Ndipo ndithudi, monga ndi chida, phunzirani njira zotetezera! Tiyeni tiyambe, tikudziwa kuti chinyengo cha amai ndi mphamvu ya mkazi.
Chibwana chachikazi - mphamvu ya mkazi - tidzatha kuganiza mozama ngati wochenjera №1. Azimayi amamva mwachidwi, amatha kulira, akuyang'anitsitsa masewero osangalatsa a filimuyi. Akazi akhoza kukhumudwa chifukwa cha zochepa chabe - kuyang'ana mmalo mwawo kutsogolo kapena ndemanga yopanda tsankho kuchokera kwa bwana yemwe wasamuka kuti asayime ndi mapazi ake. Amatha kufotokozera molimba mtima za zotsatira za moyo wa Rosita yemwe salipo komanso mavuto a sukulu. Chifukwa cha zinthu zing'onozing'ono angathe kukhumudwa ndipo akhoza kuiwala msanga izi. Izi zimachokera kukumverera komwe kukung'ung'udza mwa iwo, kuthawa pamwamba.
Amuna sapatsidwa izi . Osati chifukwa iwo ali otsika. Mwachidule, choyamba, kumbali ya kumanzere, yomwe imayambitsa kusanthula, ikukula bwino kwa amuna, komanso kwa amayi, ndi "udindo" wokhudzidwa. Chachiwiri, anyamatawo pazifukwa zina amakulira pansi pa mawu omwe anthu samalira konse. Tsopano, akakhala akulu, samalira. Ndipo pa nthawi yomweyi musazengereze kusonyeza malingaliro ena onse. Atsikana awa amaloledwa!
Kodi zotsatira za chiwembu ichi ndi chiyani? Choyamba, mwachindunji, kuchenjera kwa akazi ndi mphamvu ya mkazi, kuthekera kwokhudzidwa kumakhudzidwa ndi zonse zomwe zimachitika, monga madokotala akunenera, amatiteteza ife ku mantha ndi kusokonezeka kwa mantha mu ntchito ya mtima. Chachiwiri, sikuti timangokhulupirira zomwe zikuchitika, timangokamba zovuta kuchokera kwa ena. Chachitatu, kuthetsa malingaliro awo m'maganizo, omwe amuna amakakamizidwa kuti aphunzire mwachindunji, kwa amayi amapatsidwa mwachibadwa.
Dzikumbutseni nokha , chokongola kwambiri: nkhani youma yodzaza ndi mfundo zochititsa chidwi, kapena nkhani yokhudzidwa ndi moyo? maganizo achiwiri njira yomwe anthu amachitira zabwino. Kotero, inu mudzamvedwa, kumbukirani, mawu anu adzakhudza ena, mudzalandira "bonasi" onse kuntchito ndi kulankhulana! Ndipo ndithudi, wamphamvu kwambiri maganizo chida ndi misonzi. Sikuti amamasula thupi la mahomoni a mkwiyo ndi kupsa mtima, komanso amathandizira kuthetsa mavuto ambiri: Ambiri mwa amunawa amaletsa kuyang'ana kwa misonzi ya amayi. Koma kumbukirani: izi ndizo mphamvu, mphamvu ya mkazi, zofanana ndi zogwiritsira ntchito zida zowonongeka kwakukulu. Choncho musazengereze kulira nthawi zina ngati mukufuna, koma musapangitse misonzi kukhala njira yonyenga - muzinthu zambiri akhoza kuwononga ngakhale chikondi champhamvu ndi chikondi cha munthu wanu.
Chitetezo pa chinyengo cha akazi. Maganizo ndi abwino. Koma ayesetseni kutsimikiza kuti samatulutsa mau a malingaliro. Pa nthawi yovuta, musanayambe kunena kapena kuchita chilichonse chokhumudwitsa, muwerengere mpaka khumi mwa njira yovomerezeka! Phunzirani mmene mungatsitsire nkhawa anthu ena, koma mlengalenga: dinani pamphuno ya ophika ophika, pewani peyala, chotsani mzere, mutenge bwalo kapena awiri mu sewero la sukulu, kapena kungofuula mokweza (mfundo yomaliza ndi yabwino kuti ichitike kwa anthu, kuti musawopsyeze oyandikana nawo ndi osowa odutsa).
