Kuvutika maganizo kumakwirira ndi mutu ndipo zingakhale zabwino kuti zitheke kudziko lonse lapansi. Vuto ndiloti palibe ponseponse. Choncho kuntchito zonse zimapita mozungulira, panyumba nthawi zonse. Mwamuna wina pafupi ndi mutu wake adayamba kufunafuna yankho, zomwe mukufunikira. Koma kuzungulira makhalidwe onse okondwa ndi olenga omwe mumamva ... palibe.
Vuto la hafu yokongola yaumunthu ndilolondola kuti ndi lokongola, choncho liyenera kubwezeretsedwa ngati lokongola. Vuto la kukongola limabwera posachedwa kapena mtsogolo mu moyo wa mkazi kapena mtsikana aliyense. Chowonadi n'chakuti pamene sitinakwatirane, timapita ndi anzathu kukawonetserako, museums ndi nyumba, ndi zina zotero. Koma ngati mkazi akwatirana, mndandanda wa mndandanda wa msanga umayamba nthawi yomweyo, chifukwa chake chokongola sichiwonekera. Inde, ndipo pakati pa amuna nthawi zambiri simukupeza akatswiri a kukongola. Adzagwiritsa ntchito bwino ndalama ndikupita ku lesitilanti, kapena amagula matayala atsopano pa galimoto, "chabwino," nawonso amafikira. Koma, pambali iyi, amuna ndi olakwika, ngati asiya kudyetsa maluwa awo, mzimayi, madzi ndi feteleza, posakhalitsa amawomba.
Ngati mwamuna wanu sali wa gulu la oimira ogonana amphamvu omwe safuna kupita ku nyumbayi kapena kuwonetsera zithunzi, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kulingalira za udindo wa kukongola kwa dziko lozungulira mmoyo wa mkazi aliyense. Choncho, pangani ndondomeko, yomwe mungakonde kukachezera ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti muyanjana ndi zokongola.
1. M'pofunika kuyendera museums, machitidwe ndi mawonetsero. Sichidalira ngati chiri chokongola, chamakono kapena chotchuka, muyenera kuganizira zofunikira za mkati, osati ndi mawu amodzi. Mukhoza kupita ku nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zakale zapakhomo, popanda kuyendayenda mozungulira, kuyang'ana zinthu zochititsa chidwi kwambiri, ndipo panyumba fufuzani zambiri zowonjezera. Chidwi chanu chidzakumbukira kukumbukira kwanu ndi kukhala mphamvu yodzipangira nokha.
2. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuwerenga ma classic. Chinthu chachikulu ndikugonjetsa zolakwika, zomwe zimasangalatsa komanso zosasangalatsa. Pambuyo pake, iwo adalimbikitsidwa mwa ife ku sukulu, chifukwa tinakakamizika kuŵerenga, ndipo chilichonse chomwe chikakamizidwa kuchita molimbika chimakhala chosasangalatsa. Ndipo kawirikawiri malingaliro ndi olakwika kuti zolemba zapamwamba ndi za nkhani zapamwamba ndi zamkhutu zina. Mabuku awa ndi ofanana, maubwenzi a anthu, zokhudzana ndi zochitika ndi zochitika zosiyana pa nthawi zosiyana.
3. Sikoyenera kuganiza kuti chirichonse chokongola chimabisika m'mabwalo ndi museums, komanso zolemba za kukongola zikhoza kuchitika m'matawuni.
Nthaŵi ina yapitayi wojambula, akuwona mkazi wachikulire yemwe anali akuyenda mu chida cha zinyalala, akudabwa ndi kuyamikira. Chifukwa pamene iye anatembenukira kwa iye_mmanja mwake anali zolemba, zakale ndi zowonongeka, zomwe wina anataya kunja. Zimenezi zinadabwitsa kwambiri, chifukwa chakuti anthu omwe ali ndi udindo umenewu adayamba kale, koma zochita zosayembekezereka zimasocheretsa. Akupangitseni kuganiziranso moyo wanu wonse. Choncho, musaganizire mozama ndikuyang'ana kukongola m'malo mwa malo osankhidwa.
