Masiku ano, pafupifupi anthu onse akufalitsa nkhani za kugonana mwanjira ina iliyonse. Atsogoleri achilendo ndi ena omwe amapanga mafilimu, ngakhale ndi zochitika zamakono, saona kuti ndizofunikira kupatsana nawo zithunzi zachikondi. Choncho, anthu ochepa amadabwa kuti achinyamata amayamba kugonana ali aang'ono kwambiri. Ndi mfundo iyi, aphunzitsi amayesetsa kumenyana kusukulu ndi madokotala, chifukwa kugonana ndibwino kwa thanzi ngati ali ndi zaka zinazake, ndipo apobe sikupindula nkomwe.
Zotsatira zotsatila za moyo wapabanja
Kuonekera kwa mkati mwa ziwalo zoberekera pa msinkhu wa mnzanu kumabweretsa mantha, kutentha kwa chiberekero, chomwe chingadzakhale khansara, pamakhala chiopsezo chachikulu chotenga "matenda" a mtundu uliwonse. Chinthuchi ndi chakuti mapangidwe a machitidwe a kugonana asanathe, ndipo mkati mwa microflora mulibe chitetezo chokwanira. Kuwonjezera pa zomwe tatchula pamwambapa, kugonana koyambirira kungayambitse kutenga mimba yosafuna, yomwe imayambitsanso mavuto osiyanasiyana, ndipo sikuti mtsikana amasankha kubereka kapena kuchotsa mimba, zotsatira zake zoipa zomwe thupi lake lidzachite posachedwa zimakhala zazikulu kuposa zomwe zili ndi zotsatira za mimba yoyamba.
Komanso, chiyanjano pakati pa momwe mayi akuyambira msinkhu kuti akhale ndi moyo wogonana komanso mwayi woti ayambire matenda ake okhudzana ndi matendawa.
Kawirikawiri, mayi amakumbukira kugonana kwake koyamba ndi mwamuna mmoyo wake wonse. Ndipotu, zimadalira nthawi yoyamba ubale wawo wamwamuna komanso kugonana. Ndi chinthu choyamba ngati kwa nthawi yoyamba zinthu zonse zimachitika kwa wokondedwa mu chibwenzi ndi zokondweretsa, pamene onse awiri akufuna kuchita zonse mwachangu komanso moyenera popanda mwamsanga komanso mwamwano. Koma nthawi zambiri zimakhala kuti abambo oyamba, makamaka adakali aang'ono, ndi zotsatira za pang'onopang'ono, pamene mowa umasokoneza malingaliro, ndipo chinthu chomaliza chimene awiri amaganiza molimbikitsana sikulimbikitsana, chitonthozo komanso, mwatsoka, osati kubereka.
Eya, ngati m'tsogolomu, kupambana koyambirira koyamba sikukhala kotsitsimula kukonzanso nokha, malingaliro anu ndi luso lanu mu gawo la kugonana. Koma zimakhalanso kuti kusamvetseka koyamba kwa mkaziyo kumatsatira moyo wake wam'mbuyo, kungayambitse ubwenzi wake ndi amuna ndipo sanakonze moyo wake.
Kaŵirikaŵiri chifukwa chomwe achinyamata amayamba kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana ndi amano ndi opusa, kapena aliyense amene safuna kukhala woipitsitsa kapena mwanjira ina amatsata "abwenzi" ndi anthu omwe akhala akuyesa zonse ndi omwe amanena kuti namwaliyo ali 16 osati chifukwa cha kunyada.
Ndipo atamvetsera kwa anzeru ndi apamtima apamtima, msungwana ali ndi zaka 15 amapeza kuti ali ndi pakati, ndipo mwachibadwa amataika. Chifukwa Anzanu apamtima tutuzhe osati chithandizo, pambali ya mwana wosasunthika maganizo akuyamba kuvutika maganizo, zomwe sizikulolani kufunafuna thandizo kwa makolo, ndipo zomwe zingayambitse kuchotsa mimba kapena kudzipha.
Ngati, ngakhale, mtsikanayo akukhala wolimba komanso wolimba mtima, ndipo ali wotsimikiza kubereka, osati ziwalo zonse zazing'ono zimatha kuthana ndi zotsatirapo zosautsa popanda zotsatira monga kutenga mimba ndi kubereka. Amayi osakwana zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri amakhala m'magulu oopsya omwe amagwirizanitsa omwe akuopsezedwa ndi kupititsa padera komanso ana omwe asanabadwe ali ndi mitundu yonse ya matenda.
Nthawi yoyamba sichikuyenda bwino, ndipo zimakhudza kwambiri anyamata, kuphatikizapo matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi kutupa omwe amawopsyeza ndi zotsatira zosasangalatsa zamaganizo, zomwe zingabweretse mavuto.
Deta ina ya chiwerengero.
Chifukwa cha kufufuza kwa sayansi ndi kufufuza kunadziwika kuti mayiko okhumudwa ndi mavuto ena a maganizo akuyenera:
- 25% - atsikana achichepere akugonana.
- 7.7% - atsikana achichepere omwe ali ndi moyo wosagonana.
Kwa achinyamata, deta iyi ndi yochepa, komabe palinso anyamata ogonana pogwiritsa ntchito malo oopsa.
Chotsatira chachikulu cha kafukufuku wa asayansi chinali chakuti kugonana koyambirira kumakhudza kwambiri psyche achinyamata, ndipo kungayambitsenso mavuto, kudzipha. Choncho, chizoloŵezi choyamba cha kugonana kwa achinyamata chiyenera kukhala pambuyo pa msinkhu wakubadwa, ndipo mwachinyamata nthawi yayitali kuposa atsikana, chifukwa cha makhalidwe awo a maganizo.