Kunyenga kwachikazi - mphamvu ya amai - kugonana kumaperekedwa ngati chinyengo # 2. Poyamba, mkazi amafunikira mwamuna. Osati kokha chifukwa cha zosangalatsa, koma choyamba - chifukwa cha kupitirira kwa banja: lingathe kudyetsa ndi kuteteza mkaziyo ndi ana ake. Ndipo ngati munthu agonjetsa mtima wa mkazi anali wokwanira kuti akoke nyama ya chinyama cham'mbuyo mumphanga, mkazi, pofuna kukopa mwamuna wolimba, amayenera kugogomeza zida zake zonse. Kukwanitsa kuyang'ana, kuyamikiridwa ndi zaka mazana, kumathandizirabe ana aakazi a Eva kuthana ndi mavuto ambiri. Ndipo ngati oimira chigawo cholimba cha anthu amayesera kugwiritsira ntchito chiwerewere, iwo adzatchedwa "kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" kapena kutchedwa mawu ena, oyipira. Akazi akhoza kusangalala ndi mwayi umenewu monga momwe amachitira.
Kodi zotsatira za chiwembu ichi ndi chiyani? Maseŵero akuyang'ana, deep decollete, pansi chifuwa mawu - ndipo tsopano miyendo yanu yaying'ono sizongokhala mafani, komanso ogwira ntchito - mungakane bwanji lady wokongola chotero! Poganizira za ukazi wanu , mukunena kuti: "Ndine mkazi, ndikuyenera kudzisamalira ndekha, ndikuyenera kudzichepetsa, ndikuyenera kukonda ndikuchita!" Ngakhale ngati sakudziwa, koma amuna amatha kuchita izi - ndikukhala ngati inu "mwalamula mwakachetechete". Wina adzakwaniritsa zokhumba zanu zonse, kuyembekezera "kupitiriza phwando." Ndipo wina wochokera ku bizinezi amatha kumasuka, akukupeza kuti ndiwe chidole chokongola, ndipo akusowa zosafunikira, ndipo pakalipano muthamanga zowonjezera zowonjezereka ndikugwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru. Kupewa kwachinyengo akazi. Ngati kuti "akulembera" akufanizira zogonana ayenera kuwonetsedwa mokwanira, ndiye kuntchito, nkofunika "kulimbitsa chingwe". Kawirikawiri, chifaniziro sichitha "bomba la kugonana", koma cha amayi "awiri mwa amodzi": okongola ndi anzeru pa nthawi yomweyo. Kuwonjezera apo, sizikhala zosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito fano la kugonana popanda munthu kuyandikira kwa iye, akhoza kukwiya, ndikuganiza kuti mumangomutsogolera ndi mphuno. Choncho - zonse mosamala!
Kunyenga kwachikazi - mphamvu ya mkazi - chidziwitso - chidzakhala pansi pa nambala 3. Kodi munayamba mwaganizapo chifukwa chake mawu oti "chidziwitso chachikazi" atembenuka kukhala ngati chidziwitso, koma ponena za chidziwitso cha amuna omwe ofufuza amatsalira? Chifukwa chidziwitso chimawoneka bwino mwa amayi. Ndipo pali tsatanetsatane wa izo. Takhala tanena kale za malo omwe ali bwino kwambiri - ali ndi udindo womvetsera thupi lanu, komanso kuti mukhale ndi chidziwitso. Chachiwiri, akatswiri a zaumulungu amakhulupirira kuti mkazi wofooka, pofuna kudziteteza yekha ndi mwana wake kuti adziteteze yekha, amafunika kulimbikitsa mphamvu zonse kuti awone, kumva, kumva kuopsa kwa nthawi ndikukhala ndi nthawi yobisala kapena kuthawa. Choncho adayamba kuyendayenda usiku wachisanu, pamene mwamuna wake ankathamanga ndi nthungo m'nkhalango ndi m'minda. Ndipo posachedwapa asayansi atulukira ngakhale "chitsimikizo" cha intuition. Kuwonjezeka kwa maselo m'matumbo athu a m'mimba, mofananamo mofananamo mu kapangidwe ka maselo a ubongo a ubongo, amatchedwa ubongo wa visceral. Mofanana ndi ubongo, ubongo uwu umatha kukonza zochitika zomwe zimabwera komanso zimapangitsa kuti thupi likhale loyenera (osati popanda chifukwa, ndiye kuti tili ndi mawu akuti "chiwindi", osati popanda chifukwa "zambiri" zomwe zimachokera m'mimba!). Ubongo wa visceral ulipo mwa amuna ndi akazi, chifukwa cha zinthu zomwe tafotokozazi, amayi okongola amatha kumva "mawu a visceraltonics." Ndipo kutenga ziganizo zomveka bwino, ngakhalenso muzochitika za ntchitoyi palibe mbali imodzi yokwanira kapena zigawo ziwiri "zomveka".
