Popanda kutero, mungathe bwanji kukhazikitsa maubwenzi ndi kutsimikiziranso za kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wanu wokondedwa pa mzake mtsogolomu?
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna amanyenga? Pambuyo pazochitika zonsezi pali zifukwa zenizeni, osati nthawi zonse, zomveka kwa amayi. Nazi zifukwa zisanu zomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri kuposa ena. Inu munamuwona iye pa winayo! Chabwino, nchifukwa chiyani iye wakuchitirani inu izi? Nthawi zina mukhoza kukhala chifukwa cha kuperekedwa kwa munthu wokondedwa kuchokera kwa wina. Ngati muli ndi mlandu, ndi bwino kuyesa kumukhululukira.
Pamene ndikhala chimphona ...
Kodi mungadziteteze bwanji? Kuwonetsa kampani ya amuna atsopano "ntchito"? Kwa anyamata ambiri, njira yabwino yothetsera mavutowa ndi chiwonongeko. Atsikana ambiri atagona, amakhala otsimikiza kwambiri.
Njira yotereyi ingathe kukhala ndi zizoloŵezi zoipa - chifukwa zonse zimathandiza kuthana ndi mavuto a maganizo: kusuta kumachepetsa mitsempha, mowa umapangitsa kuti munthu asamvetse bwino.
Kusintha mwamuna wokondedwa pamzake kapena kugonana kumbali kumathandiza munthu kuthetsa mavuto ake. Mwachitsanzo, mnyamata akhoza kuthyoledwa ndi kutsutsana: Pa mbali imodzi, amafuna kuti azikonda kwambiri iwe, koma amaopa kutaya ufulu wake. Kotero iye akuthamangira mobwerezabwereza.
Kusintha munthu wokondana wina ndi mzake ndikumvetsetsa, ndipo mwadzidzidzi amapita kuchipatala, kulolera kukakamizidwa ndi amayi ena azimayi. Chifukwa cha khalidwe lotero, munthu akhoza kubisa kusowa kwa makhalidwe abwino, kusakhazikika.
Ngati mukufuna kukhalabe pachibwenzi, zimatenga nthawi yaitali kuti tigwire ntchito pamodzi: tikuyenera kuzindikira mavuto ake, kupatsana mwamuna wokondana wina ndikupeza njira zothetsera mavuto. Muyenera kukhala ndi chipiriro ndikuwonetsa chidwi chanu kuti mumvetse zomwe mukudya.
Mfundo zoganizira
Kusintha munthu wokondedwa pamtundu wina kapena malo ochezera kumbuyo kwanu ndi njira yapamwamba. Kodi munamvapo kulira kwachisoni kwa mtima wa mnzanu wamwamuna? Sindinamvepo ngakhale. Chifukwa amuna samakonda kufuula. Amayesetsa kuti azidziyang'anira okha. Ndipo ngakhale kusintha. Malingaliro ndi osavuta: bwenzi lanu limakhulupirira kuti mukamuwona ndi mtsikana wina, mudzanong'oneza bondo kuti sanamuyang'anire pang'ono ndipo sanayamikire kukwatirana naye. Ndipo, mwinamwake, ngakhale inu muthamangira kupambana ndi chilakolako chatsopano.
Nthawi zina kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wokondeka wina ndi mtundu wa SOS chizindikiro. Mnyamatayo, motero, akuwonekeratu kuti ndi nthawi yosintha chinachake mu chiyanjano. Mwachitsanzo, muwatsitsimutseni, kubwezeretsa chilakolako chawo choyamba, kusiyanitsa kugonana.
Mukufunsani kuti: "Chifukwa chiyani, sizingatheke kuti munthu anene?" Inde, ambiri amamakonda kulankhula zakukhosi ndi zochita zoterezi. Komabe, mwamunayo nthawi zonse samatha kuzindikira zomwe sizili bwino ndi ubale wanu ... Muuzeni mnzanu momwe zosasangalatsa ndizo kuti anasankha njira imeneyi. Ndi kuyesera kupeza chimene iye anali kuchiyang'ana mmanja mwa msungwana wina? Zosangalatsa zatsopano? Ndi zinthu ziti? Palimodzi mudzakhala odzaza moyo wanu ndi zithunzi zomveka bwino.
