Kodi pali vuto lililonse lochotsa maliseche akazi?
Achipatala amadziwa bwino kuti anthu amatha kugonana mwachidwi osati panthawi yogonana. Anthu ambiri amavomereza kuti izi zinachitika kwa iwo ali mwana, mwachitsanzo, pa maphunziro a thupi la thupi pakukwera pa chingwe kapena kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Izi ziri, mwa umunthu, chikhalidwe chomwecho chimayikidwa, kuti kumverera uku kungabwere mosasamala kanthu kwa chikhumbo chake. Pamene iye samaganiza nkomwe za chirichonse chonga icho. Ndipo ngati ndi choncho, n'chifukwa chiyani tiyenera kuganizira zonyansa zokhazokha - zomwe amachitazo zokhudzana ndi kugonana kumeneku popanda kugonana? Akatswiri ochokera kuchipatala amatsimikizira kuti, kudzikhutira (ngati pali chikhumbo chotero), satsutsana ndi chibadwa chawo.
Azimayi ochuluka athandiza kuthetsa maliseche ngakhale ali mwana. Ndipo, pokhala atakula, akazi oterewa amalimbikitsa chinthu chomwecho kale kwa ana awo aakazi, ndi zina zotero. Ndipo ponena za anyamata, lingaliro la vuto ili ndilosiyana kwambiri. Mayi akawona zizindikiro zoyamba za erection komanso chidwi chake chodabwitsa pa msungwana wamng'ono, iye, monga lamulo, amakhudzidwa ndi khalidwe la mwana wake. Koma ngati amayi apeza mwana wamkazi akuphunzira ziwalo zake zogonana, ayenera kuti akuwopsya.
Malinga ndi anthu ogonana, njira zambiri zomwe anthu akuluakulu amachita ndi chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa ziwalo zogonana pakati pa anyamata ndi atsikana. Pa chiwalo choyamba chogonana chiri kunja, nthawi zonse chiyenera kutengedwa pamene akutumiza "zosowa zochepa". Chifukwa chake, kuti amuna agwire malo awo ammudzi akuonedwa kuti ndi achilengedwe kotero kuti si ntchito yovulaza. Koma mwa amayi, chifukwa cha maonekedwe awo amtundu, ziwalo zogonana, mbali imodzi, zimabisika mkati. Ndipo pambali inayo - ali pachiopsezo cha matenda osiyanasiyana. Ndichifukwa chake amayi amatsimikiza kuti kuchokera kuchipatala kuvulazidwa ndi maliseche kumakhala koonekeratu: mwana wamkaziyo sangawakhudze kwambiri, pomwe sangakhale ndi mwayi wodwala kutupa. Kuchokera pa ukhondo, kuvulaza maliseche kumatheka ndithu. Komabe, ndani omwe ali ndi maganizo abwino "adzachita" ndi manja onyansa ndi pfumbi pabedi?
Kodi pali ubwino uliwonse wodzitama kwa amayi?
Akatswiri akukumana ndi vuto lina. Akafunsidwa kuti apereke mayankho pakati pa achinyamata ndi achinyamata, wina yemwe akuchokera ku sukulu adzawauza kuti asatchule zogonana ndi zolaula komanso maliseche. Mwachidziwitso, zochita izi ndi zotsutsana ndi lingaliro la makhalidwe abwino. Ogonana amavomerezana nazo izi ndi kusakayika kwakukulu. Chifukwa kumangirira funso si njira yabwino yothetsera. Pambuyo pazimenezi, mungathe kulimbitsa maganizo olakwika pazochita zowonongeka kwa achinyamata. Ngakhale kuti kafukufuku wophunzitsidwa ndi akatswiri amasonyeza kuti ngati mtsikana wa zaka 12 mpaka 16 ali ndi vuto la maliseche, sangakhale ndi mavuto ochepa pamagonana pa moyo wachikulire, osati "wodzichepetsa", amene adapewa kuchita zimenezi. Monga mukuonera, pakadalibe phindu lochita maliseche.
