Zomwe mungachite, ngati chizoloŵezi choipa cha munthu wina chikuvulaza maganizo anu ndikukulepheretsani kukhala ndi moyo? Kodi pali njira zopulumutsira munthu, makamaka wamkulu? Inde pali!
Apanso, zonse siziri choncho!
Koma poyamba yesani kumvetsetsa kuti ndiyani khalidwe loipa la munthu, ndi zomwe simukuzikonda nokha, chifukwa sizinayambe zomwe munkachita kale. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zonse mumapita kunyumba kwanu chovala choyenera, ndipo mlongo wanu amasankha mwinjiro. Inu mukuganiza kuti matayala mu bafa ayenera kumangirira pa zingwe, ndipo mwana nthawizonse amusiya pa makina ochapa. Kuti muyambe kukonzanso bwino kwa anthu oyandikana nawo, tifotokozereni nokha ubwino ndi kupweteka kwa maphunziro apamwamba.
Ndizovuta kwambiri kwa inu pamene zolembera ndi mapensulo zili mu dongosolo lina, ndipo wosintha sakuziika kotero ...
Zikuwoneka kuti ndizo zonsezi, koma zimakhala zokhumudwitsa kwambiri. Ndipo nthawizina malingaliro otsutsa amadza m'maganizo: anthu oyandikana nawo amachitira mwano. Ndipotu palibe wina amene akufuna kuti iwe ukhale woipa, koma ena amachita zonse mwa njira zawo. Ndipo ngati mukumvetsa izi, ndizotheka kuti vuto lidzatha palokha.
Kukhazikitsa makanema
Pamene anthu amakhala kapena amagwira ntchito limodzi, ayenera kusintha, atakhala ndi maganizo ndi zizolowezi za wina ndi mzake. Ndipo chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kudziwa zomwe anthu sakonda. Njira yabwino yothetsera chizoloŵezi choipa cha wina ndikuuza mwini wake malingaliro omwe mukukumana nacho ndi izi kapena zomwe akuchita. Koma musalankhule za khalidwe lake lolakwika. Zomaliza ziyenera kupangidwa ndi munthu mwiniwake. Ngati muli wokondedwa kwa iye, adzasamalira kuti asakukhumudwitseni. Kodi mukufuna kuphunzitsanso anthu oyandikana nawo moyenera ndikuyika njira ya achibale okhulupirika? Chitani izi pakali pano!
Ngati nonse mukumva kuseketsa, mukhoza kusonyeza zizoloŵezi zoipa ndi nthabwala. Mwamuna samaphunzira momwe angatsitsire masokosi mumsamba wochapa zovala? Chabwino, mumupatse pa mpando wawo wokondedwa mpaka amvetse komwe ayenera kukhala. Ndithudi inu muli ndi zizolowezi zomwe zimakwiyitsa ena. Vomerezani kuti muzilimbana nawo pa mfundo: inu kwa ine - ine kwa inu. Sankhani chizolowezi chimodzi ndikulonjezana kuti mudzayesetsa kuthetsa izo. Onetsetsani kuti mupange nthawi yomwe mwakonzekera kuyigwiritsa ntchito. Ndipo tsiku lirilonse ligawidwe bwino. Ndipo mu ulemu wa chigonjetso, konzekerani holide!
Nkhani yaikulu
Koma choti muchite, ngati ena akupitirizabe kuchotsa zizoloŵezi zanu zowopsya sizikufulumira konse? Izi zikutanthauza kuti, m'mawu, akuwoneka kuti akugwirizana ndi inu, koma gawoli ... Kenaka chitani zomwe: yesetsani kuti muphunzitsenso bwino anthu oyandikana nawo.
Yesetsani kumvetsetsa: mwinamwake sangathe kuzigwira yekha, chifukwa mwanjira imeneyi amayesa kuwauza ena za mavuto ake, kunena za zomwe sanathetsere padera.
Zinthu zobalalika zingasonyeze kuti munthu amafunadi kudzikumbutsa yekha ndi kupeza gawo lina la chisamaliro ndi chikondi kuchokera kwa achibale ake. Kawirikawiri njira iyi imagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi ana, kuponyera tiyi toys m'chipinda chokhalamo, ngati kuyesa kuti: "Amayi, lankhulani nane!"
Polimbikira kuchita "mwa njira zawo," nthawi zina anthu amangokumbukira za ufulu wawo ku malo awo (thupi ndi maganizo). Taganizirani izi, kodi simukukankhira kwambiri achibale anu? Kodi pali malo m'miyoyo yawo chifukwa cha zosangalatsa, misonkhano ndi anzanu?
Chibwenzi nthawi zonse sichikukwaniritsa malonjezo awo? Ganizirani, mwina sangathe kunena "ayi" poyankha mapemphero anu? Lankhulani naye.
Pali zizoloŵezi zoipa zambiri - kukung'onong'onong'onong'ono, kupotoza chinachake m'manja mwako, kusinthiratu tsitsi lanu kapena kupukuta mutu wanu, zomwe zimakondweretsa kapena kunena za vuto lachisokonezo choyambitsa vuto.
Kuwathetsa iwo, nkoyenera kusamalira zinthu ziwiri. Choyamba, kumuthandiza munthu kukhala wolimba mtima kwambiri. Kuti muchite izi, musamukakamize, koma mosiyana ndi momwe mungathere, chitamando.
Chachiwiri, yesani pamodzi kuti mutengepo kanthu "koipa" ndi chinachake chokhumudwitsa kapena chothandiza. Ndi bwino kuyeretsa nyumbayo, kapena, kutsegula bukhu la ziwanda, kusiyana ndi kukwapula chipewa kapena kukunkha misomali.
Malangizo olakwika
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti anthu omwe amakwiya kwambiri ndi iwo omwe ali nawo ndi makhalidwe ndi zizoloŵezi zomwe sangakwanitse. Ndipo ngati simungaphunzitse mwamuna wanu kapena ana anu kuti alamulire , yesetsani kuti musakhale wotchuka ngati geek, osachepera sabata! Ngakhale simukufuna kuti mukhalebe kwanthawizonse, mudzamva zabwino zonse za njirayi.