Ndi anthu ochepa chabe amene amaganiza kuti zana limodzi la kugonana ndi lochepa kwambiri. Ndithudi, zimadalira thupi labwino, koma mbali yokhudzana ndi maubwenzi imathandizanso kwambiri kugonana. Pa gulu lirilonse pali nthawi zodzaza ndi zosangalatsa za kugonana, ndipo nthawizina kuti kugonana sikukufuna. M'nkhaniyi, ndikufuna ndikuthandizani maanja onse kudziwa momwe kugonana kuli kofunika kuti onse awiri akwaniritsidwe.
Ngati awiriwa angadziwike ndi mawu oti "osagwirizana"
Pazigawo ziwirizi, onse okwatirana amakhala otsimikiza kuti ali woyenera kwa bwenzi, ndipo palibe amene angakhale pafupi naye. Amathera nthawi yawo yonse yaulere wina ndi mzake, miniti iliyonse amayesa kukhala pafupi, ziribe kanthu, kaya ndi chakudya chamasana kapena kugula mphika, amakhala nthawi zonse, nthawi zonse pamodzi.
Pa awiri awiriwa, chilakolako cha kugonana chimakhalapo nthawi zonse. Anthu omwe sagwirizana nawo sasiya chikondi chawo, ponena za kutopa kwa mutu. Amadziŵana bwino bwino, ndipo amangoti ndi momwemo. Ngati palibe chiyanjano pakati pa awiriwa tsiku limodzi, kuperewera kwake kudzakhala nthawi yotsatira.
Kwa awiri a atsikana osauka, chizoloŵezi ndi kugonana kangapo pa sabata.
Kuonetsetsa kuti maubwenzi, kuphatikizapo kugonana, sakhala chizoloŵezi chamtsogolo, wina akhoza kulangiza othandizana nawo, kutenga nawo mbali ya chiyanjano cha chiyanjano kudzera m'maseŵero owonetsera.
Ngati banjali liri sloths
Mtundu uwu umaphatikizapo maanja amene akhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yaitali. Mu maubwenzi awo, chilakolako chosagonjetsedwa chasinthidwa kale ndi chikondi chokhazikika. Muzigawo ziwirizi, chikondi chokhwima chimalamulira. Othandizana nawo, pakati pazinthu zina, amagwirizana ndi zoweta komanso ana. Ali ndi nthawi yochuluka ndi mphamvu zomwe zimachokera ku kukhazikitsidwa kwa zinthu zabwino zokhala ndi mgwirizanowo, kotero nthawi yambiri yaulere imadutsa pa sofa kuyang'ana nkhani kapena china.
Kwa awiriwa, chizoloŵezi ndi kugonana kamodzi kapena kawiri mzere.
N'zoonekeratu kuti ndi nthawi yamakono ya moyo, mphamvu za zosangalatsa nthawi zina sizikwanira, koma palibe chifukwa chosala kudya makamaka. Chifukwa chiyani nthawi zina mumakhala pafupi ndi nadivan musamawonere kanema kotsutsa. Izi sizidzangokutsogolerani, komanso zidzasokoneza maganizo onse otopa.
Ngati chiwonetsero ndi duet wa mphungu ndi nkhunda
Mu awiriwa, mtsogoleri wodziwika ndi munthu. Mayi wake ali wokondwa kwambiri ndi nyykak pambuyo pa khoma lamwala. Koma chifukwa chakuti mwamunayo ndi amene amalandira zonse, zonse zimagonjetsedwa ndi chikhalidwe chake cha moyo. Kawirikawiri muzigawo ziwirizi muli zochitika zomwe zikhumbo zokhudzana ndi kugonana mwa mmodzi mwa zibwenzi sizikwaniritsidwa nthawi zonse, chifukwa munthu amakhala wotanganidwa nthaŵi zonse kapena kuntchito.
Muzigawo ziwirizi, chizoloŵezi ndi kugonana katatu kapena kanayi kulakwitsa.
Pazigawo ziwirizi, chifukwa cha zosiyana, sizingakhale zodabwitsa ngati mkaziyo akuwonetsa polojekiti ndikuyamba kutsogolera ntchito zachikondi.
Katati ndi mphaka
Muzigawo ziwirizi, mzake ndi wokwanira. Aliyense wa iwo ali ndi zochitika zawo, ntchito yawo, kuwalola kuti akwaniritse okha, zosangalatsa zomwe zimathandiza kuthawa tsiku ndi tsiku. Onse awiriwa amakhala ngati chidwi kwa munthuyo osati pochita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Koma chofunika kwambiri, amakondana. Kuwombera kumbali ndi kusamalidwa ndi anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kumangotengera anthu osiyana nawo, ndipo onse amakondana. Banja ili ndilochita zogonana kwambiri, choncho changu chawo sichitha.
Muzigawo ziwirizi, chizoloŵezi ndi kugonana kasanu ndi kasanu ndi mzere mzere.
Iwo akhoza kungolangiza chinthu chimodzi basi. Musasewere, ndipo kumbukirani kuti onse ndi umunthu, omwe amakopeka wina ndi mzake osati mwa maonekedwe koma ndi zomwe zili.
Ziwerengero zina
Mtundu wokhudzana ndi chiwerewere ndi Chifalansa, omwe kwa chaka chimodzi amagonana nthawi zokwana 137. Koma, mtundu wochepetsetsa kwambiri ndi wa ku Japan, iwo ali okwanira 46 pachaka.
Poyambirira, malo oyamba ndi a Chingerezi, anthu okhala ku Foggy Albion amatha pafupifupi maminiti 22.5 poyambitsa mazira, Germans amathamanga mofulumira kuposa maminiti 22.2, koma a Thais omwe amatha kupaka minofu, amatha mphindi 11.5 pa chirichonse. Mwa njira, a Chingerezi amakhala osamala komanso pankhani za kugonana, amayi ambiri a Chingerezi amaona kuti amakonda okonda amuna awo.
Komanso, asayansi apanga:
- Kugonana kumadalira nyengo, kutentha pamsewu, komanso kugonana kwambiri.
- Maganizo a kugonana amuna ndi akazi amagwirizana, koma m'zaka zosiyana za moyo wawo.
- Ndipo komabe, monga ananenedwa ndi Sigmund Freud, nzeru ndizolepheretsa kugonana, pakali pano zitsimikiziridwa. Anthu anzeru kwambiri, otanganidwa kwambiri ndi okhudzidwa ndi zofuna zawo ndi zodetsa nkhaŵa zawo, kotero kuti chibadwa chokha chimangokhala chophwanyika.