Nthaŵi zonse, malingaliro oterewa ndi amodzi monga kugonana mkamwa kunali kutsutsana. Othandiza a mtundu uwu wachisoni amanena kuti zowawa za mtundu umenewu sizingatheke kufanana ndi china chirichonse. Otsutsa, komabe, amanena kuti kugonana m'kamwa n'konyansa komanso kosayenera. Komabe, chodabwitsa ichi chinaliko, chiriko, ndipo, mwinamwake, chidzapitirirabe.
Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji kugonana m'kamwa? Funsoli, mwachiwonekere, linafunsidwa ndi aliyense yemwe anakumanapo ndi mtundu wamakono wovuta kwambiri. Momwe zimakhalire ndi kugonana m'kamwa, palibe malamulo enieni, chifukwa munthu aliyense ndi wapadera - ena amasangalatsa wina, wina ndi mnzake.
Kudziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito kugonana mwakamwa kudzathandiza kwa amayi, ngakhale asanakwaniritse zofuna zawo kwa ogonana nawo. Zingakhale zolakwika kuganiza kuti ndi zophweka kukondweretsa ndi mtundu uwu wa kugonana, komanso kuganizira kuti mkazi aliwonse amadziwa bwino momwe angamverere pamlomo munthu, makamaka ngati sanachitepo kale.
Mulimonsemo, kuti muzichita zogonana m'kamwa, choyamba muyenera kuyesetsa kuti muchite, komanso kuti musagonjetse ndi kudzikakamiza nokha chifukwa chakuti mnzanuyo amakupangitsani kapena kukukakamizani. Chiwerewere chilichonse chiyenera kukhala chiyanjano ndi chikondi, chabwino, kapena chiyenera kufunidwa.
Sizingatheke kuti mmodzi mwa abambowo amalola mkazi wosadziwika kuti ayandikire pafupi kwambiri ndi "wokondana", yekhayo amene ali nawo, ndiye kuti adzatseka maso ake ndikumupatsa mphamvu. M'malo mwake, mwinamwake munthuyo amayesa kuthetsa ndondomeko yonse, kuti chirichonse chizipita mwanjira yoyenera. Ndipo izi zikuphatikizapo, chifukwa chaichi, patapita nthawi zingapo pansi pa kutsogoleredwa ndi mwamuna, ngakhale mnzanu wosadziwa zambiri amaphunzira momwe angamukondwerere mu njira yake. Komanso, kuyang'anira njira yolankhulira pakamwa kumathandiza kuti pakhale zolimbikitsa zina.
Mmene mungagwiritsire ntchito kugonana mukamwa
Choyamba, ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri - musalole kuti pakhomo! Monga chizolowezi chogonana, pakamwa padzakhalanso zosangalatsa zambiri ngati caresses ndi zosiyana. Zonsezi zimakhudza komanso zosavuta kusanachitike nthawi yomweyo ziyenera kukhala zophweka komanso zosavuta - chifukwa cha ichi chisangalalo chidzakhala champhamvu kwambiri. Mzimayi akamasewera, atsekedwa ndi kusokoneza chilakolako - wokondedwa wake amafika pachimake cha zosangalatsa. Mwa njirayi, kuwonjezerako kuyamwa kwa mbolo ya mnzanuyo sikungapereke chisangalalo chomwecho pamene kupsyopsyona kumaphatikizapo komanso kumalankhula bwino ndi lilime ndi milomo. Kukhudza mutu wa mbolo, kutsegula lilime pambali pake, kuponderezana ndi mutu - zonsezi zikhoza kumutsogolera munthu kumtendere. Tiyeneranso kukumbukira kuti simukuyenera kuchita chilichonse chimene mafilimu amachitirako pa nthawi yogonana, monga momwe ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti m'mafilimuwa nthawi zambiri amanyengerera kwambiri komanso kusayenda mosasamala kungachititse kuti atayika, kapena kufulumira kwambiri, zomwe sizili zabwino kwambiri.
Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zabwino kwambiri kwa abambo ndi zomwe amai amagwadira panthawiyi. Pakati pa akazi, ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mwamuna akufuna kukhumudwitsa, "kunyalanyaza" mkazi. Komabe, izi siziri choncho-ndipotu, pamalo amenewa, munthu ndi wosavuta kuthetsa ndondomekoyi ndikuyang'ana malingaliro opusitsa. Chosavuta cha vutoli ndikuti miyendo yanu imatopa mofulumira kwambiri, choncho ndi bwino kugona pansi kapena kukhala pansi, ndipo mkaziyo ayenera kukhala mmanja mwake kapena mawondo pakati pa miyendo yake. Izi zimakondweretsa mwamuna wamphamvu kwambiri, chifukwa amatha kuwona zovuta zapakhomo. Udindo umenewu ndi wopindulitsa kwa mkazi chifukwa amatha kuyendetsa chiyero cha kulowa mkati, kuya kwake ndi nyimbo. Kawirikawiri vutoli limadutsa kuchokera kwa abwenzi kupita ku malo odziwika bwino 69, omwe amathandiza abwenzi kuti azikambirana chimodzimodzi ndi njira ya pamlomo.