Azimayi ambiri amakonda kupanga zokondweretsa zamuyaya, akukhulupirira kuti izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zowoneka bwino komanso zothandiza kwa kugonana kolimba. Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndizochuluka? Amuna amatha bwanji kugwirizana ndi malonda oterewa ndi abwenzi okongola, omwe angafanane ndi tchuthi? Ndipo enieni.
Mkazi - Chaka ChatsopanoHolide yaikulu ya chaka. Patsikuli, simungathe kugona tulo - mumayenera kusangalala ndi kusangalala, ndikuwonetseratu msonkhano wa Chaka Chatsopano ndi anzanu ndi anzanu ndikukambirana momwe ena adachitira. Kufunikira kotere kwa amuna ambiri ndi mantha enieni: "Santa Claus, onetsetsani kuti bizinesi yofulumira kuntchito yabwera, ndipo simukupikisana." Mkazi - Chaka chatsopano amadzidalira yekha ndikuti ndi wabwino, wofunika kwambiri, wochuluka kwambiri. Iye samva zambiri kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wake, iye akufuna kuti apambane poyerekeza ndi iye. Kwachitsanzo, nthawi zonse ankanena kwa aliyense woyandikana naye: "Ndiwe mkazi wabwino kwambiri, uli ndi mwayi wotani!" Kusangalala ndi nthabwala zake, adakondwera ndi kupambana kwake, adakondwerera makhalidwe ake auzimu. Poyamba, bamboyo akugonjetsa, izi zimamusangalatsa. Koma patapita nthaŵi, amayamba kudziona kuti ndi wolemekezeka kapena amadzimva ngati mlendo pa holideyo. Wokondedwayo akhoza kugwirizanitsa ndi izi, koma mumtima mwake adzafuna kubwezeretsa udindo wake. Ndani safuna kuyamikiridwa ndi kukondwera? Choncho, Chaka Chatsopano chikhoza kukonda tsiku lochepetsetsa, lochepetsedwa. Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe mungadzifanizire nokha ndi wokondedwa wanu, kuti mupikisane, ndi ndani yemwe ali wabwino komanso wokondwerera? M'malo mwake, kudzichepetsa (mwaulere), kumvetsera kwa iye kudzathandizidwa mwa iye motsimikizika kuti malo ake mu kalendala yanu ndi moyo ndi ofunika kwambiri. Kuti iye ndi holide yeniyeni kwa inu.
Mkazi wa Carnival
Chochitika chokongola kwambiri . Poyamba, maholide ngati amenewa kwa anthu onse anakhalapo pafupi masabata awiri. Pang'onopang'ono, anthu anayamba kuchepetsa: zimakhala zovuta kupirira kuunika kwa nthawi yaitali. Ku Brazil, madokotala kutsogolo kwa masewera olimbitsa thupi ngakhale amapereka malangizo a momwe angasangalalire ndi magulu ena a anthu, mwachitsanzo, omwe ali ndi vuto la mtima kapena chizoloŵezi cha matenda a neurotic. Bungwe la Thanzi la dziko lokondwa ndi lokondwa silinganene kuti ndilo gawo lochita nawo chikondwerero: pa TV ikuwoneka bwino. Mchitidwe wa akazi ndi wowala kwambiri, wokondana komanso wogwira ntchito, kuti asayambe kukonda nawo, sikungatheke kuti asakhale pamodzi. Koma nthawi zambiri atangokwatirana, mwamuna amamva kutopa. Ino ndi nthawi yopitilira mpaka masiku a sabata, ndikubwerezanso holide. Ndipo palibe cholinga chochepetsera kuyenda. Ponena kuti: "Tiyeni tibwerere kunyumba lero" - Mkazi wochita zisudzo akuyankha kuti: "Ndiwe chiyani, sindingakulole kuti ukhale wokhumudwa, tsopano ndikudziwa momwe tidzakondweretsere." Pakalipano, munthu chifukwa cha makhalidwe ake okhudza maganizo a maganizo monga kusangalatsa kwambiri kuposa amayi. Iwo nthawi zonse amafunikira kupumula kwathunthu: kwenikweni amagona pabedi ndipo samachita kalikonse. Tiyenera kusiya amuna okhawo. Musanene kuti: "O, ndiwe wotopetsa" - ndipo musafanane ndi mnzanu watsopano amene adakondwera nanu kwa maola angapo. Iye anali kuvina pakali pano, chifukwa iye anakuwona iwe kokha. Ndipo mu udindo wa mwamuna wake, nayenso, iye angamupemphe kuti akhale pansi mwamtendere. Kuyambula kumayenera kufa kamodzi kanthawi.
Mkazi - Kubadwa
Ndibwino kuti zonse zikuchitirani inu ! Mphatso, mau ofunda, okondwa, zofuna. Ndili ndi zaka, malingaliro a tsiku la kubadwa amasintha - pamodzi ndi zosangalatsa palinso chisoni: pambuyo pake, chaka chilichonse mumakula. Komabe, ngati amayi sakulepheretsa chikondwerero, kwa omwe akuyimira kugonana kolimba, masiku okumbukira kubadwa angakhale zovuta kwenikweni, ndipo zikondwerero zimawoneka ngati mayesero ovuta. Ndipo zonse chifukwa zimakhala zovuta kuti amuna akhale mu udindo wa mnyamata wa kubadwa. Iwo samakhala ndi maganizo ngati azimayi, samva kufunikira kwa zonsezi "Ah, zikomo, ndikukondwera, ndikukhudzidwa kwambiri", koma dziwani kuti muyenera kuchita monga izi: kusonyeza kuyamikira ndi chimwemwe. Kuwonjezera apo, udindo wa mnyamata wa kubadwa ndi wosasamala ndipo nthawi zambiri sikukulolani kuthetsa vutoli. Amuna omwe sankaloledwa kukonzekera tsiku lawo lobadwa, mwachitsanzo, mu chilengedwe ("Kodi muli pa tsiku loti mudzatenthedwa?") Ndipo amakakamizidwa kukondwerera, kunena kuti, mu lesitilanti, nthawi zambiri amamwa mowa kwambiri. Mdziko lino, holideyi siipweteka kwambiri. Akazi a mtundu umenewu akhoza kukhala mayeso. Amapereka chidwi kwambiri, choncho amanyadira, kuti ayang'ane mwachikondi, kuti palibe chipulumutso basi.
