Amuna osadziletsa komanso osatetezeka amaopa kuti mkazi amamva mantha. Amaopa kuti asiyidwa, kukanidwa, chifukwa izi zimapweteka kudzidalira kwawo. Amaopa kukhala osadziwa.
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna akuopa akazi odzidalira okha opanda nzeru? Inde, chifukwa mkazi woteroyo ndi chuma chenicheni cha banja, kubadwa ndi kulera ana. Adzachita mwanzeru komanso mwachidziwikire pazochitika zilizonse. Pofuna kusunga banja, mkazi woteroyo amatha zambiri, chifukwa amamvetsa kufunika kwake ndipo amadziwa phindu. Mkazi wamphamvu adzakhala ndi khalidwe kotero kuti mwamuna amadzimva kukhala mutu wa banja ndipo sangamulole kuti akhale "pansi pa chidendene." Adzamuuza kuti mawu omveka ali kumbuyo kwake.
Akazi okhulupilira amadziwa momwe angathandizire munthu kuthetsa mantha ake, kusatsimikizika, kukayikira, kudziwa momwe angakhalire wodzidalira. Akazi amphamvu sangasonyeze kuti ali apamwamba kwa amuna. Nchifukwa chiyani iye akanayenera ngakhale kutsimikizira chirichonse kwa wina aliyense? Iye amagwira ntchito payekha ndi kudzimva yekha.
Muzamalonda, akazi ali mofulumira kuposa amuna. Makhalidwe achilengedwe amathandiza kuti azichita mofulumira ndi kusintha kusintha. Akazi amachedwa mofulumira kuposa amuna kuti azitha kusintha mmoyo wawo watsopano, amakonda kuyesera ndipo izi ndizopindulitsa. Kusinthasintha kwa malingaliro ndi chidziwitso kumathandiza amayi kupambana amuna mmagulu osiyanasiyana a ntchito.
Mzimayi, akudzichitira yekha zopanda chilungamo, amayamba ndikulimbana ndi chidaliro. Akazi okhulupilira amatha kudziwonetsera okha, amatsatira maonekedwe awo, amatha kutalikitsa achinyamata. Iwo sangathe kuteteza maganizo awo okha, komanso kuzindikira cholakwikacho, ngati sichiri cholondola.
Mkazi wamakono sangayambe chiyanjano ndi munthu aliyense, osati kukhala yekha. Amakhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kukhala ndekha kusiyana ndi wina aliyense ndikuchita zabwino! Mayi wodalirika amadziŵa kuti ndi wofunika ndipo amunawo amawopa. Amuna amaopa chikhumbo cha amai kuti akwaniritsidwe ndi kugonana. Iwo samvetsa kuti izi ndizofunikira osati pazokondana, komanso, makamaka pa umoyo wa amayi. Pochita mantha kuti asakhale ndi zoyembekeza, mwamunayo amapewa kukhudzana.
Amuna amawopa amayi omwe amawachitira bwino chifukwa amakhulupirira chinyengo, amakhulupirira kuti mwanjira imeneyi amai amayesa kuchitapo kanthu. Amuna amaopa akazi omwe amadzipangira okha ndipo amanyalanyaza kuti mkazi wodzidalira amakhala wokhutira.
Amuna amaopa akazi okongola kwambiri . Amawopa kuti adzakhumudwitsa mkaziyo kuti sakukwaniritsa magawo omwe akufuna. Amuna ambiri amapeza akazi okongola mosavuta. Amuna amawopa kuyankha mafunso opusa, amaopa kulankhula ndi mtima. Amuna amayesetsa kuti asakhale pansi pa bwana wamkazi, chifukwa sangathe kumukakamiza ngati sakugwirizana ndi chinachake. Amasokonezeka kwambiri ndi utsogoleri wa amayi. Mkazi wodalirika sangalole kuti achite manyazi, ndipo mwamunayo amamuopa. Amuna amantha mantha a amayi, amawopa kuti adzakakamizidwa kuti apange maganizo awo.
Amuna ofooka okha amaopa akazi odzidalira okha. Amuna enieni alipo, sawopa akazi olimba, koma samakonda amuna omwe amaimira zachiwerewere. Choncho musakhale olimba komanso otsimikiza, komanso okongola!