Momwe mungapangire munthu kuti asaiwale usiku wa kugonana

Chodabwitsa, koma patapita nthawi, mu chiyanjano cha okondedwa kumabwera nthawi yomwe mwamuna ndi mkazi ali kutali kwambiri pa dongosolo lauzimu. Makamaka zimakhudzana ndi kugonana. Ndimagwirizano omwe ambiri amakwatirana, kumene amachita zonse zomwe zingathe kubwezeretsa chilakolako choyambirira ndi chikhumbo kwa onse awiri. Momwe mungachitire muzochitika zoterozo komanso momwe mungapangire munthu kuti asayiwale usiku wa kugonana, ndipo malingaliro akale ndi chilakolako adakumananso ndi awiriwa ndi mitu yawo ndikubwezeretsa mgwirizano wawo mu moyo wapamtima?

Kodi mungakulangize chiyani? Choyamba, simukufunikira kubweretsa usiku uliwonse kugonana kunali kozoloŵera komanso kosasangalatsa. Izi zinanenedwa nthawi zambiri ndi azimayi ambiri ogonana pazinthu zawo zamasayansi ndi mabuku. Koma, komabe, maanja ambiri pa malo oyamba ndi wamba ndi wosakhutira mu gawo la moyo wapamtima. Koma kuti musiye chizoloŵezi ichi, zangokwanira kuti musiyanitse kugonana kwanu ndipo saopa kuyesera pankhaniyi. Ndipo kuti bwanayo asayiwale usiku wokonda, ndipo akufuna kuti apitirize, ife, amayi, tikuyenera kuyesetsa kwambiri pa izi. Choyamba, musataye mtima, ngati simukubwera ndi maganizo alionse, yesetsani kulingalira pa mutu uwu. Ife timatsimikizira kuti malingaliro a kugonana kosatheka adzakumbukira nthawi, ndipo mukhoza kuwatsatira. Choncho, timatsimikiza kuti mwamunayo sakuiwala usiku wa kugonana ndikukufunsani zambiri.

Choyamba, muyenera kudziyesera nokha fano la slag yazimayi. Ndikoyenera, kudzikonda nokha, mkazi wokonda kwambiri, mungathe kupeza munthu wanu, kupereka maganizo anu piquancy, ndi usiku uliwonse, kutembenukira ku marathon kwenikweni. Kumbukirani kuti pali njira zambiri zomwe mkazi angakhale chirichonse kwa wokondedwa wake. Choncho sitiyenera kukulimbikitsani kukhala munthu wodzichepetsa ndikugona pabedi. Sonyezerani kwa iye maluso anu onse okhudzana ndi kugonana kwa zana limodzi ndi kutsimikizira kwa mwamuna kuti ndinu weniweni wa minx ndi wochita zonyenga. Ndikhulupirire, sangakuiŵale iwe monga chonchi ndipo adzachifuna tsiku lililonse.

Zosangalatsa zokongola .

Kotero, inu mukufuna kuti usiku wa chikondi chanu usaiwalidwe ndi kupambana mu mphamvu zonse za mawu, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mphatso yamtengo wapatali yotere yaumunthu monga nthano. Tembenuzani malingaliro anu ndi kulenga! Pitani ku chipinda chowonetseramo zovala zapamwamba ndikugula masewera angapo osowa. Kuphatikizanso apo, mukhoza kuchita chinthu chachilendo ndi kugula mthunzi wamdima, ndikuupereka kwa akatswiri, kotero kuti iwo amachititsa juicy kuti muyambe kulemba. Zolembedwerazi ndizomwe simudzaiŵala, koma adzakhumudwa kwambiri ndi malingaliro anu. Mwa njira, ngati mulibe mwayi wothandizira akatswiri kuti "apende" zovala zanu zamkati, mungathe kuzichita nokha. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kupeza mitundu yonse ya zinthu zojambula (zolemba, zizindikiro, zojambula). Pa mapaintiti mukhoza kulemba chidwi "mawu" omwe sangasiye wokondedwa wanu popanda chidwi. Mwamuna adzasangalala kwambiri ndi izi. Ndiziwoneka ngati zazing'ono kuti kugonana kolimba kumadziwika ngati chizindikiro chenicheni kuchitidwe chosatsutsika. Pambuyo pachisangalalo usiku amupatse iye zovala izi zapansi ndipo mwamunayo adzakumbukira zonse zomwe zinachitika.

