Lamulo lokopa kwa iwe wekha
Wokonzeka kunja, timafuna kuti ena adziwe. Ndipo pozitenga, timapanga kudzidalira komanso kudalira. Aliyense wa ife amasankha yekha kalembedwe ndikumanga chithunzi: chofewa chachikazi, chosamvetsetseka chokongola, chachinyamata-molunjika, mwachidwi wachigololo ... Monga lamulo, kusankha izi sikungowonongeka: timayang'ana pa kukoma kwa yemwe timafuna kukondweretsa, kudabwa, kugonjetsa kwamuyaya kapena madzulo. Ndipo ngati "cholinga chikugwera," kudzidalira kwathu kumakula: timayamba kudzilemekeza tokha pakutha kuwonetsa maonekedwe athu ndi kukwaniritsa cholinga chathu. Koma lamuloli limagwiranso ntchito mu chiyanjano cha amai ndi akazi omwe ali amuna okhaokha. Kuganizira mwachidwi kuoneka kwa munthu, kusowa mtendere, kunyalanyaza, kumvetsa chifundo, komanso kulemekeza amayi omwe ali pafupi, zomwe zimachepetsa kudzidalira kwathu. Zovala zabwino ndi kudzipangira zimatilepheretsa kuti tisapondereze anthu athu. Uwu ndiwo mtundu wa ulemu - wekha ndi anthu ena.
Lamulo la kudzidzilemekeza
Maonekedwe okonzeka bwino amathandiza kubisa zofooka zathu (matenda, kukhumudwa) ndikulephera kudziletsa pazochitika zilizonse. Ziri ngati maskiki, omwe mavuto a munthu weniweni sali owoneka, mawonekedwe oganiziridwa mosamala amalola kuti tipeze malire ena pakati pa ife ndi ena. Ndimalingaliro kuti mutalikirane nokha kwa iwo. Mwinamwake mulibe mawonekedwe abwino lero, koma mapangidwe abwino, zovala zamkati komanso zovala zokongola sizimapatsa mwayi kuti ena awone. Mumaona kuti ndinu achikazi komanso olimba panthawi imodzimodzi, dzipatseni nokha kuti mutha kusokoneza mavuto anu mwakuti palibe amene angakayikire za iwo ndipo sadzayesera kugwiritsa ntchito mwayi wanu. Kuwonjezera apo, maonekedwe okonzeka bwino amasonyeza kuti mumadzichitira nokha ndi umulungu ndipo musalole aliyense amene akuyenera kuchepetsa mtunda kwambiri polankhulana nanu popanda chikhumbo chanu.
Lamulo la kulingalira bwino
Mwa kudzipanga nokha bwino, ife ... kukongoletsa dziko! Ndipo kudzilemekeza kwathu kumakula pambuyo pa kusintha kwa kudzizindikira kwathu ndi kulingalira kwa dziko lozungulira ife. Kuyesera kukonza chinthu chabwino m'maonekedwe athu, timapereka chithunzithunzi pakuzindikira kwathu zenizeni. Pamene tikuphuka, dziko limakhalanso lowala komanso lokongola: mumayamba kukumana ndi anthu abwino, onani zinthu zabwino, kupeza mwayi watsopano. Ndipo motsutsana ndi chikhalidwe ichi, chidziwitso china cha kudzidalira chimatsegulidwa. Ngakhale ngakhale mavuto aakulu ndi mavuto osokonekera, chikhumbo chokhala ndi moyo watsopano. Osachepera kuti asonyeze kuti "anthu" mawonekedwe awo atsopano okongola, komanso ngati otsiriza - kuti agwiritse ntchito. Ndicho chifukwa chake nthawi zovuta za moyo ndizofunikira kuti mupeze mphamvu kuti musadzipange nokha, komanso kuti muthe kusintha. Ndipo ngati mphamvuzo ziri, timamva zotsatira za izi podziona kuti ndife odzidalira komanso timafuna kuti tipeze zatsopano. Ndipo ngakhalenso "bonasi" yaing'ono, monga kuyang'anitsitsa kuyang'ana kapena kuyamikiridwa ndi mnzanu, imakhala cholimbikitsapo pa sitepe yotsatira yabwino.
Lamulo la kudalira
Zowonjezereka, zowonongeka komanso "zodula" zosamalira maonekedwe, zimakula kwambiri. "Ndalama" amatanthauza kuti sizing'onozing'ono zopangira jekeseni kunja, monga nthawi ndi khama lodzipereka kuti lizisamalira okha. Ngati timadya tsiku ndi tsiku ndi zonona zabwino, nthawi ndi nthawi timapatsa thupi minofu, timakhala ndi thupi labwino m'thupi mwathu, kamodzi pachaka timapita ku malo osungiramo malo, timangodzikulira yekha. Lamulo lodziwika bwino la maganizo "Pamene mumagulitsa ndalama zambiri, zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri" zimakhala zochepa kwambiri pazochitikazi.