Pamene mavuto amachokera kumbali zonse, pamene dzuwa lili usiku
Kodi sakuwona, akuthamangira kuthandiza?
Ndipotu, sangathe kudya ndi kugona pamene mwadzidzidzi!
Koma ... ngati bwenzi liyenera kutchedwa - siliri bwenzi ...
Vatulko Victoria
Akafunsidwa ngati pali ubale pakati pa amai, mungathe kuyankha molimba mtima kuti pali. Atsikana ambiri amanena kuti kwa iwo abwenzi ambiri azimayi amatanthauza: iye ali ngati mlongo kwa ine, amakangana yankho lawo. Koma ndi chiyani chomwe chikugwira ndipo ndi nthawi yanji? Tiyeni tiwone izo.
Zimayamba ndi mfundo yakuti ubwenzi, lingaliro la munthu aliyense. Amuna ali ndi ubale weniweni, nthawi zina, ngati mnzanu akudwala, ali okonzeka kuwoloka ngakhale moyo wawo. Kwa mkazi, mosiyana, poyamba ndi munthu wokondedwa. Kwa iye, nyumba, banja, ubale ndi wokondedwa ndi zofunika kwambiri. Ndipo ngati mnzanu mwanjira inayake sakuyang'ana pa wokondedwa wake, ndiye kuti ali ndi mwayi wonse wokhala naye pachibwenzi. Ndipo pano siziri ngakhale za nsanje, koma ndi nsanje, chifukwa mu kuya kwa moyo mkazi aliyense amadziyerekezera ndi chibwenzi ndipo amafuna kuti nthawi zonse amupitirire. Pamene izi sizichitika, ndiye kuti mikangano yosiyana imayambira pazovuta komanso kuchokera kwa bwenzi labwino lomwe limasanduka mdani woipa kwambiri. Izi zonse ngakhale kuti mkazi aliyense akufuna kukopa chidwi cha mwamuna, ndipo ngati uyu ndi mwamuna wa bwenzi lapamtima, ndiye chisangalalo chimawonekera kawiri.Mofananamo, khalidwe la ubale wa amayi limadalira zomwe zimachititsa kuti zichitike. Ngati mkazi amasankha bwenzi la moyo wake, kotero kuti amvetse dziko lake lamkati, ndipo ngati sakulakwitsa pa chisankho, ndiye kuti tingathe kunena kuti akaziwa adzakhala mabwenzi abwino kwambiri. Pachifukwa ichi, ubwenzi ungasokonezedwe chifukwa cha kusintha kwa khalidwe la mmodzi wa atsikana. Komanso, mkazi amatha kusankha chifaniziro, kuti awone bwino chiyambi chake. Ubwenzi umenewu, monga lamulo, sukhalitsa nthawi yaitali. Ndipotu, amayi ambiri amamva kuti mnzawo ndi wonyengerera, koma nthawi zambiri samayankhula zachindunji, koma amayamba kubwezera mobwerezabwereza, kufalitsa zabodza komanso kupereka chinsinsi.
Kwa amayi ambiri, pambuyo pakwati, nthawi yochuluka yokhalapo kwa abwenzi aakazi. Ndipo pamene chibwenzi sichimakwatirana, ndi kovuta kuti amvetsetse winayo. Chifukwa chake, ubwenzi umachepa. Choncho, ukwati ndi chifukwa china chomwe chibwenzi cha mkazi chimatayika. Ndipo sizingowonongeka! Amakhala nsanje, chifukwa, ndithudi, mkazi aliyense amafuna banja, mwamuna wachikondi ndi ana. Zili choncho kuti chibwenzi tsopano sungapereke nthawi yomweyo kwa chibwenzi china, ndipo ndithudi, womaliza amayamba kukwiya. Amayamba kuchita nsanje ndipo amazunzidwa kokha ndi funso lakuti "Chifukwa chiyani ali ndi mwamuna wokondedwa, koma sichoncho? Kodi iye ndi wabwinoko kuposa ine? ". Ndipo muzochitika izi, zidzakhala zabwino ngati sangakhale mbuye wa mwamuna wake. Pambuyo pake, izi ndizochitika zachizoloŵezi, pamene mnzako wabwino amakhala mbuye wa mwamuna wake.
Ndipotu, munthu aliyense ali ndi khalidwe losiyana. Ndipo ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti chibwenzicho ndi moyo, muyenera kusamala, chifukwa chilichonse m'moyo chimasintha. Koma izi siziyenera kuchita mantha, chifukwa palibe kanthu kosatha. Ubwenzi ukhoza kufotokozedwa ngati ndondomeko yochokera kwa Master ndi Margarita: "Chinachake chiyenera kuti chichitike, chifukwa sizichitika kuti chirichonse chikhalapo kwamuyaya."
Osati pachabe chifukwa anthu amanena kuti palibe chibwenzi. Mwinamwake, koma amuna ali ndi lingaliro losiyana la ubwenzi, izi zatchulidwa kale. Ndipo kodi mwawona mkazi mmodzi yemwe, pakati pa usiku, adzaponyera mwana wodwala mwadzidzidzi ndikuthamangira kukapulumutsa bwenzi lake, yemwe mnyamata wotsatira uja adataya? Ndi zofanana! Ngakhale, ndithudi, nthawizonse zimakhala zosiyana.
Ndipo chifukwa chakuti chibwenzi nthawi zonse chimaposa wina? Kaya ndi maonekedwe, kapena chikhalidwe cha anthu, kapena kukhala ndi makhalidwe auzimu chabe. Inde, onse ali ndi zofooka zawo, koma ndi bwenzi lanji pamene angakumbukire mosavuta mkhalidwe wachiwiri poyera? Ndipo zochitika zotere, mwa njira, zimachitika nthawi zambiri.
Pali zosokoneza zambiri, zokhudzana ndi ubale pakati pa akazi, mungakhale ndi chidaliro chonse kuti chiripo. Inde, ndithudi, ndikufuna ndikukhulupirire. Muyenera kupeza munthu woyenera - wachifundo, woona mtima ndi malingaliro oyera. Anthu oterowo alipo, ndipo ubwenzi wawo sungasokonezedwe ndi banja, ntchito ndi kukongola. Mwachidule, zimakhala zosiyana-siyana komanso zopanda malire. Koma komabe izo ziri.