Zomwe zimayambitsa ndi zotsatira za nkhanza zazimayi zingakhale zosiyana. Pambuyo pake, aliyense ali wokwiya - amuna ndi akazi. Akazi amakonda kukamenyana kumbuyo. Zida zawo ndizodzudzulidwa, zamwano, zowopsya ndi miseche. Kwa amuna, nkhanza imasonyezedwa mwawonekera. Kuteteza maganizo anu, nkhondo ndi banal nkhondo. Nkhanza za amuna zimaonedwa ngati zachilendo. Koma amayi ayenera kudziletsa okha, kuti asawononge nkhope zawo. Koma nthawi zina mkwiyo umatuluka. Ndipo kawirikawiri akazi, poletsa kuletsa maganizo, amakhala amwano kuposa amuna.
Zifukwa za nkhanza za akazi.
Kawirikawiri zomwe zimayambitsa ndi zotsatira za chiwawa cha amayi ndi khoma losamvetsetseka. Azimayi amamva kuti ali mumsampha. Iwo alibe malo okwanira kuti achitepo kanthu, ndipo mphamvu yowonjezera imatuluka. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti chiwawa ndi ntchito ya chilengedwe chimene tapatsidwa mwachilengedwe. Kukhala wokwiya m'mikhalidwe yolingalira n'kopindulitsa. Mkwiyo umamasula mphamvu, umalimbikitsa kusintha zinthu zina zomwe zimakhalapobe. Komanso, nkhanza zimathandiza kutetezera zoopsa zomwe zimawopsya komanso kuteteza zofuna zawo, kuthana ndi zopinga zazikulu. Mwachitsanzo, mayi amakhala wokwiya kwambiri poteteza mwana wake.
Chiwawa ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa mavuto. Ulendo wa moyo mumzinda waukulu ndi wofulumira kwambiri kotero kuti thupi liyenera kukhala "mawonekedwe olimbana" nthawi zonse. Ife tokha timadzipangitsa kukhala osokonezeka kuti tigwirizane. Kusonkhanitsa mkhalidwe wovuta ndi kuchoka pavuto ndi kuchepa kochepa. Mwa njira, ndiye chifukwa chake anthu m'magulu amatsenga komanso amakwiya.
Ngakhale kuti nkhanza zikuwoneka ngati zachilengedwe, anthu oipa samakonda aliyense. Sitikudziwa kuthetsa malingaliro olakwika molondola. Mkwiyo umakhala wowonongeka pamene umauzidwa munthu wina. Munthu akakhala cholinga chanu. Ndipo mudzavutika ndi maganizo anu olakwika poyamba. Ngati mukufuna kufotokoza kusakhutira kwanu ndi zinthu zomwe zachitika, musasunthire udindo wina wothandizana nawo. Musamayese munthu wina chifukwa cha chinachake, chifukwa aliyense ali ndi choonadi chawo. Si chifukwa chanu kuti muli ndi maganizo oipa. Mukufuna kufuula - kufuula! Mukufuna kudzifotokoza nokha ngati "mawu amphamvu" - ufulu wanu. Koma kufuula popanda maso.
Mmene mungapewere zotsatira zosasangalatsa za chiwawa.
Kupewa zotsatira zosasangalatsa za chiwawa si kophweka. Ngati wina akukugwirani, simuyenera kuyankha wolakwayo mofanana. Choyamba, adafotokoza mmene akumvera, zomwe zilibe kanthu ndi inu. Mukamayankha, mumakhala ngati mumayesa mavuto ake. Kodi mukufunikira izi? Chachiwiri, yesetsani kufufuza zomwe mukuchita mofulumirira ku chizoloŵezi chingachititse. Munthu akhoza kutsogoleredwa ndi mowa, mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena odwala. Pa zochitikazi, wolakwirayo ali mu dziko lokwanira ndipo akhoza kuchita zovuta zambiri.
Bwanji ngati mutatchulidwa kapena kukakamizidwa, kuwononga maganizo? Chabwino, ngati pali mwayi wofotokozera mnzanu kapena wokondedwa. Thirani, motero, moyo. Thandizo ndi njira zomwe zimadziwika kwa amayi ambiri - kulira mtolo. Kapena mosemphana ndi izi - kukulunga peyala ya bokosi. Koma kawirikawiri pamakhala palibe kuwomba mpira kapena pillow. Pali njira zakuthupi ndi zamaganizo zomwe zimabwezeretsanso uzimu.
Mmodzi wa iwo: pita kumbali, imitsani makola anu mwamphamvu ndipo muyese thupi lanu kwa masekondi angapo (kupatula minofu ya khosi ndi nkhope). Ndiye muyenera kutulutsa ndi kumasuka. Pogwiritsa ntchito zosavutazi, simungakope chidwi - palibe amene angasokoneze kachisi wake. Koma ntchitoyi ndi yofunika komanso yovuta ndikuganiza bwino. Simungathe kulingalira munthu wina wolakwira. Mkwiyo wanu ndi kukhumudwa kumeneku sikudzatha. Ndikofunika kuganizira momwe, palimodzi ndi kupweteka kwa minofu, mkwiyo ndi chiwawa zikuthawa. Taganizirani mmene mkwiyo wanu umasungunuka, umasanduka. Ndipo mwamsanga mukangomenya zida zanu, zidzatha.
