Kusunga Ubale

Monga lamulo, maanja okondwa kwambiri amatha kuwonedwa m'mafilimu. Kumeneko amasamalirana wina ndi mzake, amathetsa mavuto pamodzi, ndipo ngakhale atagwirizana, amapeza mosavuta. Nanga bwanji za moyo weniweni? Kodi kulibe mabanja okondwa kwenikweni?

Samalirani wina ndi mnzake . Timakonda kuganizira makhalidwe a chikondi chachikulu manja - mphatso zamtengo wapatali, bouquets wa maluwa ndi zinthu. Koma kukhalabe ndi chikondi ndikofunika kwambiri kuposa zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwachitsanzo, mwamunayo atawona mafilimu akumukongoletsa mkazi wake watsopano. Kapena mkaziyo, podziwa kuti mwamuna wake amamwa mowa wabwino kwambiri, adzawonongeka kugula botolo lofanana. Komabe, njira yomwe mawu akuti "Mmawa wabwino!" Akuyankhulidwa, amatha kufotokozera mphamvu ya malingaliro.

Zoona, m'zaka zomwe chizoloŵezichi chimasokoneza chigwirizanocho, ndipo m'pofunika kutsanulira mtsinje watsopano mu chiyanjano. Katswiri wina wa zamaganizo anayesera: Anapatsa mwamuna ndi mkazi amene anakhala zaka khumi pamodzi, ntchito - patsiku lomwe iwo ankachita chinthu chosangalatsa kwa wina ndi mzake ndipo pobwezera adzalandira kuponi kuchokera kwa wokondedwayo. Cholinga chinali kusonkhanitsa chiwerengero chofanana cha makoni onse awiri. Masewerawa adatengedwera kwambiri moti aŵiriwo anaiwala za kuyesa ndikupitirizabe popanda chifukwa chodziwika. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, adalimbikitsa ubale wawo wina ndi mnzake.

Kuti mupeze kusamvana . Mumabanja okondwa, kulekerera sikukutanthauza kuti mmodzi wa abwenzi amapereka nsembe. Mwachitsanzo, funso la momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mapeto a sabata, ndi bwino kukambirana pa Lachinayi, kusiya onse mwayi wokwaniritsa chikhumbo chawo ndikukumana nawo. Ngati wina akufuna kutuluka mumzinda ndi wina kupita ku masewero a mpira, ndiye kuti mukhoza kupita ku cinema, ndipo tsiku lotsatira mukhoza kupita kulikonse kumene wina kapena mkazi wake akukoka. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti akambirane vutoli palimodzi, ndipo musayikane wina ndi mzake pasanafike Loweruka mmawa.

Mvetserani wina ndi mzake . M'mabanja momwe zinthu zilili zosiyana, mkaziyo, akumva phokoso la chitseko chikutsegulidwa, amayamba kudandaula kwa mwamuna wake za mavuto omwe ali pamapewa ake: kutsuka, kuyeretsa, kulera ana ndi zina zotero. Ndipo ngati mwamunayo akuyankha ndi zifukwa zake? Zotsatira zake ndi zodziwika.

Mu mabanja okondwa mkazi, ali ndi mavuto omwewo, phokoso la chitseko chikutsegulidwa, amatenga mpweya wakuya ndikukumana naye ndi kumwetulira, ndipo amalingalira malingaliro ake onse. Panthawi yomweyi, pali kusinthana kwa mauthenga: "Ndiwe bwanji, wokondedwa?" - "Ndiwe bwanji, wokondedwa?" Ndipo pokhapokha - mfundo zomwe simukufunanso kuziwonetsera mu mawonekedwe odandaula ndi ovuta.

Fufuzani njira zatsopano zothetsera mavuto akale . Kawirikawiri, ngakhale m'banja lolemera pali "chopunthwitsa", zomwe "okwatirana" amapunthwa "kwa nthawi yayitali, ndiye kuzungulira, ndikuthetsa mavuto pang'ono kapena osatayika.

Ndipo pali njira ina yomwe ingathandizire kudula mfundoyi kamodzi. Kupeza njira yachitatu yomwe imayendera zonsezo ndi zovuta, koma n'zotheka. M'banja limodzi, vuto lalikulu linali kuyendera nyumba ya makolo awo, omwe nthawi zonse ankatha "pamwamba." Chigamulocho chinapweteka, koma chinkayenera aliyense: misonkhano inasunthira kumalo osalowerera ndale, kumene makolo sangapeze chifukwa chopeza cholakwika ndi kuyamba kuwerenga makhalidwe abwino kwa achinyamata. Chikhalitso ndi mtendere zinabwera kunyumba chifukwa cha lingaliro latsopano.

Dziwani malire a ololedwa . Palibe anthu ofanana padziko lapansi, ngakhale pakati pa anthu okondana. Aliyense ali ndi "Chip" yake, ndipo kumvetsetsa kumabwera pamene wina aliyense akudziwa izi. Mkazi amakonda kuvina, ndipo mwamuna wake - akuyenda. Iye amaopa kutalika ndi kuchoka pamsonkhano wapamwamba samamukopa iye, koma mkaziyo watenga kulimba mtima ndi kumwetulira, mofanana ndi grimace of mantha, anapita pansi kangapo. Anayamikira ntchito yake, ndipo madzulo aŵiriwo anapita ku chibonga, komwe adakvina ndi mtima wake wonse, ndipo adayambanso kudzimva. Koma tsiku lotsatira palibe amene adafunsana nsembe. Iye anapita ku ski track, ankasangalala madzulo, ndipo palibe yemwe anali kuyang'anira. Anthu okwatirana amadziwa kuti aliyense ali ndi ufulu wochita zinazake, ndipo izi sizimakhudza ubale wawo nkomwe.

Musaiwale kuseka . Kuseka ndi njira yosavuta komanso yothandiza kwambiri yopuma. Ngati mupeza gwero lanu la nthabwala, lodziwika ndi awiri okha, ndiye kuti vuto silidzakhalanso vuto. Iwo omwe satha kupeza chifukwa chochitira nthabwala, amakalamba nthawi yambiri komanso osachepera mosavuta. Zimakhala zosavuta ndi omwe amawasangalatsa, amasangalala ndipo amatha kuseka okha. Mabanja okondwa akhoza nthawizonse, kuwerengera, kuwerenga pamodzi ndime yochokera m'buku, chifukwa m'kupita kwanthawi ali ndi njira yofanana ndi chirichonse, kuphatikizapo kuseketsa. Kotero iwo amakhala pafupi kwa wina ndi mzake. Eya, apotheosis - omwe ali ndi zibwenzi angathe kuseka pabedi, zomwe mosakayikira zimalimbitsa maganizo.

Kudziwa maganizo a wina ndi mzake . Mumabanja okondwa, mawuwo sagwirizana: "Mukuganiza kuti ndikuganiza ..." Musati mutenge vuto lolingalira mnzanuyo. Bungwe loyamikira limeneli, makamaka kuti mungathe ndi kulakwitsa. Ndi bwino kuyambitsa kukambirana ndi funso lakuti "Kodi mukuganiza ..." ndikutamandani ngati mukuganiza kuti zinagwirizana. Zidzasangalatsa mnzanuyo, ndipo mutha kukhala ndi mwayi watsopano kuti muwuzane mau achikondi amene mumafuna kumamvetsera kwa munthu aliyense.