Nthawi zambiri zimachitika: Ndiwe wanzeru, wokongola, wokondweretsa nthawi zonse, wokondwa komanso wokondana naye, koma pa njira yomwe mumakumana ndi abambo amphongo okhaokha. Otsatira am'mbuyo atsopano, omwe nthawi zambiri amakukhumudwitsani mu chikondi. Koma nthawi imadutsa, zilonda zikuchiritsa - ndipo mumathamangira kukakumana ndi abambo ena. Kodi vuto ndi chiyani? Kotero, msonkhano pa mutu wakuti "Wokongola wokongola ndekha kapena chifukwa chiyani ndiribe mwayi."
Chilengedwe ndi chanzeru ndipo nthawi zambiri chimapereka malangizo abwino kwambiri. Chimene ife, mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri timasowa makutu. Chifundo. Mwapita ku munda wamaluwa ndipo mwinamwake munkawona zomera zowonongeka kumeneko. Amakopera munthu wodetsedwayo ndi mtundu wowala ndi zonunkhira, kenako amawatchinga ndi masamba ndi nthambi zawo. Pambuyo pake, wogwidwayo ali ndi chinthu chimodzi chokha - kuwonongeka.
Mwamwayi, anthu saopa odyetsa zomera. Timagwidwa ndi zoopsa zina. Chimodzimodzinso panthawi yoyamba, ngati fungo la maluwa otentha, komanso ngati chakupha monga madzi ake. Ndipo imodzi mwa zoopsazi imatchedwa "munthu wakupha".
Pamene kalonga akhala chophimba.
Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kukonda ndi makutu a amuna omwe amawoneka mwankhanza ndi makhalidwe a optima awa ndi mwayi wa atsikana aang'ono. Koma aphungu apadera pa milandu yosudzulana amakamba kuti akazi okhwima, okhwima amadzipanganso kuchita manyazi chifukwa cha chikondi. Iwo, mosiyana ndi nzeru, amaponya amuna odalirika, achikondi ndikupita kwa iwo omwe alibe mbiri.
Inu mukhoza, ndithudi, kufotokoza chirichonse mwa kupasuka kwa hormonal, kugonana. Koma kawirikawiri m'masekondi achikondi a amuna opha amayi amawoneka achikondi, achifundo, akukhala moyo wauzimu wovuta. Kawirikawiri, akazi amakonda kufotokoza zochitika zawo pozindikira kuti potsiriza anakumana ndi kalonga wawo wamwamuna. Theka lake. Kuti mpaka tsopano moyo wawo unali waimvi, wokhumudwitsa. Zoona, patapita nthawi kalonga adasanduka hule wamba, woledzera woledzera kapena sadist. Ndipo kulipira kwa kanthawi kochepa kwa chimwemwe ndi munthu wakupha kumakhala kosayenera: kukhumudwa, kupsinjika maganizo, kusweka kwa mabanja ndi mabanja.
Koma, ngakhale atadutsa m'mayendedwe onse a ku gehena, ena omwe amazunzidwa ndi chikondi choterechi akupitiriza kunena kuti samva chisoni, kuti amatha kumva chisoni chotere ndi munthu wakupha. Funso ndilo, kodi okonda zachikondi ndi otani kuti apweteketse ozunzidwa awo? Ndipo chifukwa chiyani akazi ena ali ndi inoculation motsutsana ndi zoopsa, pomwe ena nthawi zina amabwera.
Pa semina imodzi ya maganizo yomwe imayesedwa ku mavuto a kulankhulana, panthawi ya zokambiranazo zinapezeka kuti pafupifupi akazi khumi akubwera anabwera pano ali ndi vuto lomwelo. Amayi onse omwe analipo tsopano anali amalonda opambana. Koma, pamene adayamba bizinesi yawo m'ma 90, iwo adawopa kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, akazi adakopeka ndi othandizira anzawo. Patapita nthawi, bizinesi inasintha. Akazi amagwira ntchito, ndipo abwenzi awo adalandira phindu ndipo sanachite kanthu kapena kupereka malangizo ndi malangizo osayenera akulepheretsa kwambiri vutoli. Anthu ena amamwa. Ena adawapha abwenzi awo ndi zinsinsi zodziwika. Kawirikawiri gawo lalikulu la ndalama lidalowa mu ngongole zawo. Kotero inu mumamvetsera kuvomereza kowawa ndikudabwa: Amayi ogwira ntchito omwe ali olimbika amatha bwanji kulakwitsa mu moyo wawo?
