Tsiku loyamba, chiyanjano, chilakolako, chikondi, mndandanda wa maubwenzi omwe amawonekera mu kamphindi, kapena amakhala nthawi yaitali. Mukuuluka pa mapiko a chikondi, spellbound ndi chithumwa chake, amapereka maluwa, amatsogolera ku zisudzo, cinema. Mukuyamba kukonzekera zam'tsogolo. Ukwati udzakhala nthawi yanji? Zidzakhala bwanji? Udzakhala ndi ana angati? Mudzakhala bwanji? Ndipo tsiku lina, inu mumayamba kukayika maganizo anu. Palibe choipa kuposa kukayikira, koma kaya chikondi kapena chikhumbo chabe. Mukuyamba kufunafuna mayankho a mafunso anu.
- Kupukula masiku anu onse ogwiritsidwa ntchito limodzi, mumadziwa kuti iye si msilikali wa buku lanu, iye sali wofunika kwambiri, samakhala monga choncho. Ndipo ziri choncho, simungathe kuganiza kuti mukukhala naye limodzi.
Ndipo funso lotsatira likudza: ngati chikondi chadutsa, chochita chiyani? Zili ngati dzulo chirichonse chinali chabwino, mutagwedezeka pa mapiko a chikondi, simungakhoze kudikira kuitana kwake, kuchokera ku maso ake mumakhala okondwa. Ndipo tsopano, nchiani chinachitika pambuyo pa zonse? Inde, mungathe kuyankha mafunso onse nokha, mvetserani mtima wanu ndipo mupeze zomwe mukufuna kudziwa. Musanayambe kuganizapo, ganizirani bwino, mwinamwake ndi mantha chabe. Mwinamwake mukuwopa kuti moyo wanu udzasintha, kuti mutaya ufulu wanu. Mukhoza kuphwanya zonse mwamsanga, koma n'zovuta kumanga ubale. Mwinamwake izi ndi zinazake, ganizirani kamphindi kuti mudzazisiya. Adzakumana ndi wina ndikumupatsa chikondi ndi chikondi, ndipo mungathe kukumana ndi mnzanu wakale. Ndipo chibwenzi chatsopano sichingakupatseni chisangalalo cha moyo chomwe poyamba munapereka. Kusintha kumawopsya nthawi zonse, nthawi zonse kuwopa kulakwitsa posankha.
Koma, ngati, zonsezi sizinthu zina, ndipo chikondi chidatha. Ngati chikondi chadutsa, chochita chiyani? Panthawi yotsatira kuti musabwereze zolakwa za ubale wapitawo. Tiyenera kulingalira kwathunthu kuyambira tsiku loyamba mpaka tsiku lotsiriza, zomwe zinachitika, chifukwa chake chikondi chadutsa. Mwinamwake mnyamata, akukusamalirani molakwika. Kapena simunagwirizane, kupatula pabedi. Ndipo mwinamwake ali pabedi, iye sanali wabwino monga izo zinkawonekera poyamba. Ubale wamphamvu umamangidwa pa kulemekezana ndi kukhulupirirana. Ngati mnyamata wanu anayamba kunama kuyambira pachiyambi, ngakhalenso bodza pang'ono, akupereka kale chizindikiro, kuti aganizire, komanso ngati mukuyenera kukhala ndi munthu wabodza. Kugonana kumakhala mbali imodzi yofunikira mu chiyanjano, ngati kuyambira pachiyambi muli ndi chilakolako, kenako kugonana kumatha kungakhale kovuta. Inde, nthawi zonse mungathe kupanga zinthu zatsopano mu ubale wanu wapamtima, koma mutatopa kusewera solos nthawi zonse. Chinthu chinanso mu chiyanjano, ndizochita zokondweretsa, ziribe kanthu, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti inu nonse mumakonda. Ngati muli ndi zina mwazifukwa zomwe simukuzidziwa, ndiye kuti muyenera kuganizira ngati kuli koyenera kupitiriza chiyanjanochi. Ndipo chinthu chofunikira kwambiri kuganizira pamene mukusankha chibwenzi chotsatira, kuti musabwereze zolakwa zomwe munayesapo.
Inu munaganiza kuti chikondi chidatha. Kodi mungauze bwanji munthu amene munamukonda kale? Chinthu chachikulu, mu nkhani iyi, kuti musakhumudwitse munthu, sanakuchitireni cholakwika chilichonse. Popanda kunyozedwa, popanda kukangana, ingoyitanirani kuyankhulana kwakukulu ndipo mokondwera kunena kuti pakati panu zonse zatha. Musayambe kukambirana ndi mfundo yakuti iye ndi wokongola, wokongola kwambiri, ndipo ndi bwino kukhalabe bwenzi. Zonsezi ndi banal ndipo sizidzamuthandiza. Musanayambe kukambirana, konzekerani maganizo, mutenge mawu abwino, mukudziwa bwino. Nthawi zonse ndi koyenera kufalitsa moyenera, popanda kunyozedwa ndi kukhumudwa, mu moyo chilichonse chimene chingachitike, mwinamwake mudzakhalanso pamodzi ndikusangalala ndi moyo.