"Iwe susowa kulumbira, iwe ndiwe mtsikana!" - nthawi zina amadandaula mwamuna wina weniweni, osamvetsetsa momwe woyimira wa hafu yokongola yaumunthu angakhoze kutchula mawu "akuda" amake. Nthawi zina mawu ngati amenewa amamveka kuchokera kwa mayi wanzeru omwe samadziwanso. Koma kodi satana woopsya kwambiri, ngati ali wopaka, ndiye kuti mnzanuyo amanyansidwa ndi mkazi kapena mtsikana pamaso pa ena? Tiyeni tiwone izo.
Choncho, choyamba, ndikufuna kudziwa kuti pafupifupi chilichonse chimatchulidwa. Munthu wamba yemwe amagwa pa mwendo ndi wolemetsa, amakhala chete kapena amanena chinachake cholemekezeka. Ndikuganiza kuti ambiri amalingalira zomwe mawu a chilengedwe chonse amakumbukira pamene akuganizira za vutoli. Choncho, onse "osunga chiyero," omwe akulavulaza mwakachetechete kwa mkazi kapena mkazi, makamaka ngati munthu amene akusokonezeka ndiye mwiniwake, akhoza kukhala wochenjera kapena wonyenga.
Ndilo nkhani ina, ndithudi, pamene msungwana wabwino, wokongola atangoyang'ana, amadzuka pakati pa malo odyera ndikuyamba kutumiza mnzako malo amadzi, akutsatizana nazo zonsezi ndi mawu olumbirira omwe sakufuna kuti ana amve. Zidzawoneka zoipa kwambiri.
Monga taonera, mikhalidwe ndi yosiyana. Ndiye ndi liti pamene mkazi angakhoze kulandiridwa, ndipo pamene angathe kunyalanyaza dona wamng'ono?
Choyamba, kukangana. Mukutentha kwakukulu komanso koopsa, musanene. Munthu wamba, msungwana wamba, sakhala ndi mawu olimbikitsa kapena chizindikiro cha uthenga. Sitikunena kuti mikangano ndi yoipa, ayenera kupeĊµa, ndi zina zotero. Zonsezi ndi zomveka bwino, koma zoona zenizeni kuti zowonongeka zimachitika, palibe chimene chingachitike. Chinthu chachikulu mu nkhaniyi ndi kukumbukira mawu abwino omwe sali oyenera kupirira mkangano ku nyumba. Mukhoza kulumbira awiri ndi abwenzi anu ndi mwamuna wanu, koma musamachite poyera. Mudzakhala ndi nthawi yotsutsana, ndipo nthawi zambiri mutha kukumana ndi manyazi ngati mutadziwika ndi anzanu ambiri. Choipa cha koliustroite pamalo amodzi, pali mwayi woti mukufuna kubwera kuno zambiri.
Chachiwiri, zinthu ndi mwanayo. Palibe amene amakayikira kuti ana angathe kubweretsa aliyense, ali osasinthasintha kwambiri, owopsa, osasokonezeka ndi zina zotero. Koma ngati mutayamba kukwatirana nokha, ndiyeno ana ena osakhalitsa - mudzawona ngati hamster wosasunthika yemwe sadziwa momwe angagwirire ndi ana. Ndili ndi ana, mwa njira, ndibwino kuchepetsa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu osasangalatsa, mwinamwake adzakuchititsani manyazi pamene mabwenzi anu ofunikira, kapena m'kalasi ya sukulu / a sukulu, akunena mawu ndi kalata "x." Ana amawonela akuluakulu ndi kubwereza chirichonse kwa iwo, Choncho ngati mumaletsa mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena mwana wanu kulumbirira, ndipo nthawi zonse mumapereka "chitsanzo choipa", ana anu amafunikira kugwiritsa ntchito mapepala. Mwachibadwa, ngati simusamala konse - chonde phunzitsani ana kulumbira, ndi zina zotero, koma ngati mumasamala za yake TH ndi mbiri, yesani kutsatira sobstvennoyrechyu ndi ana.
Chachitatu, ntchito zachikhalidwe. Sikofunika kunena kuti mawu achipongwe omwe ali pachithunzichi akufanana ndi wosuta. Inde, izi ndi zofanana, mwinamwake aliyense amene ali panyumba akudzudzula matynaprav ndi kumanzere, koma pano ndi pakali pano zinthu zimafuna kuti ziziwoneka bwino, zomwe ziri zoyenera komanso zachikhalidwe. Ndipo chikhalidwe sichoncho chooneka bwino, komanso chilankhulo. Mungathe kunong'oneza mwakachetechete m'diso la mnzanu chinthu chomwe chiri matershinous, ndithudi, ngati mulibe mphamvu zodziletsa nokha, chifukwa cha chithunzi cha osalankhula, masi ena, koma chitani mwakachetechete momwe mungathere. Kuti wina asamve. Ichi ndi chofunika kwambiri chomwe chiyenera kulemekezedwa.
Chachinayi, intaneti. Iyi ndi malo omwe mungathe kupukuta mosamala ndikuwonetsa nokha. Uwu ndi malo omasuka kwambiri, palibe chomwe chiyenera kuti munthu aliyense, mabwenzi enieni ndi anzanu adziwone ngati momwe mumawonekera, ndipo pa intaneti pamakhala ngati wachibadwa. Chinthu china ndi chakuti, payenera kukhala wopusa yemwe amamudziwa kuti ali msungwana, ndipo atsikana sayenera kulumbira, koma musamamvere anthu oterowo. Ndi izi komanso ndendende pa intaneti yomwe mungathe kutumiza makalata a trizwlyh. Kusadziwika kumagwira ntchito yaikulu, nthawizina yofunikira. Ngati simukufuna kuwononga mbiri ya mkazi wabwino, mungayambe malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, kumene mungakonzekere tchuthi. Izi zikunenedwa mokweza, ndithudi, sizingatheke kuti wina ali wokondwa kwambiri pamene akunena mapu, komabe, pamene muyenera kudziletsa kuntchito chifukwa cha abwana anu, ndipo chifukwa cha ana anu, muyenera kusiya nthunzi kwinakwake. Zomwe tatchula pamwambazi sizikutanthauza kuti mumayenera kunena ma matsulo kulikonse komwe mumafuna, pa malo ena iwo ali oletsedwa, chifukwa angathe kuletsedwa. Koma penapake amaloledwa, omwe amalola ophunzira kuti aziyankhula momasuka komanso osatetezedwa. Zofala kwambiri sizomwe zili pazitukuko zabwino, koma pali zokulankhulana, kaya ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kapena malo ochezera a pa Intaneti.
Kodi chiganizo cha zonsezi ndi chiyani? Mtsikana kapena mkazi akhoza kulumbira, sizotsutsidwa, koma ndibwino kuti tichite zomwezo, osati anthu, ndiyeno ngati "mu phunziro", osatchedwa "ng'ombe."