Zosangalatsa kwambiri!
Asayansi ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo akuphunzira momwe kuseka, nthawizonse kumakhudzira funso lakuti "Kodi kusangalatsa kumakhudza bwanji ubale wa chikondi?" Zikuwoneka kuti yankho ndilolondola: zabwino. Kuseka, kugwirizana komwe kumakuchititsani kuyandikana ndi mnzanuyo. Iwe ukusewera, osakhala wowoneka kuti ndiwonyenga, choncho, kudalirana, kwa wina ndi mzake, kukhala omasuka kwambiri.
Koma pali yankho lina la funso ili. Asayansi awiri Achimereka anayesera chotero. Afunseni amuna ndi akazi 200 kuti ayang'ane zithunzi za anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo ndikusankha omwe angakondwere nawo tsiku lawo.
Chofunika kwambiri: "eni" a zithunzi zina anasiya ndemanga zozizwitsa pansi pawo, ena onse sankalowererapo. Chotsatira chake, pafupifupi amayi onse omwe akuyesa nawo ntchitoyi ankafuna kupita tsiku limodzi ndi amuna omwe adadziwonetsera mwachinyengo, pomwe chisankho cha amuna sichinadalira chisangalalo cha amayiwo pa chithunzicho. Mfundo yomveka ndi yosavuta: Amuna ndi amai amamvetsa chisangalalo mu theka lawo lachiwiri, koma amayi amazindikira kuti akhoza kuseka, ndipo amuna - amatha kuyamikira nthabwala.
Chabwino, chifukwa cha asayansi, tsopano ndikuwonekeratu momwe mungathe potsimikizira wokondedwa wanu kuti ndinu wangwiro: kuseka, kuseka ndi kuseka nthabwala zake kachiwiri, kukweza kukondwa kwake. Mphindi "Munandipangitsa kuseka kwambiri!" Ndipo "Ndizochita zamatsenga!" - chida chanu chobisika pamodzi ndi zovala zapamwamba kwambiri kapena dzina la "Peking Duck". Nokha, ngakhale mutakhala ndi chisangalalo, muli ndi nthabwala zazing'ono, musayese kutulutsa mnzanuyo. Gwirizanani, pali malo ambiri omwe mungathe kuwonetsa ndi wit: ndi abwenzi, kuntchito.
Choncho, popeza kuti nthabwala za wokondedwa "paliponse tili ndi msewu", tinachikonza. Koma momwe mungakhalire, ngati osankhidwa anu nthabwala, tiyeni tinene, kotero, si nthawizonse zopambana, ngakhale mu malingaliro anu osadziwika? Ndipo kuti azinena mosapita m'mbali, amatsutsa ndi zamatsenga ndi zolemba zamatsenga, ndevu zomwe Karabas-Barabas angakhale nazo. Chabwino, kwa inu awiri nkhani: zabwino ndi zoipa. Chinthu chabwino ndi chakuti ulesi si khalidwe lobadwa, lingaphunzitsidwe. Ndipo chinthu choipa ndi chakuti iwe umayenera kumupiritsa iye. Kotero, tiyeni tiyambe, kokha pachiyambi ndikufuna kupanga ziwiri. Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa kuti kuti munthu aliyense asatchulidwe kuti ndi wopanda pake ndi chinthu chofanana ndi wokonda zoipa. Choncho, kupereka malangizo kwa okondedwa anu, kukhala osakhwima, kapena abwinoko, ndi pafupifupi osceptible.
Chachiwiri, mosasamala kanthu kuti apambana bwanji, musapereke ndemanga pa wokondedwayo ndi akunja. Muzochitika izi, mwinamwake ndizovuta kuseka, koma ndi bwino kumwetulira mwaulemu.
Mvetserani kwa omwe akulembedwera ku nthabwala zake: abambo, amai, onse mwakamodzi? Chowonadi ndi chakuti zokonda zosangalatsa za omvera osiyanasiyana zimatha kusiyana: kuti kwa ena ndizosangalatsa, kwa ena ndi zopusa. Yesani mwanjira ina kuti muyankhule za izi ndi wokondedwa wanu. Asayesetse kuti aliyense asaseke, sizingatheke kuti katswiri wamasewero azikhala wosangalatsa. Koma kuti atenge chidwi cha anthu awiri kapena atatu, ali ndi mphamvu zedi.
Zimamveka kuti munthu wamatsenga nthawi zonse amaphunzira bwino. Choncho, mumuponyetse nthawi zina zolemba za anthu otchuka ndikukonzekera maganizo a banja pa cinema ya wolemba. Zoonadi, zizindikiro zabwino ndizoti zimatha kuwerengedwa muzofalitsa zilizonse zosangalatsa kapena zimapezeka pa intaneti. Koma izi, ndizosawonetsa: si zoona kuti omvera amvapo mobwerezabwereza, kuchokera kwa wolemba luso kwambiri. Choncho, musamatsatire njira yotsutsa: ndibwino kuti anthu aseke "ndi nkhani za moyo". Makamaka ngati nkhanizi zinkachitika kwa wolemba nkhaniyo. Ngati nthano zowonongeka ndi mnzanuyo sizinachitike, mungathe kukongoletsa zina zosangalatsa.
Poyambira ndi kukumba mu mbiriyakale. Amati Marie Antoinette anachita mantha kwambiri kuti ataya mkazi wake wamwamuna, Louis. Tiyenera kuvomereza kuti mantha ake anali opanda maziko: malinga ndi miyezo ya zaka zimenezo, mfumukaziyo inali kale ya zaka zapakati (maola, osati zakumana, kapena ngakhale zonunkhira zabwino za makwinya zomwe sitinamvepo), ndipo ku khoti panali achinyamata ambiri a seductresses. Ndiyeno iye, pofuna kuti adzikonzenso, anayamba kusintha kukhala m'busa. Ndiyenera kunena kuti Louis anaseka kwambiri, akuwona momwe "abusa" amayamba kuyendayenda m'minda yamfumu ndi antchito okongoletsedwa, akuyendetsa gulu la nkhosa zonunkhira. Koma zotsatira zake zinapindula: Louis adamuchezeranso m'chipinda chogona.
Nkhani yodabwitsa ya ma greats a dziko lino imatsimikizira kuti anthu ogonana samatopa ndikutsimikizira: kuseka kumakhudza kwambiri amuna. Kusangalala kwanu kumangowonjezera moyo wanu wa kugonana. Tengani sewero la kugonana. Gwirizani kuti muwonekere kwa wokondedwa wanu suti yapadera, nenani, namwino yemwe amatsegula zambiri kuposa zobisala, muyenera kukhala ndi chisangalalo. Ndipo wokondedwa wanu, nayenso, makamaka mukamuika "atapezeka", ndiyeno "muwachitire".
Komabe, nthabwala ndi nthabwala , koma kuphatikiza kugonana ndi kuseka ndikofunikira "mwanzeru". Mzere pakati pa nthabwala zonyenga ndi kunyoza ndizosamveka. Ndipo mwinamwake mumadziwa nokha momwe mumamvera, pali amuna, pamene nthabwala zimagwirizana ndi mutu wakuti "pansi pa lamba". Choncho, "yesani katatu, kudula kamodzi", pamene mukufuna kuseka ponena za khalidwe lake pabedi, mupatseni dzina lotchulidwa kapena kutchula mphatso kuchokera ku sitolo yogonana.