Nchiyani chinatikopa ife kwa amuna owopsa?
Monga maluwa okongola, kukopa tizilombo ndi mtundu wake ndi kununkhiza, munthu wowononga amatha kukondweretsa akazi mwachikondi. Iye ali ndi zida za fano la munthu yemwe ali mawondo-akuya m'nyanja. Poyamba, iye ndi wopanda mantha, wopatsa, wodabwitsa komanso, ndithudi, wokongola kwambiri ...
Pokhapokha tikawona munthu, tikhoza kale kunena molondola ngati timakonda kapena ayi, yankho limabwera maminiti. Ndipo mphuno zathu zimatenga izo. Tsopano ndifashoni yokamba za fungo lapadera - ma pheromones, omwe amadziwika kuti ali ndi zochulukirapo, kotero awa omwe ali ndi mwayi amaonedwa ngati achigololo. Amene sangadzitamande chifukwa cha chisokonezo cha kugonana amaperekedwa kuti azigwiritsa ntchito mafuta onunkhira ndi pheromones. Ndipotu, adrenaline akukwera m'magazi a munthu woopsa, chifukwa nthawi zonse amakhala okonzeka kumenya nkhondo - kaya ndi chipatala kapena kuwonetserana katundu. Ndipo komwe adrenaline ili, pali testosterone - fungo labwino kwambiri kwa akazi omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
N'zosadabwitsa kuti akazi operewera amakhala osangalatsa kwambiri. Ngakhale si amuna onse omwe amawoneka mwachiwawa ali ndi makhalidwe omenyana. Ndipo kwa gulu la amuna "owopsa", akatswiri a maganizo a anthu samaphatikizapo ochuluka omwe akuyendetsa pamphepete mwa lamulo, ambiri omwe sakhala ndi khalidwe labwino ndi akazi - mosavuta amalimbikitsa ubale, ndiyeno amawatsuka mosavuta.
Alphonse kapena wokonza luso?
Pamene abwenzi ake amagwira ntchito thukuta la mafupa awo ndikusunga mtundu uliwonse wamtengo wapatali, savutika kuti azidandaula kwambiri pena paliponse. Iye amayenda pa galimoto yokwera mtengo, amavala bwino, amadziwa zambiri za mphatso zamtengo wapatali ndipo nthawizonse amalandiridwa pa mafashoni. Mukufunsa, kodi mkazi wabwinobwino angakhale wotani pano?
Ndipo taganizirani kwa kanthawi kuti wokondedwa wakeyo kuchokera ku fuko la ofesikira, amagwira ntchito, koma apumula ... Choncho, kukomana ndi munthu wowala choteroyo sikudzadziwika. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti iye ndi wokonda kudya, zidzakhalanso bwino. Koma luso lake loponyera ndalama pamapazi a mkazi wokondedwa (kupereka maluwa amtengo wapatali, kuyendetsa kupita ku malesitilanti, kupanga zopatsa zazikulu) amasiya mkazi wosawerengeka wosayanjanitsika. Ndipo ziribe kanthu, ngati posakhalitsa ndalama zake zikutha ndipo amasonyeza kuti ali ndi ngongole ngati silika. Kwa munthu-tchuthi amakhala naye, mkazi wokondana adzakondwera kumupatsa ndalama zake.
Mgwirizanowu, pamene umapeza, ndipo umatha, umakhala wamba tsopano. Ndipo, modabwitsa kwambiri, mgwirizanowu ndi wolimba kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chakuti, pafupi ndi iye, poyamba anayamba kumva kuti amakonda zokometsera za ufulu tsiku ndi tsiku. Chifukwa amadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi zokondweretsa zake ndipo amamuphunzitsa kukoma mtima. Akazi ena amakhulupirira kuti sayansi yotereyi iyenera kulipira!
Monga lamulo, amuna owopsa amadziwa kusamalira. Koma ngakhale izi sizili zosangalatsa kwambiri kwa akazi. Chodziwikiratu ndichoti munthu wokondedwa uyu samatsutsa kulankhula zakukhosi kwake ndi chikondi chake. Munthu wamba adzadzikuza kwa nthawi yaitali ndikukayikira: ngati angayankhule za momwe akumvera, ndi zomwe zidzachitike mtsogolo, chifukwa sadakonzekere kuti adzalandire.