Malemba, monga chizindikiro cha kugonana .

Pezani chithunzi cha kanthaŵi kochepa komanso makamaka pamalo apamtima. Iyi ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yopangira fuse ndi chilakolako cha mwamuna. Kuchokera pa zizindikiro zotero mnyamata angapeze chisangalalo chachikulu. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti munthu sakudziwa kalikonse, ndipo izi zinali zosangalatsa kwa iye. Ndikhulupirireni, mkhalidwe uno, ngakhale mnyamata wosakondwa adzasangalala kwambiri ndi ntchito yojambula pa thupi la mkazi (kutanthauza, malo okondana). Koma nthawi zambiri sitimayamikira kupanga "zodabwitsa" zimenezi. Popanda kutero, njira yowonjezera kugonana kwanu mu moyo wapamtima idzawonongeka. Choncho masewera, koma musamakonde. Achipatala amavomereza kuti azichita zizindikiro zochepetsera kamodzi pachaka.

Tidzachita maloto enieni .

Njira ina yochepetsera kugonana usiku ndikutanthauza kuti ana (komanso akuluakulu samayiwala) malingaliro a munthu m'moyo. Mwachitsanzo, tonse timakonda zokoma, bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito. Pezani chokoleti (muyeso ya matayala angapo), mutapita kunyumba, sungunulani mosakanizika pamadzi osamba ndipo molimba mtima mubwere ku bizinesi. Ikani chokoleti ichi mu masewera anu achiwerewere ndi mnzanu. Tengani broshi ndikuyamba kujambula pa chokoleti chimene mumachikonda. Mwa njira, ndiye inu mukhoza kunyenga mwatsatanetsatane zithunzi izi. Ngati mnyamatayo akugwira ntchito, ndithudi adzachitapo kanthu ndikupanga zojambula zomwezo m'thupi lanu ndikuzikhomerera. Mukhozanso kuchita ndi kirimu, zipatso ndi zina zotero. Mu mawu, ndani, zomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Masewerawa amachititsa chidwi kwambiri pa moyo wapamtima. Chabwino, ngati mukufuna munthu kuti asayiwalire kugonana uku - ganizirani kuti munatha kuchita nthawi zonse.

Popanda matsenga, sipadzakhala kugonana .

Kukhulupirira zamatsenga zamatsenga za zilakolako za kugonana kwa usiku wonse wa chilakolako ndi chikondi ndi zomwe mukusowa. Mungathe kulembetsa nokha nkhaniyi ndikufunsa kuti chinthu chomwecho mwamunayo anachita (mumamupanga iye - iye kwa inu). Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti inu nonse musazengereze kulemba za zilakolako zanu zobisika zovuta, zomwe aliyense wa inu akuyenera kumasulira usiku womwe ukubwerawo m'moyo. Chinthu china chofunika ndi chakuti munthu samayiwala usiku uno, osakayikira ku zikhumbo zake (ndi zake), ndipo zonse zidzachitika ndithu.

Zotsatira zogwiritsidwa ntchito?

Kodi ndi masewera otani omwe amachititsa kugonana popanda zovala? Dzigulireni nokha mankhwala a namwino, amphaka, amayi ndi kuyamba masewera olimbitsa thupi. Njirayi sichidzakulepheretsani kukuthandizani kuti wokondedwayo asayiwale usiku wa chilakolako chanu. Kumbukirani, chinthu chachikulu ndi malingaliro, ndipo ena onse ali kale kumbuyo kwanu. Inu nokha mungapange usiku kukhala wosaiŵala komanso wokonda.