Mwa munthu, bizinesi kapena lingaliro, mukhoza kukondana ndi misala, musanayambe chizungu, chomwe chimatha ndi chikwi "Ndimakukondani" kapena ndi nthawi. Koma nthawi zina kumverera kumasanduka matenda, ndi agulugufe m'mimba - kukhala zinyama zeniyeni.
Wamphamvu kwambiri kulikonseMuli okonzeka kumuuza "chikondi" maulendo mazana awiri pa mphindi ndikuyiwala za nyimbo yomwe mumakonda, kuti mum'patse tiyi madzulo. Mmawa uliwonse mumawerenga malemba ake, nthawi ndi nthawi mumamwalira poganiza kuti imfa imakulekanitsani. Khwerero yake kumanja kapena kuyang'ana kumanzere ndi kulangidwa ndi inflation ya milomo, chifukwa iye ndi wanu ndi anu okha. Kapena, mosiyana, mumamukonda mokwanira kotero kuti mumakulolani kuti muyende mofanana ndi inu. Ndipo ngati tsiku lina mnyamatayo sakubweranso? Izi ndizochitika pamene chikondi cholimba kwambiri ndi choopsa pa ubale wanu.
Kuti tisiye chikondi
Ngati chilakolako choterechi chinakugwirani inu kumayambiriro kwa bukuli ndipo nthawi zonse sichimenyana - sangalalani, chifukwa chidzatha posachedwa kukhala mwamtendere.
Koma ngati mwakonzeka kuchotsa anthu onse pafoni pokhapokha iyeyo, ndipo mwamunayo nthawi zonse amadzipangitsa kuti agwiritse ntchito ngakhale madzulo amodzi popanda inu, - ganizirani. Kuwonetsa mnyamata yemwe muli ndi zokonda zanu, abwenzi, maloto ndi ndondomeko yodziimira pa sabata, mumangowonjezera chikondi - pamapeto pake pamakhala mpweya.
Koma nokha - zambiri!
Ndiwe wopambana kusukulu (ngakhale mutakhala atatu), ndinu wojambula bwino, mumadziwika bwino kuposa Coco Chanel (ngakhale ngati simukuchita kalikonse pazinthu) ndipo mumakhala woyenera "Medal Miss of the Century" (ngakhale ngati alibe anzanu akunena mosiyana). Kapena inu munasokonezedwa ndi chikondi cha achibale, kapena inu, mosiyana, munali ndi vuto lalikulu, koma zotsatira zake ziri muzochitika zonse: chikondi cholimba kwambiri ndicho chikondi cha kusinkhasinkha kwanu.
Kuti tisiye chikondi
Popanda kudzikonda, munthu sangayesetse chitonthozo, thanzi komanso moyo wabwino, kupita patsogolo kudzatha, ndipo dziko lonse lapansi silidzatha. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, anthu odzidalira omwe amadziŵa kuti ndi ofunika, anthu okonda. Koma pamene chikondi kwa iwe wekha chimakulepheretsani kukonda wina, kukwiyitsa chikondi ichi kwa ena mwachangu.
Kuvomereza nyenyezi
Mwinamwake mumakondwera ndi mwana wamwamuna wa zaka zapamwamba, yemwe amasewera mgwirizano wa vyinosheskoy, kapena msuweni wa bwenzi yemwe ali ndi nthawi yayitali. Wodziwika - mulibe chofanana, sakudziwa za inu, ndipo ngati atero, amakumbukira maminiti khumi okha pamene akuwona nkhope yanu. Ndipo mumayika chithunzi pakati pa chithunzi chake ndi kukonda, ndipo muzidzikongoletsa ndi maloto kuti "tsiku lina adzamvetsa zonse."
Kuti tisiye chikondi
Kukondana-chikondi kwa munthu yemwe ali wopambana kwambiri kuposa momwe mungadzutsire matalente ndi kulimbikitsa chinachake chachikulu. Ganizirani zomwe mumakonda nyenyezi: maonekedwe, talente, kapena chifukwa chakuti ali nyenyezi? Ngati obnesnost, fufuzani mtundu womwe mumakonda, ndipo onani kuti misewu imakhala ndi anyamata ambiri omwe angathe kuyambitsa changu chochepa.
Ngati mutasokonezeka ndi talente yake, ganizirani kuti mukhala bwino mawa m'mawa ndikukumana naye. Kodi muli ndi chinachake choti mulankhule? Ambiri amakondwera ndi umunthu wake wapadera, osati banal fanatskimyahami? Njira yolondola yofikira nyenyezi ndiyo kukhala nyenyezi kwa inu nokha, apamtima anu apamtima, abwenzi kapena dziko lonse lapansi, ndiko kuti, anadziwika mu moyo wanu.
Ndine wotopetsa ndipo ndikunyada.
Mwinamwake mukudziwa mawu akuti: "Pali mitundu iwiri ya anthu: omwe akugwedeza dziko lapansi, ndi iwo omwe amayenderera pamodzi ndi kufuula:" Dziko lapansi likupita kuti? "
Ndiyamikirika kuti mumadzipereka nokha kwa oyambirira ndipo mwakonzeka kutsegula mtendere wanu kutali ndi kutali, momwe mungathere. Koma kodi simukuopa kutha kwa ulendo wokha? Ngati, chifukwa chofuna kuphunzira ndi ntchito, mumakana kupita ku mafilimu ndikuiwala za tsiku lobadwa la anzanu, abwenzi posachedwa akuiwala kuti mumasangalala. Ndiyeno sadzakupezerani nthawi yanu - monga momwe muliri.