Inde, amuna amakonda chidwi. Koma n'kofunika kuti apambane. Chifukwa chake, chidutswa cha kusayanjanitsika kolimba mu ubale sikupweteka. Ndipo ngati moyo ukusowa nthawi zonse kuti umenyane ndi munthu wodalirika komanso wachikondi, yambani, mwachitsanzo, ferret. Iye ndi mitsempha yake ndi yamphamvu, ndipo ubweya uli wamphamvu.
Mkazi - March 8
Amuna omwe adakali aang'ono amakhala oopa kwambiri tsikuli . Iye, mbali imodzi, amapereka mpata woti adziwonetse yekha, kuti achite chinthu chokoma, komano iye amapanga zofuna zapamwamba ndi zosamvetseka. Ndikofunika kupereka mphatso, ambiri kuyeretsa, kudzuka kale ndi kukonzekera kadzutsa, ngakhale m'mawa palibe wina m'banja. Ndikofunika kuyamika, ngakhale mkaziyo akutsimikizira kuti: "March 8 - zonse zopanda pake", ndikuzichita mwanjira yapachiyambi, kuti musanene kuti moniyo ndi wovomerezeka. Muyenera kukhala komweko tsiku lonse ndipo musaiwale kunena mawu okoma ndi othandiza kwa amayi ake ndi amayi ena ambiri ... Mwachilendo, uwu ndi msampha! Sizingatheke kupitirirapo - March 8 ndizosapeŵeka. Kuchita bizinesi, nthawi yochulukirapo kapena, Mulungu saloledwa, kusodza tsiku lino ndikuneneza ngati chikondi ndi chimwemwe. Akazi ngati March 8 ali ofunika kwambiri. Koma samanena zomwe akufuna, samapereka chilichonse, amadikirira. Ndiyeno amakuuzani ngati akudikirira kapena ayi. Ndipo amadziwa kuti ngati atanena za zolinga zawo kapena maloto awo, zonse zidzakhala zosavuta. Koma izi zimatsutsana ndi malingaliro a momwe ziyenera kukhalira. Mwamuna, ngati amamukonda, ayenera kulingalira zoti achite. Ndipo kwa amuna maganizo otero amachititsa nkhawa ndi kukwiya. Momwe mungakwaniritsire zoyembekezera za mnzanuyo, pamene simukudziwa zomwe mukuyembekezera? Cholinga chimatayika. Popeza mphatso zonse "siziri zofanana," kodi ndi mfundo yanji yopereka chinachake?
Bwanji osanenapo? Ndiyeno osangalala moona mtima ndikudabwa momwe wokondekayo mwachindunji amatsimikizira chokhumba chinsinsi. Kodi mukuganiza kuti izi zidzakhala bodza? Ayi, izi ndizing'ono zazing'ono zomwe zimakhala zofunikira kwambiri pa holideyi.
Mkazi - Lamlungu
Kutsiriza kwa masiku ogwira ntchito kwa ambiri a ife kumakhudzanso ndi holide ! Ndipo sizowoneka mwangozi: mukhoza kugona mochuluka, kugona pabedi, kadzutsa kadzutsa kanthawi kochepa, ndiyeno ... Ndiko komwe ambiri akudikira chinyengo: malinga ndi chiwerengero, akazi okwana 70% amathera kumapeto kwa sabata, kugula chakudya, kutsuka ndi zina "ngongole zapakhomo". Mwamunayo, ndithudi, amalowerera muzochitika zachuma, koma ... Mu moyo wake pang'onopang'ono umabweretsa mkwiyo: koma kodi mpumulo uli woyenerera, uli kuti chimwemwe chochokera kumapeto kwa sabata? Mkazi wapadera adzatha kupuma mokondwera ku ntchito zapakhomo. Kuyeretsa kumakhala chisangalalo chosangalatsa, kupatsa banja "mapu a mtengo wapatali", kugula chakudya m'sitolo - mu "kusaka" (ana a sukulu aang'ono, mwachitsanzo, amasangalala kuti azipeza zinthu pamasalefu ndikudzaza galimotoyo). Chinthu chachikulu ndi maganizo ndi mphotho! Ikhoza kukhala phokoso mu paki yosangalatsa, keke ya amayi ake dzina lake kapena madzulo kumaseŵera a kanema.
N'zosatheka kuti padzakhala amuna ambiri omwe angakwatirane kuti akhale ndi nyumba yoyera m'nyumba, pakhomo la opaleshoni komanso patebulo lonse. Ambiri amayamikira chakudya chokoma komanso moyo wokondweretsa. Momwemo, mkazi ndi mlungu wokondwerera sabata, pomwe zonse zimakhala zosavuta komanso zokondweretsa, nthawi zonse zidzakondedwa ndi zofunidwa.