1. Ubwino wa kugonana kwanu mutakula kumadalira njira ya moyo muunyamata wanu.
Ambiri amakhulupilira kuti ngati muli ndi moyo wogonana pachibwana chanu, ndiye kuti muli ndi msinkhu, mphamvu za kugonana ndi mphamvu zidzatha. Izi sizongopeka chabe. Ndipotu, kuti agwire ntchito yokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa zaka zomwe zikubwera akhoza omwe sangamulole kuti apume muunyamata wawo. Mukamagwira ntchito mwakhama moyo wanu wa kugonana tsopano, ndipamwamba mwayi woti pambuyo pa 40 mutakhala bwino.
Chinthu chokha chomwe chingasokoneze tsogolo lanu ndi kugonana kosalamulirika ndi zoopsa zonse zomwe zimayenderana nawo.
2. Kugonana sikuli bwino pa msinkhu uliwonse.
Ngati kugonana kumatha ali ndi zaka 40, sipadzakhalanso kutenga mimba, odwala okhwima a ma gynecologists, urologists ndi venereologists. Amayi ambiri amatha kutenga pakati pambuyo pa 40, zomwe zimatsimikiziridwa ndi ziwerengero. Musaiwale kuti palinso kachilombo ka matenda osiyanasiyana omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pogonana. Choncho, munthu wogonana ayenera kutetezedwa, mosasamala za msinkhu wake.
3. Ntchito imakhudza khalidwe la kugonana.
Kugonana ali ndi zaka zambiri achinyamata zimawoneka ngati kungatheke ngati pali ntchito yabwino, ndiko kuti, ndalama. Inde, ndalama zimatipatsa mwayi wochuluka - zovala zabwino, zovala, zinthu zosamalira bwino zomwe zimapangitsa achinyamata kukhalapo. Zonsezi zimakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Koma, ngakhalebe, kufunika kolimbikira ntchito, kupsinjika maganizo nthawi zonse ndi chizoloŵezi cha kuyankhulana kwa bizinesi kokha kumachepetsa kuthekera kwa zatsopano zogonana ndichabechabe. Izi zimakhudza makamaka anthu osakwatira.
4. Chilakolako cha kugonana sichitha.
Ngakhale zikuwoneka kuti iwo omwe apitirira 40, ndi zina zotero mu 50, alibe chidwi ndi kugonana, ndiye mukulakwitsa kwambiri. Zilakolako zoterezi zimayamba zaka 90, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakwaniritsidwa ngati munthu ali ndi bwenzi komanso amakhala ndi mawonekedwe abwino. Ubwino wa kugonana ukhoza kukhala wosiyana, chifukwa anthu otha msinkhu sangapirire mofanana ndi ophunzira, koma izi siziri chifukwa chokhalira osangalala. Ambiri amapeza kugonana pa msinkhu wokongola kwambiri kuposa unyamata.
5. Ndili ndi zaka, zokopa zimakhalabe ndi inu
Inde, ndi zopusa kunena kuti pa 40 sitingayang'ane ayi kuposa 20. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti msinkhu wokalamba umatipangitsa kukhala oipa. Chirichonse chimadalira paubusa, kudzikonda. Amuna ndi akazi omwe sagwiritsira ntchito mowa mopitirira muyeso, amapita kukachita masewera, amagwiritsa ntchito zopindulitsa za cosmetology zamakono, amawoneka okongola pa msinkhu uliwonse. Pali zitsanzo zambiri za izi - nyenyezi zambiri zimatha kukhalabe zofunika pa nthawi yokalamba kwambiri. Aliyense angathe kupulumutsa chiwonetsero chakunja.
6. Zambiri zimadalira wokondedwa.
Kukhoza kugonana pa msinkhu uliwonse kumadalira yemwe ali pafupi ndi ife. Monga lamulo, pa zaka zovuta zochitika ndizosiyana, osati lamulo. Munthu wosadziwika sakhala ndi chidaliro, pamene kuli kovuta kupumula, ndipo izi zimakhudza kwambiri maganizo. Choncho, mnzanuyo nthawi zonse amakhala bwino. Ngakhale mutakhala pamodzi kwa zaka zambiri, mutha kukhala ndi malo okondana, koma mutakhala kuti chibwenzi chanu sichimangidwe pazinyoza, kukwiya ndi mikangano. Kugonana pa zaka zambiri kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi mnzanu wapamtima. Pali zifukwa pamene abambo ndi amai amasiya banja kuti akhale ndi chiyanjano chatsopano ndi mnzako, koma izi zikutanthauza mavuto m'banja, osati chifukwa matupi aang'ono amatilimbikitsa ife ndi msinkhu.
Kugonana pa msinkhu kulipo, chirichonse chimene ife tikuganiza, pamene ife tiri ndi zaka 20 kapena 30. Mwinamwake, anthu okhwima - izi sizili mpikisano wa anyamata ndi atsikana, koma khalidwe la kugonana siliyeso ndi kutalika kwa kugonana kapena nambala yawo usiku uliwonse. Ngati mumadzisamalira nokha kuyambira ali aang'ono, onetsetsani thanzi lanu, zakudya zanu, ndi chiwerengero chanu ndipo musalole kuswa kwa nthawi yayitali pakati pa kugonana, ndiye kuti padzakhala mwayi wambiri kuti mukhale ndi moyo wogonana mokwanira.