Kodi munthu akugona pa kama?

Kugonana - iyi si njira yokha yoberekera, koma ndizonso zosangalatsa zachesov (zochepa zomwe sitiganizira). Nanga ndi chiyani chomwe chimapangitsa kuti kugonana kugwirizane?

Choyamba muyenera kukonda ndi kulakalaka mnzanuyo, komanso iye, ndipo kachiwiri, mukufunikira mnzanuyo kuti adziwe zomwe mukufunikira pa bedi lanu, kuti mupeze chisangalalo chokwanira, chabwino, chachitatu muyenera kudziwa chomwe wokondedwa wawo akufunikira pabedi, kotero kuti anafika pachimake cha zosangalatsa. Ngati ali ndi zikhalidwe ziwiri zoyambirira, ife, mwachibadwa, tilibe chochita, ndiye apa pali vuto lachitatu m'manja mwathu (osati kokha). Ndipo nkhaniyi iyenera kukuthandizani kumvetsa zomwe munthu amakonda pa kama.

Kuti muwone bwino, mu nkhani ino sipadzakhalanso ndondomeko yeniyeni ndi kutsogolera malangizo, kuchita choncho ndi zina zotero, chifukwa, kwa inu amene sanena, kwa munthu aliyense njira yake. Padzakhalanso uphungu wothandiza kuti mumvetse zomwe abambo akugona.

Kotero, tiyeni tipite ku uphungu.

Bungwe loyamba. Kuti mumvetse, muyenera kufunsa.

Monga mukudziwira, cholengedwa sichiri cholengedwa chabe, ndipo mwamunayo pa nkhani imeneyi ndi chimodzimodzi. Ndipo chifukwa chake, njira yosavuta yodziwira zomwe amakonda mu kugonana, mum'funse molunjika, ndipo kwa ola limodzi, msewu wowongoka ndi wochepa kwambiri. Ndipo motero sikofunika kuopa, kuti ndilingalire kapena kuwerengera ngati zonyansa kapena zosungunuka, monga zisonyezero, kusakaniza koteroko ndi kosangalatsa kwa anthu. Ndizofunika kwambiri kuti womvetsetsa amvetse, ndipo amatha kufotokoza momveka bwino mawu omwe akufuna, komanso zomwe amakonda pa bedi.

Komiti yachiwiri. Musaope kuyesa.
Njira yoyamba, maola, ndi ah nthawi zonse sizolondola pa zifukwa zambiri (kudzichepetsa, maphunziro, etc.). Pankhani imeneyi, sayansi imapulumutsa. Mu sayansi, pali njira yotere yoyesa ngati kuyesera, ndipo, monga lamulo, imapereka zotsatira zabwino kwambiri. Ndizo ndipo muyenera kuzitumikira (ndipo ndithudi mabuku ena, mafilimu kapena intaneti pa intaneti) - izi zidzakuthandizani kumvetsa zomwe munthu amakonda pa kama. Mukayamba kujambula, ndi nthawi yoyamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Limbikitsani anyamata anu, masewero atsopano, masewero okhudzana ndi masewera, okonzekera zovala zamasewero, mungathe kuyesera Garden-Mazo. Chokhacho, musayesetse zonse mwakamodzi, ndiyeno kugonana kwanu kudzasanduka zolaula zowonongeka kwambiri. Pambuyo pa zonse, ngakhale muyesero muyenera kudziwa chiyeso!

Malangizo atatu. Khalani otanganidwa kwambiri.
Monga tikudziwira, ngakhale Buratino sakonda kugona ndi log. Ndipo munthu wochokera mu thupi ndi mwazi sangathe kuyankhula. Chifukwa chake, ife amai, sitiyenera kukhala chipika, koma tikuyenera kukhala achangu, kumbukirani, kugonana bwino, ndikofunikira kuti iwo azichita nawo awiriwa. Yambani masewera a chiwerewere, kumenyana ndi munthu, kumupusitsa, kumuyatsa moto. Amuna ngati ana, mumamuuza kuti ali bwino pabedi ndipo amakhulupirira mwamsanga!

Nambala yachinayi. Khalani okongola!
Mkhalidwe pa nthawi ya chibwenzi, kwa munthu wamba, ndifunikanso. Inde, nthawi zina aliyense amafuna kuyesa, komabe, mapepala atsopano, okondweretsa, zonsezi ndizofanana ndi amuna. Pamapeto pake, ngakhale kugonana kwaukali pa tebulo lakhitchini kuli bwino komanso kosangalatsa pamene tebulo ili mkati ndipo khitchini ndi yoyera. Monga akunenera, munthu wamakono amagwiritsidwa ntchito kutonthoza, ndipo ngakhale kugonana sakufuna kusiya, ndipo izi zimafunikanso kuganiziridwa.

Mwinanso mfundo zinayi izi ndizofunikira kumvetsetsa zomwe amuna amakonda kugonana. Chifukwa, monga tanenera kale, wina amakonda chivwende, kateteti wina wa nkhumba, ndipo ntchito yathu ndi kudziwa yemwe angatumikire chakudya chamadzulo.