Koma pali amuna omwe samadziwa kukayikira koteroko. Amadziwa kuti sakufuna kukwatiwa, koma ngati iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yogonjetsera mtima wa mkazi wosirira, ali wokonzeka kusewera ndi malamulo ake. Choncho, pa tsiku loyamba angathe kunena mosapita m'mbali za chikondi chake chachikondi, ndipo chachiwiri - kumupangitsa kupereka, ndiyeno ... nthawi zambiri samayankha kuyitana kwake.
Kawirikawiri, pamene mkazi amamukonda ndipo chiyanjano chikukwera, chimagwirizana ndi chithunzi cha "wokonda kwambiri", chomwe chimayimbidwa m'mafilimu ndi m'mabuku a amayi. Ndilo "lingaliro" limeneli lomwe ndi lopweteka kwambiri limene anthu ake amavulala.
Kwa zana la zana pa paguwa lomwelo.
Chifukwa cha chilungamo, ziyenera kunenedwa kuti si onse omwe ali "oopsa". Pali amayi omwe mafilimu omwe amafa samagwira ntchito. Koma ambiri samangokhalira kuyenda pamodzi, koma kwa nthawi yayitali amanyambita zilonda zawo, osakhoza kuiwala maso awo omwe amawakonda. Pa funso lawo la sakramenti: "Chifukwa chiyani kwa ine - wochenjera, wokongola, wosungulumwa wosasamala kwambiri?" - Akatswiri a maganizo amalingalira nthawi zonse kuti aganizire ndi kumvetsa omwe ndi omwe amasankha anzawo.
Ndiroleni ndikuuzeni pang'ono za chinthu ngati "chikondi choyipa". Zolemba zake ndi zophweka. Pamtima mwachinyengo chilichonse chochotsa ndalama ndi chimodzimodzi ndi malingaliro aumunthu - kusakhutira kuvomereza kukhala wotayika. Izi ndizo zopsepesa zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito, kupereka chophweka cha naïve: "Ikani ruble mkati - ndipo mudzapambana kawiri!" Pafupi chinthu chomwecho chimachitika m'chikondi. Kuika moyo wanu, mphamvu zanu, mitsempha ndi zaka zanu kukhala munthu wosayenera, mulibe mphamvu kuti mutha kuzigawa. Nthawi zonse zikuwoneka, nkoyenera kuwonjezera mantha pang'ono pa polojekitiyi - ndipo kuchokera muzochitika zonse zidzakhala zopanda nzeru komanso zopindulitsa ... Koma izi sizichitika! Ndikofunika kwambiri kupeza mphamvu, kulimba mtima, kuvomereza kuti otayika sangathe kubwezeretsedwa, ndikuyambiranso. Moyo uli wolemera, ndipo pali chimwemwe chokwanira mmenemo kwa aliyense!
Kuyanjanitsa koopsa. Kodi mungapewe bwanji?
1. Mawu ndi bizinesi. Musamaweruze munthu kuchokera koyamba. Musamangoganizira kwambiri mawu ake komanso zambiri. Kumbukirani: fano si kanthu!
2. Muzikhala oganiza bwino. Kulandira kwachikondi kwa munthu wokonda masewerawa kumadabwitsa mayiyo ndi chizindikiro chachikulu, mphatso yamtengo wapatali, ulendo wopita kukadyera. Musaganize kuti izi zidzakhala choncho nthawi zonse.
3. Khulupirirani, koma onani! Musathamangitse kusinthanitsa katundu wa bizinesi yanu ndi malo ogulitsa kumapasa a amuna amphamvu. N'zosakayikitsa kuti mungagawanitse ndalama, ndipo ntchito ndi mavuto adzakhalabe ndi inu.
4. Kodi mungapewe bwanji kubwereranso? Ngati mabuku anu amatha, ndipo abwenzi nthawi zonse amathetsa mavuto, musafulumire kuyambitsa ubale watsopano. Ndi bwino kupita ku seminar ya maganizo kapena kufunsa katswiri.
5. Musazengereze kulankhula momveka bwino zomwe mukukayikira. Akazi amaopa kupeza chiyanjano, kukhumudwitsa wokondedwayo popanda kudalira. Koma "munthu wabwino" adzakumvetsa, ndipo "woipa" mnyamata adzasankha kuti sungapusitse mutu wako.
7. Musayendetse mahatchi. Maganizo sizitsamba, sizingamere usiku wonse. Ngati mukukaikira, dikirani. Nthawi idzaika zonse pamalo ake.
8. Musamachite manyazi. Ngati muli wosasamala, ndipo mwakhala "wolakwika", chokani ndikuyamba mosamala. Chikondi chimathandizanso.