Kodi Cinderella wamakono ndi ndani? Mkazi ali mu fano, kumbuyo komwe kumabisa chikhalidwe chaumunthu ndi chiopsezo kapena msungwana yemwe amakokera pafupi ndi zovuta zambiri za ana? Tiyeni tiwongole ndikuyika mfundo zonse m'malo awo.
Cinderella yovuta, pafupifupi monga zovuta zina zonse, zimapangidwa ndipo zikuwoneka ali mwana. Komabe, sikoyenera kufanana pakati pa wina ndi mzake ndi heroine wa Cinderella kuchokera ku nthano ya Charles Perro. Zoonadi, Cinderella yamakono ndi chiwonetsero cha munthu wamkulu, komabe, moyo ukhoza kukhala wosiyana kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe cha nthano zomwe wolemba anatulukira. Mwachitsanzo, iye akhoza kubadwa ndikukhala m'banja labwino kwambiri, ndipo akuzunguliridwa ndi makolo achikondi. Koma malingaliro ake ndi makhalidwe ake ali odzaza ndi zofunikira ndi zofunikira, zomwe m'tsogolomu zidzapanga chithunzi cha Cinderella.
Mtsikana wabwino kwambiri
Tiyeni tiyese kuyerekezera khalidwe la Cinderella yamakono ndi kusonkhanitsa heroine kuchokera ku nkhani yodziwika bwino. Zolushka anali wokondweretsa kwambiri, wokoma mtima, wodzichepetsa komanso wodalirika, nthawi zonse amayesa kutsata njira zonse kwa achibale, makamaka maganizo ake anali ofunika kwa iye. Mtsikana wokoma mtima komanso wosungulumwa anachita mantha kwambiri kuti adzakanidwa ndipo adzasiyidwa.
Ndiponsotu, n'chifukwa chiyani atsikana ambiri amafuna kusangalatsa atate awo, akuwoneka kuti ndi maso a atsikana aang'ono osalakwa, osalakwa, oyera komanso opanda ubwana? Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti onse abambo samapereka chikondi chawo mokwanira. Ambiri aife tinayenera kulandira chikondi chawo pachiyambi pomwe. Amayi nthaŵi zonse ankati: "Musathamange, phunzirani bwino, musachite izi, mwinamwake bambo adzakwiya."
Apapa sanayambe kuganiza kuti, kuopseza ana awo aakazi mwaukali, amatha kukhala moyo wokhala ndi "msungwana wabwino," omwe angayenere chikondi cha atate kuti akhale ndi khalidwe labwino komanso zochita zabwino, ngakhale iyeyo amakonda papa. Msungwana wabwino sangakwanitse kuchita zomwe abambo ake amaletsa ndikuchita zinthu zosagwirizana ndi chifuniro cha abambo. Sangathe kunena mokweza kuti "Sindikufuna", "Ayi," "Sindidzatero." Atsikana oterewa akuyesetsabe kutsimikizira kuti bambo awo akuyembekezera, ngati bambo sangakwiyire, ndikukhala m'ndende amayi ake.
Koma kodi pali njira yothetsera vutoli?
Cinderella ndi munthu wokoma mtima komanso wokoma mtima wa nthawi imeneyo, ukhoza kunena kuti ndi chitsanzo chabwino, simungatsutsane nazo. Wolemba Charles Perrault analemba nkhani iyi m'zaka za zana la 17, pamene Cinderella ankafuna kukhala msungwana aliyense, chifukwa anali khalidwe labwino ndi labwino lachikazi. Ndi pa nthawi. Ndipo makhalidwe amtundu ngatiwo ndi udindo, kudzikonda, kukhulupirira zozizwitsa, kudzichepetsa ndi kugonjera mwa msungwana osati fano la mkazi wabwino, mwamsanga mwamsanga wovutitsidwayo. Kotero, mkazi sangathe kudzikweza yekha, makamaka kumumangiriza. Ngati muli ndi makhalidwe oterewa, yesetsani kuwamasula, kuwachotsa, simukuwafuna.
Ubale ndi amuna
Fairy Cinderella analota munthu mmodzi yekha, ndiye yekhayo mmoyo wake ndipo modzichepetsa anadikira iye. Inde, adamudikirira, koma adamuthandiza. Pambuyo pake, mulungu wake anali nthano, amene nthawi zonse ankamuthandiza ndipo anapanga thupi labwino mooneka. Ngakhale kuti Cinderella wasintha mkati, sanamutse mutu wake, maganizo ake sanasinthe, anakhalabe wokoma mtima komanso wokonda mtendere. Izi sizinamulole iye kupeza chitsimikizo cha khama. Iye ngakhale mwa dongosolo loyenera anadzigwetsa mwadzidzidzi pamene mwamuna wake wokondedwa - kalonga amapanga zopereka ndi mitima. Koma mpaka pano palibe amene amadziwa pambuyo paukwati wawo wokhala mosangalala kapena ayi.
