Phindu lodziwika bwino.
Chinthu choyamba chimene chiyenera kugona pamwamba pa zolankhula zanu ndi phindu. Madontho angakhale alionse, nthawi zina ngakhale otsutsana ndi lingaliro lofunikira. Ngati mwapereka moyenera zonse zomwe mwasankha, minuses idzaonedwa ngati yotsiriza.
Kuyankhulana bwino ndi phindu lodziwika bwino ndizopindulitsa muzinthu zonse zomwe zatchulidwa komanso zotheka. Zopindulitsa izi sizikusowa kukhala ndalama. Pali polojekiti yomwe ngakhale ndi phindu laling'ono lomwe lingakonzedwe lingakhale lokongola, chifukwa limapindula mbali zonse ziwiri, sichitenga nthawi yochuluka ndi mphamvu zowonjezera, zimathandiza kupanga chithunzi chabwino cha kampani pamsika ndikuchita monga malonda owonjezera. Choncho, yang'anani ubwino uliwonse pazomwe mumapanga ndikuziganizira.
Zambiri zobisika.
Pofuna kuthandizira zotsatira za zokambirana zilizonse, muyenera kugwiritsira ntchito zonse zomwe ziri pamwamba, ndi zomwe zimabisika kuchokera kumaso. Mwachitsanzo, maganizo anu. Mfundo yakuti timakhudzidwa ndi ena ndi choonadi chosatsutsika. Mwinamwake simudziwa bwino ndipo simudziwa bwino, koma ndikumva kwanu komwe kumamveketsa ndi oyankhulana.
Yesetsani "kugwira moto" ndi polojekiti yomwe mukupereka. Ngati sakukunyalani, mungakope bwanji anthu osadziwa kufunso lomwe limakulepheretsani? Zowopsya, nkhawa ziyenera kukhala kumbuyo, koma kudzoza ndi chikhulupiriro mu zomwe mukuchita n'kofunikira kuti mupambane.
Musagwiritse ntchito chilankhulo chomauma komanso mawu ogwira ntchito, komanso chithumwa chaumwini. Onetsani mwa chitsanzo chanu kuti malingaliro anu ndi abwino kwambiri moti simungakhoze kukana. Koma khalani ololera: kukhudzidwa kwambiri, kukopa kapena kuchita mantha sikuvomerezeka. Chidaliro chimapangitsa kukhala ndi chidaliro cholimba ndi pang'ono pomwe anthu amachitcha chithumwa.
Euphoria sizingakhale zoyenera pamapeto a mgwirizano wofunikira, monga kupsinjika maganizo. Fufuzani za golidi kutanthawuza, ndipo yesetsani kusunga maganizo mu msonkhano wonse.
Konzani kuukiridwa.
Tangoganizani kuti pali anthu omwe akutsogolera omwe sakukudziwani ndipo sakuyimira zomwe mukuyankhula bwino. Kupeza chilolezo chawo ku mgwirizano sikutheka, komabe nkukhalabe osasamala. Ngakhalenso ngati wothandizana naye akufika pakadali pano, koma ndikukayikira kapena kukayikira, ntchito yanu ndikumutsimikizira ndi kusintha njira yoyenera.
Limbani molimba mtima, koma yesani moyenera. Mwachitsanzo, musakhale pansi pamaso pa interlocutor. Malo abwino kwambiri ndi mbali ya munthu amene mukumukamba. Choncho, akatswiri odziwa bwino ntchito amagwiritsa ntchito matebulo ozungulira kuti athe kukambirana - kotero ophatikizana alibe kumverera kuti amakakamizidwa kwambiri.
Ganizirani zonse za malo omwe msonkhano udzachitikire. Kuwala, phokoso, fungo, mitundu - zonsezi ndi zofunika. Konzani mawu omveka kuti abambo onse asayambe kusokoneza maganizo pa zokambirana, koma taganizirani mfundo zowala zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupanga chisankho choyenera. Mwachitsanzo, matebulo ndi ma grafu ndi madera osiyanasiyana omwe amasonyeza mfundo zazikulu za malingaliro anu. Gwiritsani ntchito kuwala kuti musakhale maso, koma kuunikira tebulo ndikuima. Kusuta kungathenso kuthandizira zotsatira za zokambirana. Pewani mizimu yotsika mtengo, musagwiritse ntchito mpweya wabwino ku ofesi. Ndi bwino kugula chipangizo chomwe ozonizula mpweya.
Zoonadi, nkofunikanso kulamulira manja anu, mawonekedwe a nkhope, ndikukhulupirira mwachidwi ndi mawu onse ofunikira komanso okhoza kulankhula bwino bwino. Koma simungathe kunyalanyaza zinthu zazing'ono zimene pamapeto pake zingakhale zogwirizana. Ntchito zambiri zopindulitsa zinathyola chifukwa chakuti munthu yemwe amapereka polojekiti sanasamalire malo abwino ndi chitonthozo, sanakonzekere kukambirana kapena kunyalanyaza malamulo oyambirira. Phunzirani kwa iwo omwe chisangalalo ndi ulamuliro wawo nthawi zonse zimakupangitsani kuti muwatsatire pazochitika zilizonse ndikukhala ozindikira zomwe zilipo komanso zomwe mukudziwa.