Momwe mungaphunzirire kusangalala

M'dziko lamakono, mawu akuti "zosangalatsa" amagwiritsidwa ntchito mobwerezabwereza m'malemba a malonda ndipo ali okhudzana kwambiri ndi kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi ndalama. Mawu oti "zosangalatsa ayenera kulipidwa" posachedwapa amatengedwa ngati enieni, ponena za kugwirizana kwa ndalama. Ku lingaliro la "zokondweretsa" timapempha ngakhale mu nthawi yomwe tikambirana za kugonana ndi chakudya. Ndipo ndizo zonse. Timaona kuti ndi chinthu chosasangalatsa komanso chokhalitsa. Kawirikawiri taganizirani za izi ndipo musadzipangitse kukhala ndi cholinga chochipeza. Pali malingaliro akuti ngati sitidya, sitinagonepo pogona ndipo sitinadye mitundu yonse ya katundu ndi mautumiki, moyo wathu ukanapanda zosangalatsa zonse. Wolemba mbiri wakale wafilosofi Epicurus, ataphunzira za nkhaniyi, akanakhala wokhumudwa kuti mmalo mwa galasi la vinyo, limene iye anapempha kuti abweretse asanayambe kusamba mu imfa yake, iye akanati aziwongolera vodka.

Chisangalalo chinali chimodzi mwa mfundo zazikulu mu filosofi yake, koma musalembe munthu wachikulire mu mndandanda wa bon bon vivans. Ndipo ndi Dionysus - mulungu wa kupambana ndi kusangalatsa - sikuyenera kusokonezeka. Ziphunzitso za Epicurus sizingakhoze kuchepetsedwa kukhala kuyitana kuti zisangalale ndi moyo mwathunthu - ndizo zambiri zambiri, zosangalatsa ndi zamaganizo. N'zosadabwitsa kuti ambiri mwa akatswiri apadera a maganizo a m'zaka za m'ma 1900 anamupempha.

Theorist of buzz
Epicurus sankakhulupirira kuti pambuyo pake, ngakhale kuti sanatsutse kuti milunguyo iliko. Komabe, malingaliro ake, iwo adakhala moyo wawo wokha, akusowa chidwi ndi anthu okha. Malinga ndi wafilosofi, mwamunayo mwiniyo anali ndi tsogolo lake ndipo anali ndi chifuniro. Chifukwa cha anthu ake amayenera kufika ku chikhalidwe cha mkati - ataraxia. Paulendo wopita kuulendo umenewu, Epicurus adafuna kuti aziganizira zakukhosi kwake, zomwe adaziwona kuti ndizo chitsimikizo chodalirika kuposa kulingalira. Chabwino, pothandizira - kukwaniritsa zofuna zawo, kusangalala ndi kuchepetsa kuvutika ndi kuzunzika. Kotero, gawo limodzi la mfundo zomwe zinkatsogolera maganizo a masiku ano, zinakhazikitsidwa ngakhale tisanakhalepo nthawi yathu ino.

Tonse tili ndi zambiri zoti tiphunzire kuchokera kwa Epicurus. Mwachitsanzo, zimakhala zochepa kuganiza komanso kumva zambiri. Komanso - tenga zolakwa m'manja mwanu, dziwani zosowa zenizeni zomwe zikupita kudutsa mndandanda wa "kugula zakudya zogonana", osati kubwezeretsa kulandila zosangalatsa kwenikweni.

Filosofi ya Epicurus ndi yabwino kwambiri, yowonekera komanso yowonjezereka kuti sikuli bwino chifukwa chake sitikukhalabe mu nthawi ya Epicurean yogonjetsa. N'zotheka, ndithudi, kufotokoza chowonadi chokhumudwitsa ichi chifukwa chakuti tonsefe tinakhudzidwa ndi makhalidwe a chipembedzo apakatikati, momwe zosangalatsa zamtundu uliwonse zinaliletsedwa ndikudzimva kuti ndi olakwa. Komabe, zenizeni, chikhristu ndi Epicureanism zimatiyitanira moyenera. Kufunafuna zosangalatsa zatsopano ndi zatsopano kumabweretsa mkhalidwe wosalinganikirana. Palibe ataraxia yomwe simungakhoze kukwaniritsa mwanjira imeneyo.

Mndandanda sukuwonekera
Makolo amakono amakonda kuphunzitsa ana awo zinthu zosiyanasiyana. Amalimbikitsa kugwira ntchito mwakhama, omvera, anzeru, ana opambana, kuphunzitsa luso la utsogoleri kapena kudzipereka okha kwa ena. Koma lingaliro la kukhazikika mwachangu mu spinogryzah kuti asangalale ndi moyo pamutu silimabwera kwa wina aliyense. Ngakhale, ngati mukuganiza za izi, luso limeneli ndi parachute yabwino, yomwe imayambitsa nthawi zovuta. Chinthu chophweka ngati chisangalalo, kulimbitsa ndi kulimbitsa chilakolako chokhala ndi moyo, kuchotsa kunja maganizo, ndicho chitsimikizo chabwino kwambiri cha dziko lapansi. Imeneyi ndi njira yeniyeni yothetsera mowa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, ndipo chifukwa chaichi.

Pamene ntchito yokhayo ndi yokondweretsa, njirayo ikutha kufanana ndi kukwera ndikusanduka malo osangalatsa kudera lokongola. Inde, pamsewu padzakhala madontho ndi ascents. Padzakhala kutopa. Komabe, mutatha kukwaniritsa zotsatira, mukhoza kuimitsa ndikukondwerera chigonjetso, ndipo pitirizani kukhala kosavuta. Ntchito yayikulu komanso yowopsya yatsimikiziridwa ndi chitsanzo chake: "Pezani chinachake chomwe mukufuna ndipo simudzasowa kugwira ntchito."