Kuonjezera apo, posiyana ndi ma ARV, nthawi zina kupha, monga kachilombo ka HIV kapena chiwindi cha C, machitidwe okhutitsidwa ndi kugonana akuwoneka otetezeka kusiyana ndi kugonana kwachiwerewere. Koma tsankho lina linayamba kugwira ntchito mwamsanga. Amakhalidwe abwino amavomereza kuti palibenso njira ina yopitira munthu mmodzi. Koma ndi chifukwa chiyani banja liyenera kutumikila ngati pali mnzanga wodalirika komanso wodalirika pa izi? Malingaliro awo, muukwati kugonana ndi chiwerewere, chifukwa popanda izo muzochitika zotero ndizotheka kuchita. Koma kodi zili choncho?
Kudzetsa maliseche m'banja
Achipatala amakhala ndi zitsanzo zambiri za momwe akazi omwe amakhala ndi moyo mokondwera ndi amuna awo amadzipereka okha pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, mnyamata wina wotchuka komanso wotchuka kwambiri, yemwe amagwira ntchito masana mu studio, motero anadzipangitsa kuti asinthe kwambiri. Mwa njira, zomverera zomwe mkazi uyu anali nazo zinali, zosiyana, malingana ndi iye, kuchokera kwa zomwe iye anali nazo pabedi ndi mwamuna wake wokondedwa.
Mwa njira, ichi ndi chitsanzo chodziwika kwambiri. Zimasonyeza kuti akazi okwatirana ali ndi maliseche, osati chifukwa chakuti amakhudzidwa ndi kugonana. Ayi ndithu. Kwa iwo, chiwombankhanga, chochitidwa ndi dzanja la munthu, si mtundu wonse womwe amalandira ndi kugonana kwathunthu. Odwala pakulandila opatsirana pogonana adapanga kuvomereza mosayembekezereka pa mutu womwewo. Mwachitsanzo, mayi wina anadwala matenda ogona ndipo nthawi zina anapeza kuti amagona tulo pokhapokha atakhala wokhutira. Wina ndi mzimayi wogwira ntchito ndi wolimbika, ndi momwe adachotsera nkhawa pambuyo pa tsiku lotanganidwa. Chachitatu - m'malo mwake, anakonza zokambirana zowonetsera maliseche asanachite chisankho chofunikira: malinga ndi iye, izi zinamupatsa mphamvu yowonjezera.
Onsewa ankafunikira kwambiri kuti apange malingaliro apadera, kuti asinthe kuchokera ku dziko lina kupita ku lina. Koma izi zichitika kokha ngati kudzikhutira sikukuwoneka kuti ndi chinthu china chochititsa manyazi, komabe ngakhale chodziwika bwino. Koma mwatsoka, mphekesera yotchuka sikuthandiza.
Kafukufuku wa akatswiri amasonyeza kuti amayi omwe anali ndi chidwi chofuna kukondweretsa asanakwatirane, mwachitsanzo, kamodzi pa sabata, ndipo muukwati ali okonzeka kuchita izi mofanana. Komabe, akatswiri akuyenera kuyang'anizana ndi amayi oterewa omwe adzichita zosangalatsa paunyamata wawo ndipo omwe, atakwatiwa, sakuyesetsabe kupitiriza kuyesera koteroko. Iwo amaganiza kuti izi ndizosasangalatsa - chifukwa tsopano ali ndi bwenzi losatha. Koma okonda kugonana samakana kokha kuthetsa maliseche m'banja. Amaphunzitsanso odwala awo momwe angadzilimbikitsire okha kuti athandize kwambiri. Malingaliro awo, izi zimathandiza amayi kuti aziwona kuti kugonana kwawo kuli bwino, kumvetsetsa zofunikira za chikhalidwe chawo. Ndipo uwu ndi sitepe yoyamba kumoyo wathunthu ndi wokondedwa wanu wokondedwa ndi wachikondi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti kuwonjezera pa kutuluka kwa thupi (kapena "kubwereza"), kupindula kwa maganizo pa chiwerewere kumakhala kosavuta, mankhwala amatsimikizira izi ndi zaka zambiri zoziwona.
