1. Mphatso. Atsikana onse amakonda mphatso, koma akawapeza, amayamba kunena mawu ngati awa, chifukwa chiyani? Muyenera kumvetsa kuti pofunsa funso ngatilo, mukhoza kumukhumudwitsa. Ndipo inu mudzamuchotsera kwa iye chikhumbo chirichonse choti akupatseni inu mphatso. Ngakhale simukusowa chinthu ichi kapena osakonda zomwe wapereka, pangani maonekedwe omwe mumakondwera nawo ndipo mumayamikira kwambiri.
Ndipo ngati mukufuna kuti munthu wanu akupatseni zomwe mukufunikira, phunzirani momwe mungadziperekere kumusankha bwino mphatso. Pambuyo pa zonse, mkazi aliyense, ngati akufuna, akhoza kulamulira munthu aliyense.
2. Kutamanda bwenzi. Simungamuuze mnzanu za mawu monga, monga, momwe aliri wabwino kapena wabwino. Musanene mawu amenewa kwa mwamuna wanu. Kumvetsetsa kuti bwenzi lake, akadali munthu, ngakhale kuti ali bwino. Mutha kuchititsa nsanje mnzanuyo. Zitha kuchitika kuti akuyamba kukudandaulirani kuti muli ndi chiwembu ndi bwenzi lake lapamtima ndipo zidzakhala zovuta kuti mumutsimikizire chinachake mwa njira ina.
3. Mayi. Musanene mawu omwe amasonyeza maganizo anu oipa kwa amayi ake. Izi sizingasangalatse. Ndiponsotu, kodi mungamuchitire bwanji amayi ake, ndipo amamuchitira apongozi anu. Kwa mwamuna, mayi ndi wofunikira kwambiri m'moyo. Ndipo musamvetsere ngati mwamuna wanu alumbira ndi amayi ake, chifukwa maminiti asanu adzakhala bwino. Musagwiritse ntchito mphindi ino ndipo musayerekeze kuti mungathe kuchita chimodzimodzi.
4. Mwinanso simungauze mwamuna wanu kuti mumakonda kwambiri ntchito, kuti anzako onse akupenga inu. Amayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti, powauza mawu amenewa, adzayamba kuyamikira ndi kuwasamalira kwambiri. Ngati mwamuna wanu ali ndi nsanje mungathe kuwonetsa zotsatira monga ntchito kusintha, kuitana nthawi zonse ndikukulamulirani. Mwamuna angaganize kuti mumatha kudzipeza nokha, ndipo ayamba kudzizunza yekha ndi malingaliro amtundu uliwonse. Mwanjira iyi, mukhoza kutsogolera mu ubale wanu.
Tsopano mukudziwa kuti simungamuuze munthu. Podziwa choonadi chophwekachi, n'zotheka kuti wokondedwa wanu adzakupatsani mphete yothandizira.