Chigwirizano chaukwati ndi mgwirizano umene okwatiranawo amatha kuthetsa mavuto a banja.
Izi, zikhoza kunenedwa, ndi mtundu wa malamulo kwa onse awiri, omwe ali ndi nkhani zingapo zomwe zingakhudze magawo osiyanasiyana a moyo wa banja.
M'mayiko omwe kale anali Soviet Union, amatha kuthetsa ukwati usanachitike, mosiyana ndi mayiko ena, kumene angayinidwe ndi onse okwatirana ngakhale achinyamata komanso okwatirana ali ndi chidziwitso. Kotero mgwirizano wa chikwati ndi chiyani?
Mawu osakhulupirira kapena, pambuyo pa zonse, chisankho choyenera?
M'mayiko ambiri, mgwirizano wa chikwati ulibe wochenjera, ndipo poyankha pempho loti tithetse, tikhoza kumva "Ichi ndi momwe mumandikondera? Ife sitinakwatirane panobe, koma kodi mukuganiza kuti izo zidzakhala nthawi ya chisudzulo? Kotero kodi iwe undikhulupirira ine? "Komabe, pamene moyo ulibe chifukwa chokhalira, nthawi zambiri anthu amadandaula kuti adabedwa, akuthamanga kumakhoti, otszhivaya katundu wawo, akulira kuti adanyengedwa, osasiyidwa kanthu. Choncho, kuti izi zisakhalepo, ndi bwino kulemba chilemba kapena mgwirizano umene ungakutetezeni kwambiri ndi katundu wanu kuchoka kwa anthu osakhulupirika.
N'chifukwa chiyani mukufunikira?
Ambiri omwe alowa mgwirizano amachititsa kuti banja likhale lolimba, zomwe zimagwirizanitsa ndalama, pagawo lirilonse liri ndi maudindo awo ndipo zonsezi zikulamulidwa. Zoona, njira imeneyi si yachikondi kwambiri. Komabe, m'dziko lathu lamakono pali chinyengo chachikulu ndi chinyengo kotero kuti sizingatheke kuganiza za chikondi. Amene amatsimikiza mgwirizanowo, poopa kuti "adzapusitsidwa", komanso amene akufuna kuti azikhalitsa moyo wake ndi kuyika zonse "i" ndiyeno osadandaula pamene mapeto a moyo wa banja abwera.
Komabe, m'mayiko a CIS maukwati apabanja akadali aang'ono kwambiri. Zifukwazi ndizosiyana: munthu wina, wachikondi kwambiri, safuna ngakhale kuganiza za mgwirizano, yemwe alibe chogawanitsa, komanso yemwe, ngati ali ndi boma, amadalira njira zina ndi zosankha zothetsera mavuto a m'banja ndi kusamvetsetsana kosiyanasiyana. Pali zifukwa zambiri za izi, koma musayiwale kuti malamulo onse asanakhale ofanana, choncho, ngati simukusamala za tsogolo lanu ndi zotsatira zake, mwina ana anu amtsogolo, mapeto a mgwirizano waukwati ndi ofunikira kwambiri.
Malamulo amapeza ubwino wokwaniritsa mgwirizano waukwati. Pambuyo pazimenezi, nthawi zambiri mumatha kupeza kuchokera kwa iwo pa zokwatira za okwatirana omwe, pochita chisudzulo, amayesetsa kugawa katundu, komanso omwe amadandaula kwambiri kuti sanavomerezepo izi polemba.
Kodi choonadi chiri kuti?
Malamulowa ndi amilandu, koma milandu iliyonse, mwamuna aliyense ndiyekha komanso wapadera. Iwo akhoza kungolangiza kokha, chifukwa palibe lamulo la malamulo lomwe lingatipatse ife moyo wachimwemwe wa banja. Sitikuwoneka kuti ife timaganizira kale za nkhani zomwe nthawi zina sitidziwa zinthu zosavuta, zoletsedwa.
Tiyeni tiganizire: tikukwatirana. Ngati tikwatirana, ndiye kuti timakonda, ngati timakonda, ndiye kuti timakhulupirira munthu wokondedwa wathu kwambiri. Ndiye palibe chinthu chonga "wanga, wanu" ...
Komabe, m'mabanja omwe ntchito, ntchito, bizinesi sizimachokera ku chikondi chenicheni, ndipo kukhazikitsidwa kwa banja lathunthu ndi fade mndandanda wa milandu, mgwirizano wa ukwati ndi wofunika kwambiri.
Kumbukirani kuti katundu, chuma, chirichonse chowoneka chikupezeka zinthu, ndiko kuti, ziri ndipo zidzakhala. Ndipo chisangalalo cha banja, chikondi, chikondi, chikondi, chisamaliro sungagwirizanitse mgwirizano uliwonse, chifukwa chuma chathu chonse chiri mmiyoyo yathu.