Kugonana sikutanthauza kwathunthu, chifukwa nthawi yatha. Nthawi zambiri amatsutsana ndi atsikana. "Anzanga onse abwenzi kale ... Ndipo ndidzakhalabe mtsikana wachikulire, ngati sindichita nawo nthawi yomweyo ndi munthu wina wogonana. Ndine kale khumi ndi zisanu! "
Inde , mu nthawi yathu yosasangalatsa, zikhalidwe zasinthika mosalekeza (ngakhale ...), ndipo mawu oti "kusungira chiyero pamaso pa usiku waukwati" akuwoneka ngati amakono monga mawu akuti "gig" ndi "barber". Ndipo sitinakulimbikitseni kuti mupeze chomwe kugonana kuli, pokhapokha mutalandira pasipoti yoponyera kapena kugula nsapato musanakonzekere. Koma_kuti azigonana osati okhaokha, koma cholinga chokha chokhalira opanda ungwiro, osakhulupirika mofanana ndi mnzawo. Komabe, ngati muli ndi zaka makumi awiri (20) osasinkhuka, ndipo pakalipano paliponse, ndiye ndikuyenera kuganizira: Kodi nthawi ingathe kufika? Koma chimodzimodzi chiyenera kukhala chimodzi chokha - osati choyamba - pa zifukwa.
Mulimonse, mungathe kugonana osati kwathunthu. Kafukufuku wamagulu a anthu awonetsa chinthu chodabwitsa: mkazi aliyense wachitatu atamwa mowa amazindikira kugonana monga chiganizo chomveka cha chibwenzi. Ndipo nthawi zambiri amadzuka m'mawa, ndikuyesera kukumbukira dzina la mnzako pabedi. Mwa njira, chonyansa. Komanso, amayi ena amakumbukira movutikira kuti iwo anali mudziko lonse dzulo, osatchula zinthu ngati chitetezo. Kotero mu vinyo, mwinamwake pali mwayi kupeza choonadi, koma kugonana ndi bwino kuyang'ana mutu wopepuka.
Kugonana ndi chidwi
Tiyerekeze kuti iye ndi nyenyezi. Dziko lonse, dziko lonse kapena dera - ziribe kanthu. Mwachidziwikire, samakukondani kwambiri, koma pano chilakolako chimadzuka. Ngati ilo liuma theka la dziko lapansi (theka la fuko, theka la chigawo) - muyenera kungoyang'ana ngati ali ndi chifukwa choyenera kuphedwa ... Ndikufuna kufunsa: chifukwa chiyani? Timachenjeza kamodzi: simungathetseretu zopanda pake! Mudzalembedwanso nthawi yomweyo mu "imodzi mwa ...", ndipo zotsatira zake zidzakhala zosiyana. Chabwino, ngati mukufuna basi kubweretsanso zosonkhanitsa - pitirizani. Ingokumbukira kuti iwe udzakhala chabe kubwezeretsanso kwa kusonkhanitsa kwa wina.
Mukhoza kuchita zogonana chifukwa chakuti simukuyenera kukhala nokha. Mumavomereza kugonana, osati konse kuyaka ndi chilakolako, koma mukuyembekeza kuti ikhoza kukhala "imodzi yokha" yomwe mudzagwiritse ntchito moyo wanu wonse, ndiyeno mudzasiya dziko lachiwawa tsiku limodzi, manja? Chabwino, pali mwayi. Mmodzi mwa khumi miliyoni. Kotero mukhoza kutenga mwayi. Musaiwale kuti muli 9,999,999. zokayikitsa kuti zisachitike zosakwanira. Kuwonjezera apo, zosankha pamene mkazi agwirizana ndi kugonana pofuna cholinga cha kukhala ndi chinachake m'tsogolomu (kukhala ukwati, zovala za ubweya kapena ndalama) nthawi zambiri amatchedwa mawu oipa.
Kugonana ndi "wakale"
Palibe chifukwa choyesa kulowa mu mtsinje, umene umasungunuka kale. Sikofunika kudzikondweretsa nokha ndi chiyembekezo choti adzabwerera. Musati mupitirizebe za iye: "Ine ndikudwala kwambiri, wokondedwa wanga, o, ndibwino bwanji, koma tiyeni tipite ku chifuwa chimenecho!". Ndizabwino kusangalala ndi kuganiza "kuganiza, ndi chiyani cholakwika?". Sitingathe kugonana popanda kukhudzidwa. Ndipo kawirikawiri (kwambiri!), Sitimangokhalira kudalira kwambiri mnzathu. N'zosatheka kuti mufunenso kukhalanso kachiwiri malinga ndi "ex" wanu, sichoncho?
Mwa njira ... Chifukwa ine ndikufuna kwenikweni. Ndipo mwachidule, kuti musagwedeze ubongo wanu, kuti mumvetsetse zifukwa zomwe mukuzikonda pofufuza zifukwa zosamveka zomwe zimayambitsa kugonana mwamsanga, ingodziuzeni moona mtima kuti: "Ndimagona naye, chifukwa ..." Ndipo kupitiriza kwa mau awa, kupatula "... Ndikufunadi ", ziyenera kukhala ngati chifukwa chokana.