Anthu okwatirana, omwe sagwirizana ndi zokondweretsa muukwati, ayenera kukumbukira izi: Palibe chomwe chimakondweretsa mwamuna ngati mtundu wa mkazi yemwe amadzipangitsa kukhala wosokonezeka. Koma kokha pa chikhalidwe chimodzi. Izi ziyenera kukhala gawo la masewera anu ogonana omwe ali nawo, wothandizira omwe amachititsa kuti zikhale zovuta. Mukachita izi zokha, yesetsani kuti musalowe m'maso mwa mwamuna wanu. Ndipotu, akhoza kukwiya kapena kukwiya: "Kodi muli nazo zokwanira, ine? Kodi ndine woipa kwambiri? "Chifukwa cha zimenezi, maukwati amphamvu angakhale pangozi. Ichi ndi chitsanzo chimodzi cha kuvulaza maliseche, koma osati mthupi, m'mabanja. Akatswiri amadziwa kuti zitsanzo zambiri.
Kugonana ndi amuna
Kwa amuna, zinthu ndi zosiyana: pambuyo pa chikwati, chiwerengero cha "magawo" a kukhutira kwenikweni amachepetsa. Koma kokha ngati ali ndi chiwerewere chokwanira ndi mkazi wake. Ngati amaganiza kuti kugonana kumachitika mobwerezabwereza kuposa momwe thupi lawo likufunira, iwo amatha kuchita maliseche. Ngakhale akatswiri okonda kugonana akuyesetsa kuthetsa nthano yakuti chovala chogwiritsidwa ntchito m'maganizo mwa amuna ndi chakuti prostate gland ikhoza kuvutika popanda kupitirira nthawi zonse. Posachedwapa, madokotala akudzinenera kuti chiwerengero cha ejaculations mwa mwamuna chibadwa kuchokera kubadwa. Posakhalitsa amakwaniritsa "chizoloŵezi" chawo, ... Mwachidule, ndi bwino kupulumutsa - kutha ku ukalamba.
Ndipotu, kufunikira kwa "kugonana kwa" solo "kwa amuna omwe amakhala m'banja lokwanira kumasiyana kwambiri. Chinthu chokha chomwe kudzikhutira kwenikweni kumafunikira ndi wokwatirana ndi pamene akuvutika kutayika msanga. Malangizowo amafotokozedwa ndi kuti woimira munthu yemwe ali ndi mphamvu zogonana nthawi zambiri, panthawi yogonana, "kukhuta" ndi mofulumira kuposa momwe mnzanuyo amadzikondera nthawi ndi nthawi. Izi zikhoza kukhala zothandiza kutsegula maliseche m'tsogolomu kuti azigonana ndi mkazi.
Kulongosola nkhani yosakhwima iyi, ndithudi, sitingathe kulemba milandu yotchedwa matenda otukwana. Izi ndizo matenda, ndipo asayansi samaganizira za iwo akamalankhula za anthu abwino, wathanzi. Chosowa chosasunthika chotsitsimutsa ndi nthawi iliyonse pamene mwamuna akumva kukwatulidwa, ndipo mkazi - kukakamiza kugonana, ayenera kuchiritsidwa ndi katswiri. Monga kupotoka kulikonse mu ntchito ya thupi lathu. Chikhalidwechi chimayambitsa mavuto ambiri kwa anthu ndipo chotero amayenera kukonzedwa - poyamba, bwino.
Pa zovulaza ndi phindu la mankhwala opatsirana maliseche olemba malemba onse. Koma zonsezi zikhoza kukhala zochepa. Ngati simukusowa kukhutira, ngati muli okhutira ndi khalidwe lachikondi ndi luso la mnzanuyo, ndiye lichotseni pamutu panu. Koma ngati mutakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chogonana, ndipo iye anangowonjezerapo malingaliro atsopano, omveka bwino ku banja lanu limodzi ndi mwamuna wanu, musadzione ngati ndinu wachigawenga ndipo musasiye. Inu simukuchita chirichonse cholakwika. Mukungotenga mwayi wina wodziyanjanitsa ndi chowonadi. Ndiponso kwezani zogonana zanu kusiyana, msinkhu wosadziwika poyamba.