Kuti tisiye chikondi
Musaiwale kuti kupuma mu ntchito kumangothandiza. Kusinthanitsa ntchito ndikupumula, mudzakhala ndi mawonekedwe ndipo mudzakhala ndi nthawi yochulukirapo, monga mudzaiwala za kugwira ntchito mopitirira muyeso, kupsinjika maganizo ndi kupwetekedwa mtima kwa anthu ogwira ntchito.
Nchifukwa chiyani anthu si mbalame?
Simukuzindikira mavalidwe, malamulo a msewu ndi chikhalidwe cha ubwenzi. Mukhoza kuyendetsa mumzinda wina popanda kuwauza makolo anu ndikuiwala kunyamula mlongo wanu wamng'ono ku sukulu ya nyimbo. Ndipo kusokoneza chiyanjano, pomwe MCH idzakhala yamphamvu kwambiri. Simungathe kulonjeza chirichonse ndipo simungadzitengere nokha udindo, chifukwa mumatsatira mphepo yokha, kutuluka kwa moyo, zokhumba zanu - pamene. Koposa zonse mumakonda ufulu komanso chifukwa choti simungathe kupereka nsembe zonyansa chabe, komanso maganizo a anthu ena.
Kuti tisiye chikondi
Mumasokoneza ufulu ndi chiwonetsero. Tsitsi loyera, kunyalanyaza, kupezeka, malingaliro achikunja ndi anthu osadziwika ndi malingaliro osamvera si ufulu, koma vuto la mtsikana wamng'ono yemwe akufuna kutsimikizira kuti wakula kale. Kapena chilakolako chothawa kuchoka ku moyo wokhudzidwa ndi moyo ndikumverera heroine wa filimuyi, yomwe onse samasamala. Ndipo ichi ndi gwero la mikangano nthawi zonse ndi mavuto ena, omwe samasangalatsa kwambiri. Mukhoza kumasula nokha, pokhapokha mutakula. Tengani maudindo, kulemekeza ndi kumverera kwa ena, kuthandizana ndi achibale anu, kutenga moyo mozama. Ndiye ufulu sudzakhudzidwa.
Ndi chiyaninso chomwe mumachikonda ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani izi zimawopseza?
Donuts. Kumverera uku kukuopsezani ndi tsiku lachiwiri - sgastroenterologom ndi zakudya zowonjezera. Choncho tinanenedwa kuti: Timakonda anyamata ndi zinthu zonse, pamene mumachoka kaloti mumatha kudzipangira zokoma, okondedwa.
Kuthandiza. Kodi anthu okuzungulirani amakumbukira pokhapokha ngati akufuna chinachake? Dzilemekezeni nokha, mukani kukana - ena adziwone kuti simuli katswiri wa botanati ndi zofuna za amayi a Theresa, koma mtsikana wokondweredwa wokhala ndi khalidwe.
Phunzirani. Kuti muphunzire ndikugwiritsanso ntchito moyo wanu wonse, komanso kuti mumagwira ntchito ... Koma tisalankhule za zinthu zowawa.
Amayi. Ndikofunika kuti makolo amvetse kuti akukula osati kumvera chidole, chomwe mungathe kutaya zosangalatsa zanu, koma umunthu wokwanira. Izi sizikulepheretsani kumvetsera achibale pazofunikira komanso kukhala mwana wabwino.
Kakompyuta. Amadya masiku anu, usiku ndi maso, koma amapereka pang'ono. Ndi bwino kukhala wotchiyi ndikukumbatira ndi wokonda kwenikweni kapena kukonzekera keke kwa anzanu akusukulu. Zomwe ziri mbali iyi ya chinsalu.
Makalata ndi chimbalangondo. Kudalira (kuchokera ku zidutswa zapitazo ndi chinthu chosasangalatsa kwambiri - mungathe kukhala Glyol's Plyushkin, lingaliro lakumverera.) Muyenera kupita patsogolo.
Maphwando. Chaka Chatsopano ndi "Kubadwa" - kuzizira! Koma inu, mumasewera okondweretsa a makampani, mukuyesera kuiwala za mavuto, chovuta ...
Kugonana. Otetezeka sichiopseza chirichonse. Chabwino, pokhapokha ngati simukuganiza kuti kuyandikira kwapadera ndi injini yaikulu ya chiyanjano ndipo simusankha anyamata, monga mtsogoleri wotsogolera pa mafashoni, ndikuiwala kuti moyo wokonda ndi wosangalatsa.
Kukongola. Kudziyang'ana nokha, zovala zanu, chipinda ndi dziko lapansi ndi zabwino, ngati sizikuthandizani kuti mukhale wofunikira kwambiri, ndikupuma pansi pazitsulo.
Kukonda. Ndibwino kufa chifukwa cha chikondi kusiyana ndi kukhala wopanda moyo, kumanena zabwino. Koma okhawo sanatanthauzeni chikondi chenicheni ku ululu, zomwe moyo wanu kwa inu ndi wina amene mumakonda sungakhale wabwino. Ndipotu, kuchokera ku chikondi chenicheni mukufuna kukumbatira dziko lonse lapansi!