Kuphunzitsa amuna kapena njira zoweta amuna

Mwamuna ndi mkazi ndizosiyana kwambiri padziko lapansi, ndi mphamvu zosiyana ndi kulingalira za dziko. Komabe, kuti muyanjana ndi munthu - wosaka wamuyaya, muyenera kudziwa njira zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti mukhale ndi mzimu wachabechabe mumtendere ndi pafupi ndi inu. Njirazi zimatchedwa njira zophunzitsira kapena "kuyimilira kwa osagwira ntchito".

Kodi chofunika n'chiyani kuti muyambe maphunziro abwino?

Pofuna kugwiritsira ntchito njira zopezera banja, ndikofunika kuphunzira tsiku lililonse ngakhale zochepa kwambiri zomwe zimachitika ndi kusintha kwawo, kuphatikizapo dongosolo lake la mitsempha. Ambiri akugonjera amuna kufikira zaka 30, ndipo patadutsa zaka 30 - alowetsani, koma zovuta kwambiri chifukwa cha makhalidwe omwe alipo kale komanso makhalidwe abwino. Ndiponso, mphamvu ya mphamvu ya mkazi pa mwamuna imadalira kwambiri mtundu wake, ndikofunika kuti, ndikuyenera kulingalira zaumwini wa mtundu uliwonse wa khalidwe lomwe liripo mwa mwamuna (sanguine, phlegmatic, melancholic, choleric). Pambuyo pa zonse, monga tikudziwira, mu mtundu weniweni wa mtundu wa munthu ndi wochepa kwambiri, nthawi zambiri umasakaniza. Komanso poyandikira munthu ayenera kutsogoleredwa ndi kuzindikira muyeso mu chirichonse. Kulakwitsa kwakukulu kwa amayi pa gawo loyamba la maphunziro ndiko kuyang'ana munthu yemwe ali m'deralo ndi kumulamulira mopambanitsa ("kutambasula leash"), zomwe zimayambitsa kusamvetsetsa khalidwe la mkazi ndi mwamuna. Polimbikitsanso gawo loyamba la maphunziro, nkofunika kutsogoleredwa ndi momwe mayiyo akudziwira momveka bwino popanga mfundo za maphunziro ndi kumamatira kwawo.

Mfundo za ntchitoyi

Musanayambe kuphunzitsa "ward", phunzirani kulamulira ndi kuyeza zochitika zanu poyamba. Onetsetsani kuti mafilimuwa ali ndi kukhudzana ndi chikondi komanso mutangokhalira kukonzekera mfundo za maphunziro:

1. Pangani njira zoyamba zophunzitsira mwanjira yosavuta;
2. Kuzoloŵera "chiweto" chanu choyamba ndi ophunzitsira osavuta, ndikudutsa ku zolemera ndi zovuta;
3. Musayambe kupanga maluso atsopano muzinyama, mpaka mutsimikizire zotsatira za mfundo ziwiri zapitazo;
4. kuyambitsidwa kwa njira yatsopano iyenera kuchitidwa kumayambiriro kwa mnzanu m'mawa, pamene mwamunayo akumvera, osatopa ndi ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku;
5. Kutalika kwa maphunziro kumawonjezeka pang'onopang'ono;
6. wophunzitsayo ayenera kuganizira nthawi zonse zochitika kunja ndi mkati;
7. fotokozani momveka bwino chimene mukufuna kuti mupeze pamapeto. Dzikonzekere wekha, osati njira.

Zolakwa vperedirovke:

1. kusowa kwa deta yolandira ndi chidziwitso cha chinthu chophunzitsidwa, njira yake ya moyo;
2. khalidwe lachikhalidwe potsutsana ndi munthu panthawi ya malamulo;
3. khalidwe lodzichepetsa, wamanyazi komanso losadzikweza pafupi ndi "kuyesera";
4. kusamalidwa kwa kuphunzitsidwa, kunyalanyaza kosavuta komanso kufatsa kwa munthu.

Njira yofufuzira kapena kuyandikira pa chandamale

Aliyense amadziwa kuti munthu amawona dzikoli mwa njira yake yomwe, kudzera m'malingaliro ake omwe. Pogwirizana ndi masomphenya osiyana a anthu oyandikana nawo, amuna amagawidwa m'magulu atatu: zojambula, omveka komanso zakumwa. Zithunzi monga chirichonse chowala, kuponyera mu diso - mawonekedwe anu owala, mkati mwachangu m'nyumba. Omvera amakonda kumvetsera nyimbo ndikukamba za wokondedwa. Ndipo kinestetikam monga kununkhira kwa mizimu yanu yokongola ndi mawonekedwe achikazi okhwima. Palinso mtundu wina wamwamuna wobadwira, kukhala ndi zovuta kwambiri, koma ndizotheka ndi chikhumbo chanu.

