Chochita pamene ubale uli pamapeto

Nthawi zambiri mu ubale wa mwamuna ndi mkazi pali mavuto, ena amavutika mosavuta, pamene ena amafunika khama lalikulu pa gawo la mnzanuyo. Ndipo zochitika zoterezi ndizo nthawi zambiri.

Ndipereka chitsanzo. Mtsikana wina anakumana ndi chibwenzi chake kwa zaka ziwiri, koma amakhala m'midzi yosiyanasiyana. Iwo ankalemba pafupi tsiku lililonse, koma amasonkhana kamodzi pa sabata. Chaka chotsatira pamisonkhanoyi, iwo anayamba kuchita zachiwerewere. Iye anali ndi atsikana kale pamaso pake, koma iye samatero. Panthawi ya chidziwitso chawo nthawi zambiri ankakhala ndi mikangano ndi chiyanjano, iye adafuula nthawi zingapo ndi iye. Posakhalitsa anasiya kumuchezera chifukwa cha ntchito yake, monga adanena. Ndipo iye ankakhulupirira kuti iye ankamukonda iye kwenikweni. Atangodziwa kuti amayi ake samamukonda, ndipo ali ndi mnzake wa peni. Iye sanayankhe mafunsowo, ndipo iye akufuna kugawanitsa. Koma nthawi yomweyo anabwera ndi kupereka maluwa okongola a maluwa. Iye anakhululukira. Ndipo izo zonse zinayambanso ...

Ndiyeno ena amasankha kupita kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo. