Ndi amuna ati omwe ayenera kupeŵa?

Wofatsa kapena wamwano? Wokonda kapena wokonda? Kwa zaka zambiri, amuna sankadziwa udindo womwe adawapatsidwa kwa anthu. Koma tsopano iwo apeza malo awo ndipo atisonyezeratu modzidzimutsa za chikhalidwe chatsopano. Tiyeni tiwone yemwe tsopano akunena malo mu mtima ndi pabedi. Ndi amuna otani omwe ayenera kupeŵa ndipo ndi zinthu ziti zomwe ziyenera kuyesedwa? Chilichonse chimayenda, chirichonse chimasintha. Kugonana kwa amuna osokoneza bongo kunalowerera m'malo otentha, koma zikuwoneka kuti sichikuyenda. Ndiye ndani iye, mwamuna wamakono yemwe ali ndi kusintha kwa 3.0?

Kugonana? Palibe vuto!

Kuwonongeka kwa chuma, mavuto a ndalama, kuopa kutaya ntchito zawo - kuchokera kupsinjika iyi, iye anataya kwathunthu chilakolako? Ayi! Icho chinali vuto limene potsiriza linawonetsa amuna kuti adzayenera kutumbirira kwambiri kuti akwaniritse chinachake. Ndipo izi sizikukhudza ntchito. Poganizira kuti amayi ali odziimira okha ndi odzidalira, kugonana kolimba kumawonetsa malingaliro ndi njira yachilendo yotidabwitsa ife pabedi. Funso limabwera - kodi amauzira kuti? Mafilimu ofotokozera, magazini osokonezeka - bwanji? Malingaliro omwe mwawawonedwa nthawi zina angapangitse kuyesera kokondweretsa ndi kokondweretsa kwa nonse a inu. Ndipo musamawope kuti zofunikira zanu ndizopambana kwambiri - zosangalatsa za kugonana ziyenera kulandiridwa ndi onse awiri, choncho tengani m'manja mwanu ndikumuwonetseni zomwe mukufuna kuti agone. Kenaka aloleni kuti ayambe kuchita zomwezo ndikuwonetsetse kuti phunziro silinali chabe.

Kuli bwino limodzi kusiyana ndi kunyumba nokha

Nkhani zoipa: Malinga ndi chiwerengero, amuna 63% osakwanitsa zaka 26 amakhalabe kunyumba ndi amayi. Koma pali zabwino: Amuna 46% ali okonzeka kukhala pansi pa denga limodzi ndi chilakolako chawo patapita miyezi ingapo. Ndipo inu mudzakhala okondwa kuphunzira kuti amuna ambiri amafuna kukhala ndi malo amoyo oposa 120 mamita ndi kukhala pafupifupi rubles zikwi makumi anai pachaka pa vuto la nyumba yawo - njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera vuto la nyumba, sichoncho?

Kufanana? Ndipo inde, ndipo ayi

Akazi a azimayi, azimayi olemekezeka aakazi, kodi Alice adapezekanso ku Land of Wonders, ndipo gulu linazindikira kuti lingaliro la "kugonana kofooka" kulibe? Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa yunivesite ya Heidelberg, amuna awiri mwa atatu aliwonse amafuna kukhala ndi ufulu wofanana ndi akazi awo, ndipo gawo limodzi mwa atatu pa amuna aliwonse amakhulupirira kuti dziko lathuli lakazidwa kwambiri. Koma awa ndi mawu onse. Mumoyo weniweni, posakhalitsa nkhani za tsiku ndi tsiku zidzakambidwa pamasom'pamaso (omwe angasinthe nsapato za mwana kapena kuphika mbale, kapena kutsuka pansi), amuna, komanso pamwamba pa onse abambo okwatirana a banja, kupeŵa chisankho chawo, kupeza zifukwa zambiri ndi nkhani zofunikira. Monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, pamene kubadwa kwa mwana woyamba, kumasulidwa m'banja lililonse kumatha. Kawirikawiri, amayi amawasamalira. Mwa njira, amuna okwatira, mosiyana ndi omwe amakhala opanda timampampiti m'mapasipoti awo, amafuna kuona ntchito yawo yogawira maudindo m'mabanja awo: mwamuna ndi amene amapereka ndalama komanso wothandizira, ndipo mkaziyo ndiye woyang'anira nyumbayo.

Wokondedwa wa Carefree

Kugonana usiku umodzi ndi njira yabwino yopewera kufotokozera zovuta za maubwenzi ndi masewero. Mwamuna wamwamuna wamakono wamakono amakonda kukonda kugonana popanda kudzipereka. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti amasintha atsikana usiku uliwonse. Ndizowonjezera kuti amamanga ubale wake ndi amayi m'njira yomwe sichitenga udindo komanso sapereka ufulu wake.

Zokhumba zake

Aliyense amene adanena chilichonse, koma tikudziwa motsimikiza kuti ziribe kanthu momwe timadziwira tokha kuti dziko lathu lolemera kwambiri ndilo khalidwe lathu lalikulu, mofanana timabwera nthawi zonse ku choonadi chakale: munthu, poyamba, amakonda maso ake. Kotero, inu simungakhoze kuwerenga Petrarch mu choyambirira, koma muyenera kukhala ndi manicure, pedicure, epilation osati osati kokha.

Chikwama kapena moyo?

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa Emnid, amuna 23 peresenti amatha kupereka chaka cha moyo wawo kwa milioni imodzi. Ndipo 17% okha azimayi amavomereza kuchita chotero.

Amakondanso pyshechki

Zomwe zimachititsa kuti thupi likhale lochepa kwambiri pamapeto pake limabweretsa zionetsero. Zithunzi, ojambula ndi magazini akulimbana ndi "mantha oopsa" ndipo akugulitsa kulemera kwake. Aliyense akuvomereza kuti abwerere ku chikhalidwe chachikazi. Nthaŵi zambiri, m'mabwenzi a anthu, ngakhale magulu a "connoisseurs of form magnificent" amawoneka. Popanda kugonana, njira yomweyi imatha kutsatiridwa: mu kafukufuku wa Gewis, amuna makumi asanu ndi awiri (70%) amatsimikizira kuti amakonda akazi m'thupi ndipo amuna 5% amangokonda hudyshkas. Mwa njirayi, malinga ndi ziwerengero zomwezo, 53% mwa amuna amakhulupirira kuti pyschy ndi wokonda kwambiri, ndipo 29% akutsimikiza kuti sakhala osangalatsa kwambiri. Kuchotsa tsitsi kumutu, mwamunayo amakhalanso wosasinthasintha, monga mukukonzekera ntchito, mgwirizano ndi iyemwini, omwe sungakhoze kunenedwa za abwenzi awo omwe ataya nthawi zonse. Ndipo potsiriza, nkhani zofunikira kwambiri - zinawonekera mgwirizano weniweni pakati pa mlingo ndi nthawi ya kudzutsidwa kwa munthu kuchokera kulingalira za chiwerengero cha akazi. Zikuoneka kuti zithunzi ndi eni ake amawonekedwe okondweretsa amuna ndipo, mofunikira, mofulumira kuposa momwe amachitira atsikana omwe ali ndi chiwerengero cha anyamata.

Musanene chilichonse, wokondedwa!

Pali zinthu zomwe iye samangozizindikira komanso kumasowa makutu. Mwachitsanzo, nkhani yanu yokhudza kavalidwe katsopano kapena nkhani ya utumiki wa banja la agogo anu. Ndipo pali chinachake chimene sakufuna kumva kuchokera kwa mkazi aliyense. Ayi. Pano pali chiwerengero cha zovuta kwambiri pazinthu zamunthu zomwe zingakhale bwino kuchotsa ku lexicon: "Sindikukonzekera", "Tiyeni tikhalebe mabwenzi", "Si inu, ndine", "Simumandimvera".