Matabwa a amuna malingana ndi makhalidwe awo agawanika:

• okhwima-okhwima - iwo ali owongoka, ophatikizana, okhwima, koma mwamsanga amayendetsa njira;
• Kusakanikirana - kumafuna kuti iwo azidziyang'anira nthawi zonse, musamadzitenge nthabwala pawokha, ndizodzichepetsera;
• zobisika - iwo samakhutitsidwa ndi chinachake, ngakhale amamvetsera zinthu zina zazing'ono (kumbukirani mawu anu onse);
• osowa-amakonda kwambiri mosamalitsa mu chirichonse, mpaka pa mbiri ya ruble iliyonse yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito. Pofuna kulimbana ndi zofanana pa kayendetsedwe ka bajeti, musamuwonetsere ndalama zonse, lolani zinthu ziwonekere mnyumba ndi chifuno chabwino cha achibale kapena abwenzi;
• spender - chosiyana kwambiri ndi masautso. Iwo ali okondwa, odzipereka mosavuta pa chirichonse, kuunika uku kumawonetseredwa mogwirizana ndi ndalama. Khalidweli ndilo chifukwa cha makolo anu osauka kwambiri, kapena chiwonetsero cha kulera kosawonongeka kwambiri m'banja lomwe chirichonse chingagulidwe nthawi zonse;
• Zosangalatsa - amapanga dziko lanu kuti likhale lanu lopambana, ndi njira yabwino yolandirira ubalewu, mwinamwake inu mumayesa kuwononga moyo wanu. Mwa awa, nthawi zambiri mumatuluka gigolo, opanda katundu, omwe, pogwiritsa ntchito kukongola kwawo ndi kusonkhanitsa kwawo, atsikana ndi akazi omwe ali pamutu. Kuthawa kutali ndi mtundu uwu wosayesayesa, iwo ali ngati chameleons;
• amayi "ndi okonda akazi - iwo amagawidwa m'magulu anayi:
• Don Juan Romantik-iwo amakopeka ndi chinsinsi komanso chosatheka kwa amayi, ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso, ndiye wodwalayo;
• kudzipereka-donzhuany nthawi zambiri amawopa akazi ndi kuwadzudzula chifukwa chosakhulupirika chifukwa cha zovuta zawo zomwe anazipeza kuyambira ali mwana kapena kuwonetsa akazi osadziwika, amafunikira kukhala oleza mtima komanso odzipereka nthawi zonse kuti awonjezere kufunika kwawo ndi kusowa kwawo;
• Amuna okonda kugonana amakonda ufulu, amayamba kusinthasintha kawirikawiri, koma ngati muli oleza mtima ndipo mukhoza kutseka maso ake pa zochitika zake, ndithudi amayamikira kuti simukuphwanya ufulu wake waufulu kudzera mu moyo;
• Omwe amawakonda a Platon nthawi zambiri amadzipereka chifukwa chogawira kuyamikiridwa kumanzere ndi kumanja, koma amodzi okha - amawongolera munthu wawo, wokhudzana ndi mawonetseredwe a syumor ndi kumvetsa.

Si chinsinsi chakuti mahomoni akulu a munthu ndi testosterone, omwe amapangidwa bwino pamene nyama imatengedwa, choncho mawu akuti "njira yopita kwa munthu ndi m'mimba mwake" sanathetse, choncho chitani! Samalani, musamafunse nokha. Komabe, ngati munthu sakufuna kusintha, amakhala pabedi tsiku lonse, amasintha ma TV, ndikukudikirirani, pamapewa anu osalimba, kuti muzinyamula zovuta zonse za banja pokonzetsa banja, sizowonongeka kuti musonyeze yemwe ali mwini wake. Ngakhale, ngati simukufuna kuphika, kutsuka ndi kuyeretsa ndi ntchito zina zapanyumba, mukhoza ndi chikumbumtima choyera kuti mutenge katundu wa banja, ndipo chiweto chanu chimukonzekeretse kutentha kwa nyumba, chitonthozo ndi ukhondo.

Komanso, musayiwale kuti munthu ndi munthu yemwe amasintha malingaliro ake ndi zosankha malinga ndi msinkhu wake. Mwachitsanzo, ali ndi zaka 14-16 ali wachikondi, ali ndi zaka 25 mwamuna amakhala wokonda kwambiri, panthawi 30 ali wovuta, wololera komanso wosiyana ndi chigololo chake choyamba, ndipo pa 45 - ayenera kutsegula makutu ake! Pofunafuna mwana wodutsa, nthawi zambiri mamembala amathamangira ku thupi laling'onoting'ono, kuyesa kusintha ndi kuwonongeka. Komabe, ngati simukukhala kunja kokha, koma mkati mwatsopano, khungu lanu losungidwa silidzapita ku vuto, lidzagona pamapazi anu.