Mwatsoka, akalonga pa akavalo oyera nthawi yayitali ankakwera kwinakwake. Kotero, ife, akazi amakono, tiyenera kukonda amuna awo, pamodzi ndi zofooka zawo zonse. Koma choyenera kuchita ngati, mwachitsanzo, pompu mu bafa yakhala ikuyenda kwa mwezi umodzi tsopano, koma kodi wokondedwa wanu sazindikira? Choyamba, kumbukirani kuti njoka ndi amai ali ndi chinthu chimodzi chofanana - nzeru. Pokhala wogwirizana ndi nzeru chithumwa, mkaziyo amatha kupotoka kuchokera kwa amuna zingwe.
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Mphamvu zathu ziri mufooka lathu
Kotero, tiyeni tiyambe ndi matepi. Mmalo mwa usana ndi usiku kuti akumbutse mwamuna wake kuti akung'amba (tapampu, ndiyo), mukhoza kusewera mutu ndi mawu mu mawu ofooka auzeni mwamuna wanu za maloto kuti mwakhala mukuzunzidwa ndi madzi akukuta pa ulusi.
Komabe, chidziwitso chonyenga choterechi sichidzabwera. Mkazi wanzeru adzakumana ndi wokondedwa wake fanizo lokhudza mtima la msungwana wosokonezeka ndi wrench m'dzanja lake, nkhope yake yodzaza ndi chiyembekezo: "Ndinkafuna kukonza, koma sizinandigwire ine ..." Choyamba ndikofunikira kufalitsa malo osambira opanda ntchito chida cha zipangizo, kuphatikizapo macheka ndi chitsulo chosungunula. Pamene ali wotanganidwa ndi pompeni, nkofunika kutsatira zomwe akuchita ndi chidwi chodziwika ndi kufunsa mafunso monga: "Kotero izi zimangokhala zopanda pake, inde?" Madzulo onsewa amatha pansi pa chizindikiro cha mphamvu yake.
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Magic Words
Njirayi ndi yofanana ndi imene amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi akatswiri a maganizo omwe, mothandizidwa ndi mawu osamvetsetseka a mawu, amatha kumiza odwala omwe sagonjera kupita kuntchito. Kuti musamvetsetse bwino zomwe mumaziwona pazochitikazo, mafunso amtunduwu ndi abwino kwambiri:
"Wokondedwa, koma ketulo yayamba kale yophika?" Kapena mau osokonezeka: "Kodi mwazindikira momwe mlembi wanu amavala choyipa?" Mawu akuti "OR" kawirikawiri sangasamalike. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe kufunsa kuti: "Ndi liti pamene tidzapita ku bazaza Loweruka kapena Lamlungu?" Monga lamulo, funso lakuti "Kodi ndiyenera kupita konse?" Sichikutchulidwanso.
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Pankhani yopindulitsa
Ndani adanena kuti mkazi yekha amakonda makutu? Ndipotu, amuna sakukhudzidwa ndi kuyamikira. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusankha ulemu umene uli wovuta kuwunika moyenera. Mwachitsanzo, ngati munthu akunena kuti ali ndi mawu omveka bwino, zimakhala zovuta kufufuza, koma maganizo ake amakula, ndipo izi ndi maziko abwino oyankhula za kugula chotsuka chotsuka. Chinthu chachikulu apa sikuti chikhale choposa. Mwachitsanzo, musamamuwuze mwamuna yemwe ali ndi tsitsi loyambirira.
Njira yotsimikiziridwa yotamanda munthu pamaso pa maphwando atatu: "Mukudziwa, amalingalira kwambiri, akhoza maluwa popanda chifukwa chilichonse" kapena "Amakhala bwino ndi ana, sindingathe kuchita." Lamlungu, pamene adzawatsogolera ana ku zoo, mungathe kugona pabedi ndi buku lofufuza.
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Timatenga mantha
Chidziwitso cha amuna chifukwa cha mayamiko ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo zazikulu za zokambirana zathu. Nthawi zonse zimalankhula za chinthu china, chifukwa nthawi zambiri zimakhala ngati zolemba. Kuti muyambe kuganizira za iye mwini, mukulakalaka kuvala mask. "Kodi mumatulutsa ziso?" Iye anayankha. Pali lingaliro lalikulu. Pogwiritsa tsitsi tsitsi lake lalitali, limene sadalikonda kwambiri, wina ayenera kukayikira: "Kodi wadula, kapena chiyani?" Palibe mphamvu yowuma tsitsi ili. Ndipo mwinamwake mungathe kudzikonza nokha? "Mungathe kuganiziranso ntchito ya pulasitiki kuti muchepetse mapulogalamu othandizira kuti azichepetse:" Akuti tsopano maso a bulauni ali m'mafashoni ... "
Makhalidwe muzochitika zonse, ndithudi, sangathe kufotokozedwa. Koma lamulo lalikulu la nthawi yolankhulirana ndi theka lanu lapatali, mwinamwake mwamvetsa kale. Chinthu chachikulu ndi msampha woikidwa mwanzeru.
Tsogolo laukwati limasankhidwa pachiyambi
Tsogolo laukwati linganenedweratu molondola mu zaka zoyambirira za kukhalapo kwake. Izi zatsimikiziridwa ndi ofufuza a ku America, pofufuza, mkati mwa zaka 20, maanja okwana 156.
Zina mwaziyembekezo kuti banja labwino ndi losatha likhoza kupezeka pakati pa omwe adatha kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino kwa wokondedwa wawo pazaka ziwiri zoyambirira za moyo. Awo omwe adatha zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zaukwati ndi okondwa kwambiri pa chiyambi cha moyo watsopano. Koma maloto okoma sanali aatali: kuchoka ndi ziwonetsero zomwe zimatenga chaka chokha chokhalira pamodzi. Izi "zogwirizana" zikuwonetsa mwayi waukulu wosudzulana patapita zaka zingapo zaukwati.