Zakudya zabwino

Borsch pa mbatata yoyamba, yokazinga ndi anyezi wa yachiwiri ndikugwiritsanso ntchito mchere. Kuyambira ali mwana timakhala tikudziŵa bwino lingaliro losavuta: "Njira ya pamtima ya munthu imakhala m'mimba mwake." Choncho, pokhala okhwima, timayendetsa oimirira kuti tigwirizane kwambiri ndi kugonana kwathu, mosamala, tcheru, ndipo ndithudi, timayesa kuwadyetsa bwino. Kaya akatswiri ofufuza azungu ndi azimayi amanena chiyani, tikudziwa kuti malowa akhoza kukhala a colorblind ndipo sakuchita nawo zovala zatsopano zofiira, koma sadzaiwalika mapepala opangidwa ndi nyumba ndi borscht. Ndipo posachedwa izo zidzafika poonjezera. Ngakhale kuti padziko lonse anthu amamenya cholesterol komanso amakhala ndi moyo wokhutira, amuna a ku Russia, timasangalala, pamene timalephera kugonjetsedwa ndi mafashoni, ndipo munthu mmodzi pa anthu 30 aliwonse angathe kukana madontho a kunyumba, kukonda madzi a udzu ndi tsamba saladi. Ngakhale zina za uphungu wa asayansi a kumadzulo ndibwinobe kumvetsera komanso. Mwachitsanzo, yesetsani kuwonjezera zakudya zake ndi masamba (kupatula katsabo katsabola, broccoli ndi kolifulawa) - zimapangitsa kuti umuna ukhale wabwino komanso kuti umakhala wabwino.

Chikondi chenicheni

Mwamuna aliyense wachiwiri amakhulupirira kuti wokondedwayo angapezeke pa intaneti, ngakhale ngati kufufuza kumatenga miyezi 19. N'chifukwa chiyani watalika choncho? Panthawi yomwe akufunafuna munthu wamaloto pa intaneti, amuna ambiri amachulukitsa ulemu wawo, m'malo momangonena zoona. Koma, timavomereza, ifenso nthawi zambiri timalephera kulemera kwathu.

Psychology yogwiritsidwa ntchito

Malingana ndi kafukufuku wopanga chibwenzi amuna akukulitsa njira zonse kuti amvetse zomwe akufuna. 63% mwa anthu omwe anafunsidwa amakhulupirira mwakachetechete kuti poyang'ana iwo amatha kudziwa molondola omwe akukambirana nawo - mwana wamkazi wamtambo, buluu kapena bulu. Gawo la amuna ndikutsimikiza kuti mkazi amatsegula nkhope yake yeniyeni mumtundu wa anthu pamene amasonyeza khalidwe lake. Ngakhale mapulogalamu omwe amawawonera pa TV akhoza kukhala maziko a zogwirizana. Ndipo sizikudziwika zomwe ziri bwino - nkhani kapena "Dom-2". Chomaliza, komabe, nthawi zambiri amagona pabedi. Munthu aliyense wachisanu amaganiza kuti akhoza kumadziwana bwino. Ndipo pano kugonana kotetezeka kumapeza tanthauzo latsopano!

Mosamala, maganizo olakwika

Mfundo yakuti abambo amadzipereka mofulumira kwa mnzake wawo wazing'ono masentimita awiri. onse akhala akudziwika kale. Koma kuti iwo alibe chisamaliro choteteza, kwa ife nkhani. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa Kinsey Institute, amuna 45% adanena kuti sagwirizane ndi makondomu omwe adagwiritsa ntchito miyezi itatu yapitayo. Uwu ndi umboni winanso wosonyeza kuti amuna amagula makondomu kukula kwake, motsogoleredwa ndi mafilimu owonetsera zolaula komanso zithunzi zowonongeka - samadziwa za kukula kwake kwa ulemu wawo ndipo akamagula amapereka malingaliro okhumba. Zotsatira zowonongeka ndizopha - makondomu sali angwiro, akung'ambika kapena kuthamanga pa nthawi yovuta kwambiri.