Ndipo anthu ambiri amafunikira, zimawoneka kuti ndizochepa kwambiri kuti amve chimwemwe chokwanira: kuvomereza ndi ogwira nawo ntchito, kuchuluka kwa ndalama, uthenga wabwino, malingaliro abwino, chidwi cha amuna ...
Koma musanadandaule, ndibwino kuyang'ana mozungulira, kuyang'ana pozungulira - kodi ndizoipadi? Kapena mwinamwake tili ovuta kwambiri kwa ena ndipo tikufuna zambiri? Chirichonse chomwe chinali, chinthu chimodzi ndi chowonadi - palibe munthu wotere amene safuna kukhala wokondwa kwambiri. Ndiye bwanji kukhala ndi kukhalabe wosangalala kwambiri?
Tonse timadziwa mawu a Kozma Prutkov: "Ngati mukufuna kukhala osangalala, khalani!" Ndipo ndithudi, lingalirolo ndilofunika. Zosangalatsa kwambiri! Ndipo awa si mawu opanda pake, chifukwa osati kuwerenga maganizo okha, komanso akatswiri a sayansi yafikiliya amaganiza kuti mawu awa ndi oona. Mungofunika kukhulupirira nokha, mphamvu zanu, khulupirirani kuti mwakhalapo ndipo mudzakhalabe osangalala kwambiri. Tangoganizani kuti ndinu maginito, maginito pa chilichonse chabwino, chowala, chabwino. Maganizo onse olakwika komanso ngakhale kukayikira pang'ono ayenera kuchotsedwa kwa inu nokha (mwinamwake zotsatira za maginito zidzagwa kwambiri). Zili zoonekeratu kuti moyo ndi chinthu chovuta, ndipo nthawi zonse zinthu sizikhoza kukhala zabwino. Koma ngakhale ngati pali zolephereka, yesetsani kuyang'ana pansi pa iwo ndi kungosiya kukhumudwa konse ndi kusayanjanitsika. Mudzawona kuti chirichonse sichili choipa monga chikuwonekera. Kuti mukhale ndi mphamvu zopitilirapo (chifukwa simunawawononge pazochitikira zopanda pake). Chimwemwe - imakhaladi yokha ndikufikira anthu osangalala (mosasamala kanthu kuti zingatheke bwanji). Choncho, choyamba, yesani nokha ndi maganizo anu kuti mukhale osangalala. Aliyense ali ndi chimwemwe chawo: nyumba, galimoto, malipiro apamwamba. Chinthu chachikulu, mwachinthu chochepa kwambiri, ndikuganiza za chimwemwe chanu pazinthu zonse - galimoto, chabwino, mtundu, mtundu, kuchuluka kwa mphamvu ya akavalo, ndi zina zotero. zonse-zonse, kuti chimwemwe chanu chidziwe kuti apa zonse zakonzeka kwa iye. Komanso, mungapezeke bwanji kuti mupitirize kukhala osangalala kwambiri?
Kuphatikiza pa malingaliro a kukwaniritsa chimwemwe, chitsanzo chabwino chimathandiza, kapena kungokhala "chitsanzo chowonetsa cha chimwemwe" - chomwe chingathe kuwonedwa, chinakhudzidwa. Mwachitsanzo, mumalota zolemetsa. Chitanipo Ntchito! Yambani pang'ono ndi mfundo kuti mupeze chiwerengero (mu nyuzipepala, magazini) zomwe mukufuna ndi kuzidula, ndi kuyika chithunzi pamaso panu. Zoona, muzochitika izi, zingakhale bwino kukangamira chinachake pa firiji mumzimu "palibe chomwe chingakuthandizeni kukhala wachimwemwe", ndiye kuti, kuphatikiza pa maganizo anu, mutha kupeza zowonetsera pazowunikira zanu ndi zolemba zosavuta kuzichita.
Inde, mwinamwake sikuti zonse zidzagwira ntchito nthawi yoyamba, inde, pangakhale kukayikira ndi nthawi zosakhulupirira. Koma iwe uyenera kukhala wolimba. Pambuyo pake, izi sizomwe zimakhala zovuta komanso zovuta pamoyo wanu - zonse zathetsedwa! Muyenera kukhala otsimikiza kuti chirichonse chidzakuchitirani inu ndipo palibe chomwe chingakusokonezeni. Tiyenera kukhulupirira! Kumbukirani momwe, mu imodzi mwa mafilimu (filimuyo inawombera motsatira zochitika zenizeni), mnyamatayo, atachita ngozi, anali atagona. Msungwana wake wokondedwa anamuuza za "mankhwala opulumutsa a ku Japan", omwe amamwa kamodzi patsiku, adzachira ndikupita ndithu. Ndipo iye anapita! Ndipo njirazo zinali madzi wamba ndi shuga ndi ... chikhulupiriro, chikhulupiriro chachikulu.
Kukhala wosangalala sikovuta kwambiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndikukhulupirira nokha, kudzikonda nokha. Izi zidzakhala zokwanira kuti mukhale osangalala. Sitiyenera kuiwala kuti chimwemwe sichinthu choyenera. Kuchita zabwino ndikuulandira ndikubwezeretsanso chimwemwe chachikulu, makamaka m'dziko lathu lokhwima. "Ngati mukufuna kukhala osangalala, khalani!"