"Kubwezera koopsa"
Amuna ena amatsutsa komanso amanyadira. Kuwonjezera apo, ndi chizoloŵezi cha abambo kuti abwererenso kwa wolakwira.
Kodi mtsikana angakhoze kuchita chiyani kuti atenge mzimu wobwezera mu satellite? Amatha kumunyenga iye poyamba kapena kumupatsa chifukwa choti aganizire kuti waperekedwa. Ndiye mwamunayo amayesa kubwereza. Mfundo ya "diso kwa diso, nyanga za nyanga" imatsimikizira khalidwe lake.
Pali zosankha. Ngati munapatsa wokondedwa wanu chifukwa, muyankhuleni moona mtima, fotokozani chifukwa chake mukuchita. Mwinamwake, mudzatha kukhazikitsa ubale. Pambuyo pake, kugulitsidwa kwake sikuli kuyesa kupeza chikondi chatsopano, koma ndi sitepe yowopsya ya munthu wonyozedwa.
Ngati cholakwa chanu sichiri, ndipo iye mwini ali ndi kanthu kena, muyenera kufotokozera mkhalidwewo. Mnyamata wansanje kwambiri, amenenso amakupusitsani, ndipo samakusiyani nokha ndi zifukwa zake.
Ngozi yowopsya chabe!
Ndinapita ulendo wamalonda ndipo ndinagona ndi munthu wina woyendayenda m'chipinda. Ndinayamba kukondana pa tchuthi. Mmawa wotsatira pambuyo pa phwando lachipanikiti litadzuka moyandikana ndi mnzake wang'ono ... Zonsezi ndi "zowonongeka" zonyansa, zachangu komanso zopanda ntchito. Popanda ntchito kwa yemwe adasintha, koma osati kwa yemwe adasintha. Pazimene zimachitika mwangozi, palibe vuto la munthu. Kapena pakuperekedwa kwa munthu wokondedwa wina ndi mnzake, ndiye kuti mukulakwa?
Nthawi zina mwamuna amatsutsa chirichonse chifukwa cha "chinsinsi" chake, anzake, cocktails. Kotero, iye sali wokonzeka kuyankha chifukwa cha zosankha zake. Mwinamwake, sangathe kutenga udindo m'tsogolomu. Kuwonjezera apo, khalidwe ili la mnyamata limatanthauza kuti sakuganizira za zochita zake ndi zotsatira zake. Ngati mnyamata amadziwa zolakwika ndikulapa, amangokhala kuti amukhululukire. Ndiloleni ndizindikire momwe mumakhumudwitsidwa ndi khalidwe lake, koma popanda chiyeso chosafunikira. Pezani kulimbika mtima kuti muvomereze kuchita kwake monga fait accompli zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi umunthu wanu, chifukwa amalumbira kuti ndinu yekhayo amene amamukonda.
Culmination, denouement ...
Sikophweka nthawi zonse kuuza msungwana kuti mukufuna kugawanitsa. Chifukwa cha chifundo kapena chizoloŵezi mwamuna akupitiriza kukumana naye, kukhala ndi malingaliro pamzake, motero amachititsa chiwembu.
Musiyeni apite. Ndi zofunika ndi mtendere ndi mbali zonse zinayi. Zoonadi, izi ndi zovuta, makamaka ngati mupitiriza kumukonda. Iwe ndi wokonzeka ngakhale kumukhululukira iye kamodzi, ndiyeno nthawi zambiri, nthawi zina zambiri ... Ndipo iye adzayesa mobwerezabwereza kuti awononge mpumulo. Ululu umapweteka ndi kumvetsa kuti samangokusiyani, koma masamba ena.
Onetsetsani: sikuti iye ali ndi miyendo yambiri kapena zachilengedwe zambiri. Iye anangosintha yekha ndikumakumana ndi munthu yemwe akufuna kukhala naye panthawi imeneyi ya moyo wake.
Musatenge ulendo wake ku akaunti yanu. Kwa inu, ino ndi nthawi yosinthira yokha - kuyambiranso maubwenzi anu ndi amuna, zokonda zanu ndi kukhala okhwima pang'ono. Pambuyo pa zonse, kuthekera kwa kusiya wokondedwa ndi chizindikiro cha kukhwima kwenikweni.