwino wa mphuno umadalira mkhalidwe wa mkazi. Ngati mayi akuda nkhawa ndi chinachake, sangathe kusangalala. Koma mu zakuthupi dongosolo chirichonse ndi zovuta kwambiri komanso zosokoneza. Choyamba, izi zili choncho chifukwa chakuti, oimira anthu omwe ali ofooka akhoza kukhala ndi mitundu yosiyana siyana ya ubongo (ukazi, uterine, clitoral, orgasm ya G-mfundo) mwamphamvu, nthawi ndi kuuma.
Osati onse mwakamodzi
Monga lamulo, amai samapezeka kawirikawiri pamene ayamba kugonana. Kukhala paubwenzi wapamtima kunayamba kubweretsa chisangalalo cha mkazi, ayenera kukhala ndi chidziwitso chogonana ndikukwanira kuti aphunzire thupi lake. Msungwana wopanda zochitika zoterozo ndi kovuta kukhala wokondwa ndi kusangalala.
Chisangalalo ndi chikondi chonse
Chikhumbo chenicheni cha chilakolako ndi chisangalalo mkazi akhoza kutenga kokha ngati akumva kukhudzika kwa wokondedwa. Akaziwa ndi osiyana ndi amuna omwe angasangalale popanda kumva.
Kuyimira zolaula
Akazi amadziwa kuchita bwino kwambiri, osapangitsa anthu kukhala ndi zifukwa zina. Mwanjirayi, dona amadzutsa kudzilemekeza kwa munthu ndikufotokozera zomwe zimamuchitikira.
Chimake ndi kusamba
Zomwe zimapangidwira zimadalira nyengo ya msambo. Pakatikatikatikatikatikati, mzimayi amakhala ndi chisangalalo chachikulu, ndipo nthawi zina sangathe kukhala ndi chilakolako.
Lembani m'maloto
Magulu akamachita tulo amaonedwa ngati chinthu chachibadwa cha thupi, chomwe sichigwirizana kwenikweni ndi chikhalidwe cha moyo wa kugonana pa nthawi yomwe ikukwera.
Pezani awiri
Mwachilakolako chokwanira, mkazi amatha kukhala ndi ziphuphu zingapo panthawi yochepa. Izi zimachitika chifukwa chakuti pambuyo pangoyamba, kugonana kumapitirirabe, komwe kumalimbikitsa mndandanda wa zisokonezo kapena nthawi yayitali, yomwe ikhoza kukhalapo kwa mphindi zochepa mpaka ola limodzi ndi theka.