Chifukwa chake zonse zinayamba
N'zotheka kumvetsa momwe mnzanuyo komanso kuyankhulana kwanu akukulonjezera, ngakhale ndi mawu oyambirira. Ngati munthuyo atembenukira kwa inu ndi mawu omveka akuti "Moni wokongola. Bwanji osapanga spitz? ", Ndiye odziwa woteroyo akhoza kusankhidwa mosamala kuti asatengere. Pambuyo pake, anthu omwe alemba mawu a template, inde ngakhale aliyense mzere, pamene akupanga zolakwa zazikulu, alibe malingaliro kapena malingaliro. Kuonjezera apo, iwo akuyang'ana interlocutor yosangalatsa ndi moyo, ndipo yemwe angakhale ndi zotheka m'tsogolo kugonana. Choncho, ngati achinyamata oterewa akukufikirani, ndibwino kuti musayambe kuwatsanzira, chifukwa simungapeze chilichonse kupatulapo munthu wina wosasamala komanso wosasangalatsa. Mwachitsanzo, anthu adakambirana nkhaniyi mu gulu linalake, ndipo adalankhula kwambiri kotero kuti kuyankhulana kumeneku kunasanduka makalata. Pachifukwa ichi, mnzanuyo akhoza kukhala wofanana ndi weniweni, chifukwa simunasankhe wina ndi mnzake kuchokera ku zithunzi ndi zigawo. Anangothamangira kumadzi ndipo nthawi ina, monga momwe zimakhalira nthawi zambiri pamoyo weniweni.
Zoona
Si chinsinsi chimene anthu ambiri amachita pa intaneti mosiyana kwambiri ndi moyo weniweniwo. Ndipo, ena amasewera kwenikweni, ena amangotseguka mbali zimenezo, zomwe pazifukwa zina sangathe kuziwonetsera mu dziko lenileni. Choncho polankhulana ndi munthu, muyenera kudziwa kuti munthu weniweni akhoza kukhala wosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe mukuwona ndi kutsogolo kwa kufufuza ndikuganizira za chiyembekezo cha ubale weniweni, konzekerani zodabwitsa. Iwo akhoza kukhala okondweretsa, osati kwenikweni.
Kuti mumvetsetse momwe ubale wanu uliri weniweni, yesetsani kulankhula zambiri kudzera pa Skype kapena foni. Tikamalankhula pa intaneti, tilibe nthawi yoganizira za izo. Choncho, ngati makalata amalembedwa, anthu amatha kukongoletsa chinachake, kusintha, kuphunzitsa, pakumva mawu a wina ndi mzake mungathe kuwona mozama zenizeni za woyimilira ndi kumvetsetsa zomwe mungathe kuyembekezera. Koma simusowa kumangirira maloto anu ku fano lomwe mumalenga poyang'ana pa tsambalo. Musaiwale kuti ngakhale poyankhula momveka bwino, sitingathe kumvetsa zomwe munthuyo ali. Ndipo poavartarkam, ma Albamu ndi malemba a izi ndi zina zotero musatero. Ngakhale mutadziwerengera nokha ngati katswiri wa zamaganizo, kusanthula kwanu zaumunthu sikungakhale kokwanira komanso kokwanira. Aliyense ali ndi ngodya zawo za moyo, zinsinsi komanso mosiyana, kupambana kokopa, zomwe akufuna kuziyika pawonetsera. Choncho, kutsimikiziranso chiyembekezo cha chibwenzi pa intaneti, khalani owona mtima ndi inu nokha ndipo musapangire zithunzi zamatsenga. Mpaka mutamuwona munthu, mpaka mutayankhula naye kwa kanthawi, zidzakhala zovuta kuti mumvetse zomwe zilidi komanso zomwe muyenera kuyembekezera.
