. Kugonana kosakumbukika sikudalira kwambiri momwe abambo ogonana amachitira, monga momwe akuchitira.
Inde, mutha kuyesa zonse zomwe zimaperekedwa ndi "Kama Sutra" yotchuka komanso ngati simukudzipukuta nokha, ndiye kuti mukukumbukira zosaiwalitsa. Ndizomwe angakhale osangalatsa ndi funso.
Makhalidwe apamanja ogonana awiriwa ndi osiyana. Chifukwa chachikulu chimene chimachitika kwa kugonana kosakumbukika ndizozimene abambo onse awiri amalandira kukhutira kwa thupi ndi kukhutira. Ndipo kuti mumvetsetse mtundu wa zochitika zoyambirira, muyenera kukhala ndi chiyanjano choyandikira. Kugonana kwachiwerewere, ngakhale ndi katswiri pa bizinesi yake, sangathe kupereka zowonjezereka, zomwe zingatheke ndi munthu yemwe alibe chidwi ndi inu, ndipo simukufuna komanso osati kulandira. Ichi ndi chisangalalo chenicheni. Chotsatira ndi njira komanso palibe. Ndipo, m'njira, zimadalira mbali zina za matupi a mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Muyenera kuyesa kusankha malo abwino pa nthawi yogonana. Ndipo kawirikawiri zapangitsa kuti anyamatawa abwere. Pazifukwa zina, ali ndi quirk yomwe mkazi amasangalala ndi kugonana kwa nthawi yaitali. Aliyense amene ankanyoza iwo sadziwika. Koma chinthu chimodzi ndi chotsimikizika - chovuta kwambiri komanso chovuta kwambiri, panthawi yomwe mkazi ayenera kuyembekezera kuti ayambe kuwonetsa, ngati atachipeza. Choncho, munthu sayenera kuwerengera "nzeru" m'mabuku ambiri, koma werengani zabwino popanda kukhala ndi zochuluka zedi zogonana.
Kumeneko, monga lamulo, zochitika zosavuta monga tazitchula pamwambapa, pamalo apamwamba - maso ndi maso, wokondedwa kuchokera pamwamba - amaperekedwa kugonana. Pose ndi yabwino kugwirizanitsa zokhazokha ndi ntchito zazikulu za onse awiri. Wokondedwayo sayenera kukhala logi, ali ndi miyendo ndi manja ndi malo ena abwino, zomwe zimavuta kumunyengerera munthu. Mutha kuchoka ku malo awa kumbali yanu, komanso nkhope ndi maso. Kusintha malingaliro kungachititse kuchedwa mu nthawi ya chisokonezo. Chitsanzo chokhudza kugonana kwa ku Asia ndilo vutoli: iye ali pamabondo ake, ndipo mwamuna kumbuyo angakhalenso wabwino kusintha, koma kwa mkazi nthawi zambiri sikumakhala bwino kwambiri kuti akwaniritse zolaula, pambali pake, ntchito yake ndi yoperewera, ndipo manja ake amathandiza. Mwamuna amalamulira zonsezi. Izi sizingatheke kupereka mkazi yemwe ali ndi chilakolako chosakumbukira. Koma amuna amakonda kugonana pachikhalidwe ichi. Komabe n'zotheka kubweretsa vutoli ngati wokondedwayo akukhala, ndipo wokondedwayo amakhala pansi m'chiuno mwake. Zimatengera luso linalake. Ngati mkazi ali wamng'ono ndipo mwamuna ali ndi mphamvu zokwanira, mungasinthe malowa kukhala osiyana: Wokondedwayo amayimilira ndi kumuthandiza mnzakeyo m'manja mwake m'chiuno. Palibe nthawi yothetsera kugonana. Kupanikizika kofulumira ndi zovuta kwambiri.
Ndikofunika kusankha choyenera osati kungochita zogonana. Ndipotu, ndi mawu akuti "kugonana" timakonda kumvetsa "kupanga chikondi." Ndipo ndi chikondi chanji chomwe chingakhale popanda kugwirizanitsa ndi kupsompsonana. Mphunzitsi, otchedwa, "pose 69" ndipo mudzapeza chisangalalo chosakumbukika kuchokera kumagulu awiri omwe amapezeka m'madera ovuta kwambiri. Ikhoza ngakhale kupita ku zisokonezo. Yesani, sankhani ndipo musadandaule kuti musagonana, monga zolaula. Kumeneko zamorochki. Iwo sakukufuna iwe. Gwiritsani ntchito zokha zokondweretsa inu nonse. Ndipo musazengereze kukamba za zofuna zanu kapena zosiyana.
Mwachidule, "dzifunseni nokha, dzipangire nokha" malo omwe mumatenga.