Chizindikiro cha kusalakwa
Kotero, pempholo linatumizidwa ku ofesi yolembera, ndipo tinauza wachibale wotsatira za chochitikacho. Chimene chayamba apa ... Ndondomeko yapita patsogolo kuti tisayimbenso kuyendetsa: zokhumba zosatheka kwambiri ndi zoganiza zimachokera kwa achibale awo. Ngati tisanafotokoze ndi kukonza, tsopano mothandizidwa ndi amayi, abambo, azibambo, amalume, ndi zina, anapita ku zochitika zinazake!
Ukwati wosakumbukika wa mkazi wamakono unayamba ndi kufunafuna kavalidwe. Kodi mungasankhe chiyani? Ndimaika zinthu: poyamba, kavalidwe sikakhala yoyera, kirimu kapena champagne, ndipo kachiwiri, palibe chophimba: sifupi, kapena sing'anga, kapena ayi, inenso ndine "chizindikiro cha kusalakwa"! Ndinasankha chovalacho ndi mwamuna wanga (ngakhale kuti izi ndizolakwika). Tinabwera ku salon yoyamba ya ukwati panjira yathu, ndipo ndinasankha kavalidwe kamene ndinayamba kukondana nayo: inali mtundu wa golide wonyezimira wokongola kwambiri paketi ndi sitimayi. Kenaka ndinakakamizidwa kuti ndiyese pa chophimbacho, ndinakhala "wosweka", koma ndinagwirizana - zinali zokongola kwambiri ndipo zinali zoyenerera kwambiri kavalidwe, ndiyeno zodzikongoletsera za tsitsilo zinatengedwa. Kotero, ndinali wokonzeka kupita ku ofesi yolembera.
Ndipo kotero, mu diresi laukwati ndi tsitsi labwino lokongola ndi chophimba kumutu kwanga ine ndikudikirira kuti ndasokonezeka. Tamada, asanathamange kudzakumana ndi mkwati ndi "abale" ake, adafuula kuti: "Hey, khalani pa mpando!" Mulungu, ndi mpando wotani, chifukwa chiyenera kukhala chiyani? Nowa anamvera. Mkwati wanga wosauka anasokonezeka - adalowa m'chipindamo ndikuima pakhomo m'malo mobwera kwa ine ndi "kuwombola", ndinayenera kunena kuti adanditenga, mkazi wake wamtsogolo, kuchokera pa mpando. Titatha kumwa mowa wamasamba, tinatuluka m'nyumba, chifukwa tinali titachedwa. Panthawi yopenta, ndinagwedezeka ndikulephera kuganizira, ndinayesetsa kumvetsera zomwe wogwira ntchito ku ofesi yolembera adatiuza, koma maganizo anga anali atapita nthawi ina, ndibwino kuti funso lofunika kwambiri "Kodi mumavomereza?" Ndinali ndi nthawi yoti mumve ndikuyankha moyenera.
Pamene tinasaina ndi kusinthanitsa mphetezo, nthawi yomweyo pamene "achibale olira" anabwera kudzatikomera ife tinabwera. Kenaka ndinazindikira kuti zonsezi sizinali zopanda phindu, chifukwa panthawi imeneyi kunali koyenera kuvala chovala, chofanana ndi keke, chophimba, komanso kuthana ndi mayeso ndi nsapato zapamwamba. Chimene chinali kuchitika chinali ngati loto: kusambira kuzungulira mzinda, kuvina, kuyamika, kuyamikira, maluwa, mphatso - ndipo zonse zinathera m'ma 4 m'mawa.
Chizindikiro cha chikondi ndi kuvomereza
"Ndiye n'chiyani chinasintha pambuyo paukwati?" - Anzanga ambiri anandifunsa. Ndikhoza kuyankha! Funso ili ndilokha: palibe chomwe chidzasinthe ngati banjali siliyenera kulumikiza ubale wawo. Tikukhala panthawi yomwe anthu akuyesera kuphweka zinthu zofunika monga banja, mgwirizano pakati pa okwatirana, aliyense amayamikira ufulu wawo, ufulu, ndipo Mulungu safuna, ngati wina athawira pa ufulu umenewu. Ndinakulira motsatira mfundo za "zakale": Ine ndiyenera kukhala mkazi, osati msungwana yemwe mnyamata amakumana naye ndi nthawi yake ndi kukhala ndi moyo, ndiyeno ngati "sitigwirizana ndi anthu", mwina tingathe kugawana nawo.
Ndikhoza kunena kuti zimakhala zosangalatsa akamakuyitana iwe "msungwana wanga" koma mkazi wanga, ndizosangalatsa kuona pakhomo la dzanja lako lamanja mphete - "chizindikiro cha chikondi ndi mgwirizano", ndibwino kuti anyamule dzina la mwamuna ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhala zabwino kuona abale achimwemwe omwe akuyembekezera kwambiri mphindi ino ndipo akusangalala nafe!
Chigawo chatsopano
Mwambo waukwati ndi wofunika kwambiri. Ichi ndi chifaniziro cha malire omwe amalekanitsa chikhalidwe cha achinyamata osasamala kuchokera ku udindo wokhwima. Munthu amayesetsa kukonda, kuyamika ndi kukhala wokhulupirika kwa yemwe amamanga chikonzero chake. Pobweretsa lumbiro ili kwa iyemwini ndi kwa iwo omwe alipo paukwati kwa achibale ndi mabwenzi ake, munthu amasintha maganizo ake amtima, amatenga maudindo atsopano pamaso pa anthu ofunikira omwe adzafunikila kuyankha ngati akuphwanya lumbiro ili. Pambuyo pake, ukwati ndi malo a chikhalidwe, ndipo kufunika kwa mwambo waukwati m'njira zambiri kumakhala kofunika kwambiri.
Maganizo ambiri
Ndikofunika kukonzekera mwambo waukwati: kusoka kapena kugula zovala kwa mkwatibwi, kusankha malo okondwerera, kulemba mndandanda wa alendo. Iyi ndi njira yomwe imatenga nthawi ndikuwerenganso cholinga chake.
Pokambirana nkhani za tsiku ndi tsiku, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi amadziwikitsana, yesetsani kupanga lingaliro lofanana, yankho logwirizana la nkhaniyi, yomwe ili mtundu wa moyo wa banja.
Ndithudi, kukumbukira zikondwerero zaukwati kumasungidwa kwa zaka zambiri, ndipo pamene ana obadwa m'banja lino akukula, ndikofunikira kuti iwo adziwe momwe "izo" zinaliri ndi amayi ndi abambo.