Mudzasewera masewera
Mwinamwake, nkofunikira kulankhula momasuka za chikondi m'maseŵera a pa intaneti. Kukhala m'dziko lapansi, kulenga ndi kupopera khalidwe, timadziwana ndi osewera ena, kulankhulana, kuthandizana. Patapita nthawi, kuyang'ana pa khalidweli kumayamba kuoneka kuti uyu ndi munthu weniweni, yemwe takhala naye bwenzi, amene timamukonda. Mafilimu abwino ndi nkhope zabwino za okondedwa athu zimapangitsa kukhalapo. Kuwonjezera apo, m'maseŵera ambiri mukhoza kupanga mabanja ndi ena. Ndipo kawirikawiri zimachitika kuti anthu amayamba kukonda pa intaneti, kumasula malingaliro awo muzowona, ndipo kenako amakhumudwa kwambiri. Tsoka ilo, izi ndi zachibadwa. Musaiwale kuti masewerawo ndi masewera. Kuyambira kusewera, pafupifupi anthu onse amavala masks. Inde, pali ena omwe amakhalabe ofanana ndi moyo, koma pali ochepa mwa iwo. Kwenikweni, osewerawo amasinthidwa mwamsanga atangolemba pa "zowonjezera" ku masewera a pa intaneti. Iwo samangomverera ngati wopeleketsa yemwe amalamulira zigawo zazing'ono zinayi ndipo akhoza kuphedwa ndi zilembo za chilombo chilichonse. Ayi, iwo amamverera ngati anyamata, atsikana achibwenzi omwe akukhala chimodzimodzi m'dziko lino. Ndipo pakakhala masewera a masewera ena munthu wina amene amamumvera chifundo, kukondana ndi khalidwe lolonjeza sikungakhale chiwonetsero chakumverera kwa munthu amene akukhala patsogolo pa khungu. Ayi, malingaliro onsewa ndi a chikhalidwe, omwe munthuyo adadza nawo mbali. M'maseŵera a pa Intaneti, anthu otere amalola kuti azikondana, kukondana, kukambirana zinthu zogonana, pomwe ali m'moyo weniweni amatha kudziwa zomwe angakumane nazo, okwatira kapena okwatira. Makhalidwe amenewa ndi omveka bwino. Izi ndizo kusowa chidwi pa mbali ya wokondedwa, kapena chikhalidwe cha mphepo ndi chikhalidwe, chomwe chimakhala ndi moyo m'moyo, koma mmasewera omwe amakulolani kuumitsa, osazindikira kwenikweni. Choncho, musamagwiritse ntchito masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikukonda zizindikiro. Dzifunseni nokha, chikondi chotani chomwe mungalankhule nacho, ngati muli chabe chikhalidwe chojambula. Ngakhale mutapitiriza kulankhulana osati pa masewerawo, komanso ku Skype kapena kulankhulana, mukupitiriza kuzindikira kuti ndi gawo la masewera, dziko lopanda chidwi lomwe muli ndi mphamvu zonse, wanzeru, okongola, okhala ndi chidziwitso chodabwitsa ndi luso. Kuti musakhumudwitsidwe, muyenera kukumbukira nthawi zonse izi osati kumangirira zolakwika. Zoonadi, monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, ambiri omwe amadziwana nawo, omwe amapezeka chifukwa cha kuyankhulana, amachititsa manyazi.
Koma komabe, wina sanganene motsimikiza kuti mabwenzi ambiri alibe chiyembekezo. Pofuna kuti musakhale ndi ziyembekezo zovuta, muyenera kukonzekera mwamsanga mwamsanga pamoyo weniweni. Ngati munthu amakana misonkhano yotere, ndiye kuti sakugwirizana kwambiri ndi kuyankhulana koteroko kapena kuti ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi moyo. Choncho, musaope kulankhula za misonkhano yeniyeni. Mayankho a mafunso ngati amenewa adzakhala "pepala la litmus", lomwe lidzalongosola chiyembekezo cha ubale umenewu.