Njira inanso yosafuula kwa munthu ndikumuuza momasuka kuti wakhumudwa naye. Munthu ayenera kukhala wokonzeka kukumva. Njira imeneyi imagwira ntchito bwino ndi achibale ndi achibale. Ngati mwakhumudwa ndi wokondedwa wanu, nenani izi: "Wokondedwa, ndikufuna kuti tipange. Koma zimandiletsa kuti ndikukwiyira kwambiri. Ndikufuna nthawi kuti ndichepetse. Izi ndizokumverera kwanga chabe. Ndipo ine ndikuyenera kuti ndizichita nawo iwo ndekha. Ndipatseniko, chonde, mphindi zisanu. Ndidzakhumudwa, ndipo tidzakambirana nkhaniyi mwamtendere. " Pachifukwa ichi, musalankhule za mnzako, koma za zomwe zikuchitika panopa. Musadzipatutse nokha ku zochitikazo. Ndi bwino kuzindikira kuti mulibe mphamvu ndikuyankhula mwachindunji: "Ndikufuna kukufuula!". Malo otseguka ndi othandiza kwambiri pakupanga zisankho zabwino.
Chiwawa chazimayi chimapezeka nthawi zambiri m'banja. Pambuyo pokhala ndi malingaliro ambiri osokonezeka kuntchito, okakamizidwa ndi chiwawa, timanyamula iye kunyumba. Kuchokera kwa iye kuvutika ndi kwa kunja, osati ubale wokha pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Nthawi zambiri mabanja omwe ali pachiopsezo kwambiri ndi ana. Kawirikawiri, tikamaganizira zolakwika, timadandaula kwambiri zomwe zinachitika. Koma mawuwo si mpheta. Kunena kamodzi - simudzabwerera.
Zambiri zomwe zimakukhumudwitsani zimachitika mosasamala kanthu za chikhumbo chanu kapena khama lanu. Ndikofunika kuvomereza izi ngati chidziwitso. Mwachitsanzo, ndinu wosungulumwa, ndipo mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse amamangidwa kuntchito. Sakupatsani inu chidwi choyenera. Usanayambe kukwiya naye, fufuzani - chifukwa chake cha khalidwe ili. Mwinanso ali ndi ntchito yofulumira. Kapena mwinamwake sakufuna kupita kunyumba kwa mkazi wokondwa? Kodi mungatani ngati maubwenzi apabanja ndi okondedwa kwa inu? Choyamba - kuzindikira kuti zowopsya zimangowonjezera mkhalidwewo. Onetsetsani mwachifundo kuti apite kunyumba mwamsanga. Ndipo kuti amutse maganizo ake, khalani ndi zidule zazing'ono. Njira yochepa kwambiri pamtima wa munthu ndi kudzera mu mbale yakuda kabichi. Kwa kanthawi, yophika tsiku lirilonse, musati "mtengo", koma chakudya chamadzulo. Ndipo nthawi iliyonse - chinachake chatsopano. Dziike wekha mu dongosolo. Gulani malo atsopano achikondi chamakono. Anadabwa naye ndi mawu okoma. Ndipo mu sabata simudzasowa kukwiya naye. Muthandiza osati mwamuna ndi ana okha. Choyamba, mudzadzithandiza nokha. Thanzi lanu limadalira maganizo anu.
Nazi malingaliro ena othandiza omwe angakuthandizeni kuti musakhumudwitse chifukwa chosocheretsa ndi kulimbikitsa chiwawa chanu:
- Muzovuta, funsani chibwenzi chanu zakukhosi kwanu. Koma kuzunzika kwake sichiposa theka la ora. Apo ayi, izo zingatope ndi inu kapena kuthetsa mavuto anu.
- Musamalimbane ndi mafilimu. Chitani zomwe zikuchitika panthawiyi. Ngati masiku asanu ndi awiri akudutsitsa pamutu panga kumanyoza kwachiwiri ndi njira yowongoka yosayendetsa chiwawa.
- Musapereke zenizeni zomwe mukufuna. Musanayambe kuwombera, ganizirani: Kodi mnzanuyo akukutcha kuti simukudziwa bwino, kapena kodi mwaganiza kuti amatanthauza?
- Ngati mwakhumudwa, kenaka muwerengere khumi. Ndipo pang'onopang'ono. Phunzirani kuchepetsa kukhumudwa kwanu, posachedwa mudzatha kupeŵa izo.
- Phunzirani zochitika zingapo zomwe zimamasula minofu. Munthu sangakwiyire mwakuthupi ngati thupi lake liri lomasuka.
"Njira zabwino kwambiri ndi kupereka munthu wokwiya ngati ntchentche yosafunika. Pozhuzhzhit, pozhuzhzhit ndi kusiya. Tizilombo toyambitsa matenda, tingatenge chiyani? Pamapeto pake - musalume chimodzimodzi.
- Ganizani, kodi vutoli lidzakhala ndi tanthauzo kwa inu maminiti asanu ndi asanu? Ndipo mu maora awiri? Kodi ndiyenera kudula mitsempha yanga kuti ndiiwale madzulo?
Malingana ndi malamulo osati afikiliya okha, komanso a psychology, monga chonchi chimapereka zotere. Kapena mphamvu yogwira ntchito ndi yofanana ndi mphamvu ya otsutsa. Ngati simunzeru, mungathe kunena mwanjira ina: Mukakhala "mokwanira" mutha kukangana ndi nkhanza, ndiye kuti nkhondoyo ikuwonjezereka. Ndipo ngati muwonetsa kudziletsa pang'ono, ndiye munthu wansanje, popanda kulandira yankho, sangakonde chidwi ndi inu. Inu nokha muzisankha kaya mukukhala mogwirizana ndi inu nokha, kapena kufalitsa dziko lino mu zidutswa. Ndipo komabe, kugwirizana kuli bwino!