Kodi zotsatira za chiwembu ichi ndi chiyani? Tsopano inu mukudziwa kale kuti kumverera kosavuta "munthu ayenera kuchita mwamsanga izi!" Kodi sizithupi za thupi lanu, koma zolinga zomveka. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndizophwanya malamulo! Tsoka, ambiri a ife timanyoza "chidziwitso chachikazi" chomwe chinapanga "osamva" ku mawu a mphamvu yachisanu ndi chimodzi. Chabwino, tiyeni tikulitse chidziwitso!
Lembani chimodzi: phunzirani kumva thupi lanu. Wopanda zakollo - musagwedezeke ndipo musayese mwamsanga kuti mulowetse malingaliro osavuta ndi mlingo wa kavalo wamagetsi, bwino kufunsa thupi lanu: "Chavuta ndi chiyani? Mukusowa chiyani? Kodi ndingatani kuti ndikulimbikitseni? "Njala yanyonga - musathamangire kukakumana ndi zomwe zili pafupi, dzifunseni funso ili:" Kodi mukufuna kudya chiyani tsopano? "Dikirani pang'ono - ndipo thupi lidzakupatsani chidziwitso choyenera. , muyenera kungotsatira mawu ake.
Lembani awiri: yesetsani kumvetsera nthawi zambiri kuti zizindikiro kuchokera mkati mwanu. Kodi foni ikulira? Musati mutenge foni, yesani kuganiza yemwe akuyitana. Kodi bwana akuitana? Khalani mwakachetechete kwa theka la miniti, dzifunseni nokha funso: kodi mungayankhule ndi chiyani ndipo bwana tsopano ali ndi maganizo otani? Mudzadabwa kuti mwamsanga mudzamva bwanji dzina la munthu amene mukumuuza, komanso zomwe akufuna kuti akuuzeni. Posakhalitsa mudzatha kupeza uthenga wamtendere kuchokera kwa ena, kulowa mkati mwa zolinga zawo zobisika ndikudziwe momwe muyenera kuchita panopa. Chitetezo pa chinyengo cha akazi. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mudziwe momwe mungasiyanitse chidziwitso chochokera ku obsessions: chachiwiri, ngati muwamvetsera, angakulowetseni m'nkhalango yomwe anthu oyandikana nawo akungoyamba: "Pano pali lingaliro lachikazi!"
Pali kusiyana kwakukulu . Choyamba, kuchititsa chidwi kumakhala ngati kuzindikira ndi kusabwereza, malingaliro obisala amatembenukira kumutu kwa nthawi yaitali, amaphika ndi kutupa, ngati ngale yamatabwa mu chipewa cha msirikali. Maganizo otsogolera akubweretsa chisangalalo - "Monga sindinaganizirepo kale!" - ndipo musasiyire kukayikira. Malingaliro owonetsa mosiyana, akuponya iwe kuphompho kwa chisokonezo; "Kodi izo zingatheke, kapena mwinamwake ayi?" Phunzirani kunyalanyaza malingaliro olakwika ndi kumvera chidziwitso chanu - ndipo chirichonse chikhala bwino!