Nchifukwa chiyani chikondi chimatchedwa chikondi?

Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza chikondi chimatchedwa chikondi?

Chikondi ndi mkhalidwe wapadera wa malingaliro, chizunguliro cha mtima, chilakolako chokondweretsa ndi kusangalala nokha. Chikondi chimasandutsa moyo wathu kukhala tchuthi ndipo chimapangitsa kuti chikhale chowala kwambiri komanso chimakhuta kwambiri. Chikondi ndi chikondi ndizozigawo ziwiri zosiyana ndi wina ndi mzake, nthawi zambiri chikondi chimatchedwa chikondi. Chikondi popanda chikondi sikumveka bwino, zokondweretsa komanso zosangalatsa. Chikondi ndi chikondi zimapereka chisangalalo kuchokera kwa kukhalapo mu moyo wanu wa wokondedwa.

Chikondi mu chiyanjano chimakulolani kusokoneza chiyanjano, chomwe chimakondwera kwambiri ndi mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku, kubweretsa zolembera zopepuka ndi zosaƔerengeka pazoyera.

Kukhala njira zachikondi kuyesera kukondweretsa theka lina ndikuwonetsa chikondi chanu. Ndipotu, mukamakonda, mumalota kuona wokondedwa wanu akusangalala.

Pamene chikondi chimatha mu zibwenzi, mavuto ambiri amayamba. Mwachitsanzo, kukangana, kusakhutira, kupandukira, kusagwirizana. Kupanda chidwi kuchokera kwa mnzanuyo, simukugwirizana ndi chiyanjano ndi chikhumbo chosintha chinachake, kapena kuswa mgwirizano wanu.

Ndiponsotu, palibe chophweka kusiyana ndi kupatsa munthu wokondedwa nthawi zosangalatsa, kumusamalira. Nchiyani chomwe mukufuna, mwachitsanzo, pamapeto a sabata kuti mupereke kadzutsa kakang'ono - kadzutsa pabedi kapena kutenga madzi odzola pamodzi? Mundikhulupirire ine, khama pang'ono, ndipo mudzabweretsa chisangalalo kwa onse awiriwo.

Lero, maubwenzi ochokera pachikondi komanso opanda chikondi amamangidwa pazinthu zakuthupi. Inde, kwa aliyense ndi kwa aliyense ndikofunika kuti azikhala otetezeka mwachuma ndikuonetsetsa kuti banja silidzakhala ndi njala. Perekani banja lachilengedwe ndipo perekani zonse zomwe mungathe - kuwonetseredwa kwakukulu kwa chikondi masiku ano. Komanso, chikondi kwa ambiri ndi kugonana kokongola, kumvetsetsa komanso kulemekeza. Nthawi zina - chikondi ndi chizoloƔezi.

Zonsezi zapamwambazi, mukhoza ndipo zimayenera kukhala ndi chiyanjano cha chikondi. Koma, muyenera kuvomereza kuti, nthawi zonse mwamuna amakhala wotanganidwa kuntchito, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo muli ndi zonse zomwe mungafune - ndizodabwitsa! Choncho, posamalira inu, amakukondani komanso amakusamalirani. Inu, mobwerezabwereza, musonyeze chikondi kwa mnzanu mwa kusamalira mawonekedwe ake, maganizo ake - mwa mawu, mukukumanga chisa cha chikondi ndi mphamvu zanu zonse. Zonse zikukwanira iwe.

Koma, patapita nthawi, chinachake chikuchitika mu ubale wanu. Pali zosakhutira chifukwa chosowa chidwi. Kuchokera mu ubale wanu, chikondi, chikondi ndi chimwemwe chokhalira limodzi pamodzi zinachoka. Mfundo zakuthupi zafika patsogolo. Chilichonse chimakhudza momwe angapewere mafuta ndikukwaniritsa zovuta.

Koma, lero, tayiwala kuti chiwonetsero chowona cha chikondi chiri. Choncho, nthawi zambiri mukhoza kumva kuti chikondi chimatchedwa chikondi.

Chikondi ndi chiwonetsero cha chikondi chomwe chimamasulidwa kuzinthu zakuthupi. Malo oyambirira akukhala ndi ubwenzi wapamtima wa uzimu, ubale wapamwamba pakati pa anthu achikondi.

Palibe yemwe akukuitanani kuti muiwale za ntchito zanu kumudzi, banja komanso wokondedwa. Pamene maubwenzi amangokhazikika pa chikondi, ndiye kuti, ngati sizing'onozing'ono, pamapeto pake maganizo amachokera chifukwa cha kusakhazikika kwa ndalama.

Kulingalira pang'ono, chilakolako chofuna kukondweretsa kwambiri - ndipo mumapeza madzulo osakumbukika omwe amangowonjezera ubale wanu.

Chikondi ndi chikondi zimathandizira kuyanjana kwa mitima iwiri yachikondi, kuthekera kuiwala za zenizeni ndikudzidzidzimutsa m'dziko lanu - nokha!

Kumbukirani kwa kanthawi kuti mumakhala m'dziko lapansi kumene zinthu zogula ndi kugulitsidwa. Chikondi Chenicheni sichikhoza kugula ndalama iliyonse!