Cinderella wamakono monga wokonda heroine akuyembekezera kalonga wake pa kavalo woyera. Koma mumavomereza kuti chiwembu cha nthano sizingatheke kubwerezedwa mmoyo weniweni. Ngakhale akalonga amakono ndi kuyang'ana atsikana oterewa, palibe chitsimikizo chakuti posakhalitsa sadzasokonezeka nawo.
Kodi pali kutuluka?
Ife tonse tikudziwa kuti munthu ndi getter. Ndipo kalonga wa nkhani zamatsenga anali chitsanzo chabwino cha izi. Anakumana ndi mlendo, adamukonda, ndipo kenakake anafunafuna ndi kumusakasaka. Komabe, mtima wake sunagonjetsedwe ndi ndondomeko yabwino kapena ngakhale kukongola, koma zonse zowumitsa ndi zinsinsi. Pambuyo pake, atsikana onse adathamangira kalonga ndipo adalota kuti adzamukwatira, ndipo Cinderella adafuna kuthawa. Ndiyo yekha amene adakhoza kumudabwitsa, anazindikira kuti si zachilendo, ndiye chifukwa chake anali kufunafuna. Nthanoyi imatiuza kuti kalonga anali kufunafuna mkazi wodabwitsa, wodabwitsa komanso wodabwitsa - izi zikhoza kuwerengedwa pakati pa mizere. Sitikunena kuti kalonga amafuna kudzichepetsa, kumvera ndi kulemerera, anali kufunafuna weniweni wamkazi. Koma palibe amene amadziwa ngati Cinderella ndi wolungama chifukwa cha chiyembekezo cha Kalonga muukwati.
Amuna ngati akazi okondweretsa amene amasonyeza kuyambitsa, mwinamwake posakhalitsa sawakondwera nawo. Inde, ayenera kukonda ana, akhale mkazi wokhulupirika, mbuye wabwino komanso mayi wabwino. Koma kalonga sanathe kufotokozera mwa iye zomwe zimadabwitsa, kuziyang'ana ndi maso, zimakondweretsa chisomo chake, zonyenga, zonyenga, ndizofunikira kwambiri - zimatulutsa kukongola ndi kudzidalira kwapadera komanso kosadziwika. Pambuyo pake, mkazi aliyense ayenera kukonzedwa mosiyana ndi mochulukira kukhala ogwirizana m'zinthu zonse, ndi zomwe chikondi chiri pafupi, chabwino?
Ngati inu muli Cinderella wamakono, ndiye mvetserani choyamba pa umunthu wanu, zokhumba ndi zosowa zanu. Chifukwa chikhalidwe chokha cha kutchulidwa kwa ena ndi kudzichepetsa kumakulimbikitsani kudzisiya nokha, kukhulupirira kuti chimwemwe chidzabwera kokha ndi kubwera kwa kalonga m'moyo wanu, chifukwa mwa iwo okha simukudziwa.
Komabe, Cinderella iliyonse imakhala ndi makhalidwe abwino, ndiwodzipereka, oona mtima, okoma mtima komanso okhululukira olakwa. Koma inu mwamtheradi simadziyamikira nokha, ndipo mumagwirizanitsa kwambiri ku zolephera zanu.
Mudzapindula ndi maphunziro ndi njira zomwe zimalimbikitsa kudzidalira ndikudzidalira. Inde, kuti mukwaniritse zabwino, komanso chofunika kwambiri, zotsatira zomwe mumazifuna, mudzafunika mwezi woposa umodzi, koma ndikukhulupirirani, kuyesayesa kotereku kukupatsani zambiri. Kupita patsogolo sikunakakamize kudikirira kukambirana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Cinderellas amakhumudwa kwambiri ndi malingaliro okhudza kalonga, ndipo izi zimawononga moyo weniweni. Chifukwa chiyani ndikupita kuntchito ndikupeza maphunziro apamwamba, ngati posachedwa ndikumana ndi kalonga yemweyo? Kodi iye sakufuna kuti apeze Cinderella wodalirika ndi wodziimira yekha, yemwe sali mu "masitepe" ndi amayi ake opeza?
Cinderella aliyense ayenera kulingalira momwe angakhalire popanda kalonga. Ngati sakumana ndi njira yanu, mungakhale bwanji ndi moyo, ndipo mutani? Mwina ndiye mukufuna kuyamba kuphunzira, kuchita zinthu zomwe mumazikonda, kupeza zosangalatsa ndikukwera pamwamba pa ntchito.
Izi ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita. Ndipo kalonga, ndithudi, adzawonekera mu moyo wanu, koma pangТono pang'ono. Mukadziwa zomwe mukufuna kumoyo, musayembekeze kuti moyo udzakhala wabwino pokhapokha ngati kalonga akuwoneka ndikukhala mkazi wodalirika, chikondi chidzawoneka mmoyo.
Ndipotu, msungwana aliyense yemwe kale anali Cinderella, adzadziwa momwe angapambane ndi kusangalala ndi mphamvu zake popanda iye.