Msungwana wa nkhumba yabwino
Makolo amene amaphunzitsa ana nthawi zonse komanso zonse zomwe amapereka kwa ena, amaganizira za ena, komanso amadzifunsa okha, kukhala "msungwana wabwino" komanso "mwana wophunzira bwino". Pachifukwachi, palibe cholakwika ndi malingaliro awa, nthawizina ndi bwino kuganizira poyamba komanso nthawi ndi nthawi, osati kutseguka. Komabe, momwe mwana amaonera nkhani inayake yochokera kwa makolo ali ndi chidziwikiritso chodziwikiratu: chimaphatikizapo chiganizo "nthawizonse". Izi zimabweretsa mfundo yakuti, pokhala atakula, munthu amatha kudziganizira yekha, kuteteza malire ake ndi kuzindikira zilakolako zake. Amakhala mayi Teresa kapena Batman, nthawi zonse amapulumutsa aliyense ndi chirichonse. Zotsatira zake, zimatopa ndikukwiyitsa, "mtsikana wodekha" amayamba kukwiya ndi mpira, ndipo "mnyamata wobadwira bwino" yemwe sagwira ntchito nthawi zonse amamanga gulu la paratrooper m'nyumba ina.

Kupeza ndi kupeza zosangalatsa ndi njira imodzi yodzidziwira yekha. Munthu amene sadziwa kudziyang'anira yekha, sangathe kusamalira okondedwa ake, chifukwa timachitira ena mofanana ndi okondedwa athu. Malingaliro abwino, thandizo, chipulumutso ndi chikondi ndizo zokha pokhapokha atabweretsa chisangalalo, ndipo sichimayambitsa zokhumudwitsa. Apo ayi iwo ali chabe chikhumbo chofuna kusinthanitsa misonkhano kwa mtundu wina wa mphotho mwa mawonekedwe kapena kuyesa koyenera. Chisangalalo chimakhala mtundu wa beacon womwe umakulolani kuti muyende mmoyo wanu. Funso "ngati chinthu china sichimandisangalatsa, ndiye ndikuchitanji?" Zingakhale zofunikira kuti mudzidziwe nokha pano ndi pano.

Vinyo samabwera ndekha
M'mabanja ena, zizindikiro zimadutsa kuchokera ku mibadwomibadwo: "Musaseke kwambiri, ndiye kuti mudzalira kwambiri." Kotero, osati kuseka kokha, komanso zabwino zilizonse, kuphatikizapo zosangalatsa, ndizochepa, ndipo nthawi zina zimaletsedwa. Pamene akusangalala ndi chinachake, munthu amayamba kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa, ngati kuti akukwiyira milungu kapena, kapena kuti, mizimu yoipa ya makolo omwe poyamba adagonjetsa tchimo kuti asasangalale ndi kusangalala kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani? Mwina, ndithudi, nthawi yayitali pambuyo pa chochitika chosangalatsa kwambiri, chinthu china chinatsatira - chowawa kwambiri. Ndipotu akatswiri a zamaganizo amachititsa kuti malingaliro amatsenga, omwe amachitikira ana onse osachepera zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, ndipo ena ovuta kwambiri ndi akuluakulu, amatha.

Pafupifupi mwana aliyense ali wamng'ono amakhulupirira: ngati muwoneka motalika kwambiri mumitambo, mukafuna kuyenda, iwo adzabalalika ndipo dzuwa lidzatulukira. Patangopita nthawi pang'ono, ku sukulu ya pulayimale, timapeza zambiri zokhudza mphepo yamkuntho ndi ma antiticyclones, ndipo timayiwala kuti tikadakhulupirira mphamvu zathu zamatsenga. Komabe, mu mbali zina za moyo chikhulupiriro chotero chikhalabe ndi ife kwa moyo. Ndipo ali ndi zaka makumi atatu ndi makumi anayi, tikhoza kumthiravulira pamapewa athu ndikugogoda pa nkhuni kuti tisapangidwe. Kotero ife timachirikiza chinyengo cha kuyendetsa njira zadziko lonse, kuthekera kolamulira mantha amtsogolo ndi osadziŵika.

Ngati tasiya lingaliro laumulungu wathu, tidzivomereze tokha kuti sitingathe kulamulira kusatsimikizika mwanjira iliyonse, ndiye tikhoza kumasuka ndi kusangalala. Ndipo panthawiyi, panthawi yoyamba yamphindi ya moyo, maganizo anu akuyang'ana za kuyandikira kwa gulu lakuda, taganizirani izi ngati: tembenukira kumanzere kapena kumanja, kenako pitirizani mzere woyera, pamodzi ndi ...

Mu moyo wathu, zokondweretsa ndi malo ophatikizana a zinthu, zamaganizo ndi zamaganizo. Iyi ndi mfundo yofunikira kwambiri yothandizira, poona kuti mutha kusintha dziko lonse. Kupeza ndi kupeza magwero ofunika ndikuyesetsanso kupeza mayankho a mafunso akuti "Ndine yani?", "Ndili ndani lero?", "Ndikufuna chiyani?". Ndipo kufufuza sikuli kwanzeru komanso kochititsa mantha, komwe kumakhala kosavuta kusokonezeka kusiyana ndi kufika pakuzindikira, ndikukhala, komanso kosangalatsa kwambiri.