4. Kuyendayenda mumzindawu, konzani mtundu wa ma beacons, ndiko kuti, kumbukirani kuti ndiani pamene mudawona wokongola. Zingakhale zipilala, ndipo mwinamwake wamba, zonse zimadalira mphamvu ya malingaliro anu. Kuwonjezera kwakukulu ndi kulemekeza kwa inu komwe mumadziwa kuchuluka kwambiri zamakono komwe kuli mumzinda wanu. Ndipo ngati inu simukudziwa, ndiye pitani paulendo wamba. Zikumveka, ndithudi, zopanda pake, koma inu mudzadabwa ndi chiwerengero cha nkhani, zinsinsi zomwe zimabisa makoma a mzindawo. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, mungasonyeze chidziwitso chanu ngati alendo ochokera mumzinda wina abwera kwa inu, akudabwa kwambiri ndi katundu wawo.
5. Kubwerera kunyumba, simukusowa kusankha njira, panjira yomwe mumadziwira aliyense wodutsa komanso mwala wamtengo wapatali mumsewu, sankhani chinthu chatsopano komanso chovuta.
6. Pobwerera kunyumba, musawone malo okongola komanso okongola, anzanu apamtima. Tengani lamulo kuti musawaitane anthu oyipa, osati kuyang'ana zolakwa, chifukwa palibe zabwino ndipo onse ali ndi zofooka. Komanso mwa munthu aliyense pali chinachake chapadera, wokongola kwambiri. Yesetsani kupeza izi ndi kuyamikira kukongola kwa maso a munthu yemwe sali wokongola kwambiri.
7. Musaiwale, wokongola kwambiri, izi ndi zomwe chilengedwe chinalenga. Samalani kusintha kwa mlengalenga mvula isanayambe ... Kumbukirani momwe mudakali mwana mungathe kuthamanga m'madzi otentha ndikupeza zosangalatsa zambiri. Pokumbukira chikhalidwe ichi, mutha kuphunzira momwe mungabwezeretsere, kubwezeretsani kuyambira muli mwana.
Ndipo ngati mfundo zonsezi sizouziridwa kapena zotsitsimutsidwa kupuma limodzi ndi kukongola kwa dziko lozungulira, ndiye kuti ayenera kutsimikizira zolemba za pessimism pansipa.
Chipembedzo cha kukongola ndi kusowa kwake
Mwamwayi, udindo wa kukongola kwa dziko lozungulira mmoyo wa mkazi watenga tanthauzo losiyana pang'ono lero kuposa kale. Chifukwa cha malingaliro olakwika, chipembedzo cha kukongola chinapambana mu chikhalidwe. Kuyendera ma saloni ndi maonekedwe abwino tsiku ndi tsiku kwakhala kozoloŵera kwa amai amakono. Tili ndi akazi okongola, okonzeka bwino, koma nthawi imodzimodziyo, iwo, ndi anthu ena onse padziko lapansi, amawona kusowa kwa maganizo, kuperewera kwa kukongola kwauzimu. Pambuyo pake, ngati muika chisankho pamaso pa mkazi, pitani ku galamala kapena mukapite kukagula, sazengereza kusankha chotsatira.
Pali njira yachiwiri yomwe imasonyeza kuti amai sapatula nthawi yokongola, chifukwa alibe nthawi yokwanira yopita ku museums ndi mawonetsero. Koma, mwatsoka, ngakhale izi sizikutanthauza aliyense, chifukwa palibe amene amaletsa kuwerenga mabuku akale kapena kuyenda madzulo. Kumbukirani olemba ndakatulo omwe, pokhala kumidzi, adapeza nthawi yolenga, iwo sanangowerenga, iwo adalenga, kotero kuti lero takhala tikuzunguliridwa ndi kukongola.
Muzojambula zamakono, komabe lingaliro la kukongola ndi lopweteka, ngakhale sitiyenera kuyikapo kuti lero sizinalengedwe. Pangani! Ndipo sitimavomereza nthawi zambiri chifukwa choganiza molakwika, koma ngati mumakonda zomwe akatswiri amakono amajambula ndi kulemba ndakatulo, musamachite manyazi. Zimangotanthauza kuti muli ndi moyo wanu.