Mkazi aliyense wachitatu amayamba kuganiza kuti chinachake chimakhala cholakwika ndi iye, chifukwa amavomereza mosavuta, amatsutsa zomwe amachita ndipo amayesetsa kuphunzitsa momwe angachitire choyenera komanso momwe angasamalirire mwana wake wokondedwa. Amayi apongozi angapereke uphungu populumutsa bajeti, kuyankhula za makatani omwe ali abwino, akuwonetsani mtundu wa mapepala omwe angasankhe kukonza ndi zina zotero. Choyamba ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu ndikutuluka kwa nkhondo kapena kuyankhula nthawi zonse kwa mnyamata kapena mwamuna yemwe wokondedwa wake "mamul" sikulondola. Lekani, muvomerezana ndi zomwe apongozi ake akunena kwa apongozi ake, ndipo ... chitani mwanjira yanu!
Komabe, muyenera kumvetsetsa zifukwa za ubalewu, makamaka popeza nthawi zambiri mumakhala awiri.
Zapadera komanso zosapindulitsa
Chifukwa chofala chifukwa chosakonda mpongozi wake ndi nsanje. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala ngati wokondedwa wanu ali mmodzi m'banja. Alibe abale ndi alongo, ndipo chifukwa chake makolo onse amaika patsogolo pa moyo wa mwanayo. Kotero, kodi mumaphika? Kodi mumadziwa kusunga mathalauza anu molondola? Kodi nthawi zambiri mumasintha zitsulo? Mwachibadwa, mukuchita chilichonse cholakwika. Ndipo amafunika kukuphunzitsani momwe mungasamalire mwana wamwamuna mmodzi.
Kodi mungachite chiyani ndi nsanje ya apongozi anga?
Poyamba, mum'chitire chisoni. Inde, mumakhumudwa kuti muyenera kumvetsera nthawi zonse, koma muzidziika nokha, ndipo muzimvetsa zonse. Kuti muwonetsere amayi a mwamuna wake kuti simukukonzekera kwambiri, chitani mwachinyengo. Lankhulani moona mtima ndi mwamtendere kukambirana ndi okondedwa anu ndipo fotokozani kuti mumalemekeza amayi ake, koma ndikufuna kuphika momwe mumafunira. Ndi kumupempha kuti ayamikire mbale za mayi ake, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo amasonyeza kuti mukhoza kuwonjezera chinachake (malinga ndi njira yanu). Mudzawona, apongozi anga adzamvetsera mwana wawo, chifukwa choyamba chimachokera kwa iye.
N'chimodzimodzinso ndi zina, konzekerani, pita kunja. Mulole mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse akhale woyambitsa kusintha kulikonse m'moyo wanu. Kapena chitani chomwe makolo ake akuganiza kuti akukugulitsani, kutumiza kumwera, kukonza, ndi zina zotero. Ndikutamanda wokondedwa wanu ndi amayi ake: amayamikira ndikubwera kwa inu.
"Mzimu" wake wakale
Ichi ndi chifukwa chokhumudwitsa komanso chosasangalatsa, koma ngati mumamukonda, muyenera kumenyana ndi mthunzi wa mkazi wanu wakale kapena mkwatibwi. Ngati apongozi anu amakuuzani kuti simukuphika monga mukuganiza Mashenka, musakhale ndi nthawi yotuluka, nthawi zonse mukhalebe kuntchito, ndi zina zotero, yesetsani kupeza momwe anathawira kuti asunge nyumbayo.
Mwinamwake, iye samagwira ntchito, kapena usiku wonse womwe ankatsuka, ankatsuka ndi kutsuka pansi kapena china. Kodi mwapezapo? Ndipo tsopano yesani kutembenuza "zolephera zanu" kukhala zopindulitsa zomveka. Mwachitsanzo, auzeni makolo a mwamuna wanu kuti simungatheke kugwira ntchito, ntchito yanu ili patsogolo ndipo mumapeza ndalama zambiri kuti mukonzekeretse chinyumba chanu kapena azimayi anu apongozi anu.
Ngati wakale ake anali woyera komanso wodzisunga, ndipo ndinu msungwana wokongola, mumakonda kuvala madiresi omwe ali ndi khosi lakuya komanso ngati nthawi zonse amawoneka okongola, mudzawonetsa makolo anu okondedwa kuti ndi amene mumayang'anira moyo wanu wonse. Nthawi zonse muzinena kuti mumakonda ndikuyamikira, ndikuthokozani apongozi anu kuti akweze mwana uyu. Kwa chakudya chamadzulo ndi chakudya chamadzulo, bwerani nthawi yoyamba mu zovala zodzichepetsa kwambiri.
Kumbukirani kuti makolo a mwamuna wake amamufuna iye kukhala ndi banja losangalala. Ndi iwo muyenera kukhala abwenzi, osati nkhondo. Yamikirani, kulemekeza ndikuyesera kukonda ngati makolo anu. Iwo ndi mwamuna wake adzasangalala kwambiri!