Ubwenzi pakati pa apongozi awo ndi apongozi awo sungatchedwe kuti ndi zosavuta ... Ndizosavuta - mayi yemwe anabala mwana (kapena ana), monga lamulo, amamvetsetsa kwambiri maganizo a atsikana. Sizimene anthu amanena, ndipo akatswiri a maganizo amatsimikizira mawu awa (moyenera) kuti apongozi apamwamba ndi amayi omwe sanalekerere mwana wake yekha, komanso mwana wake wamkazi.
Asanayambe moyo wa banja, maubwenzi pakati pa achibale a anyamata akukula bwino. Komabe, mwamsanga tsiku lokwatira laukwati litatha, apongozi ake amayamba kupereka uphungu, pang'onopang'ono akuyenda mu makhalidwe abwino. Zinthu zimakula ngati achinyamata amakhala ndi makolo awo. Osati kuti ukhale pabedi, iwe umasamba molakwika, iwe sungamange shati yako yaying'ono choncho, ndi zina zotero - ndani sakudziwa izi? Ndiwo nkhani yanu? Ndiye ndi nthawi yoti muchite mofulumira.
Mkhalidwe watsopano
Iwe tsopano ndinu mpongozi. Ndi nthawi yoganizira za momwe mungakhalire paubwenzi ndi mpongozi wanu. Mukumuchitira nsanje mwana wanu wamwamuna, ngakhale kuti simungavomereze. Pambuyo paukwati, mumayamba kugwiritsira ntchito mwana wanu, komanso mpongozi wanu. Ngati izi sizikuyenda bwino, ndiye kuti mikangano imayamba kuphulika, kukwiya ndi mikangano. Mukuganiza mofanana ndi izi: "Ndakhala moyo wake waukulu kwa iye, mwana wanga anali pafupi nane, ankandimvera. Tsopano akumvetsera iye, komabe akadali wosadziwa zambiri! ". Kapena kotero: "Mwana wanga wosauka, mwinamwake amadya pasta yopanda kanthu ndi zina zamapangidwe, chifukwa mkazi wamng'ono sakudziwa kuti azidya zakudya zake zabwino, zomwe ndimamukonzera ...".
Simuyenera kudandaula. Ndipotu, zosiyana ndizo. Kawirikawiri mtsikana wamng'ono amatuluka kunja khungu kuti akondweretse mwamuna wake wokondedwa. Ndipo pies amaphunzira kuphika, ndi supu kuphika monga mwana wanu amakonda. Ndipo ali ndi zovala zowonjezera kwambiri, ndipo zakudya ndi zokoma kwambiri komanso zatsopano - zabwino zonse kwa wokondedwa. Inde, mutatha kuyankhula momveka bwino kwa mpongozi wake za chakudya chakuda poizoni ndi makina osalidwa bwino, kunena kuti mpongozi wako adzakhumudwitsidwa - sizongonena. Mnyamata wina wachinyamata amayamba kusokonezeka kuti: "Amayi anu samandiyamikira konse", "akunena kuti ndine woyipa kwambiri." Chifukwa cha zimenezi, mwana wanu ali pakati pa moto wachiwiri. Inde, kumanyoza kuti amve mawu okhudza mai ake. Choncho, poyankha, akhoza kuuza mkazi wake wokondedwa zinthu zambiri zomwe iye amadandaula nazo pambuyo pake. Kodi mungakondwere nokha? Ndiye simukufuna kuti mwana wanu azisangalala.
Ndizoipa ngati mwana wanu atenga malo - ndi vuto lanu. Monga, iwo adakangana - ndipo adziyanjanitsa nokha. Udindo wotere ukhoza kutengedwa ngati vuto linali pakati pa mpongozi ndi mayi ake (mlongo, achibale ena). Ndipo mwa inu, mwanayo ayenera kutenga mwamuna. Kotero, ngati iye anakuuzani inu popanda kudandaula kuti inu simunalowe mu moyo wa mkazi wake_chi ndi chiwonetsero cha khalidwe la munthu. Musawope kuti mwanayo amasiya kukukondani, kukhala ndi mkazi wina. Posakhalitsa adzazizira kwa iwe, ngati iwe umangokhalira kutsutsana ndi mpongozi wamng'onoyo. Pambuyo pa zonse, sikofunikira kuchita izi mwa kukangana ndi kuzunza.
Kawirikawiri, apongozi ake amangofuna wina. Khala woleza mtima ngati n'kotheka, kulola achinyamata kusangalala ndi kupambana kwawo. Adzakhala oyamika kwa inu chifukwa chosalowerera mu miyoyo yawo. Pambuyo pake, mwina simungakhale womasuka ngati wina akutsogolerani, ndikuyesera kuti akuphunzitseni kuchita mosiyana. Lamulo lalikulu kwa apongozi alionse ayenera kukhala mawu akuti: "Malangizo ndi abwino pokhapokha atafunsidwa."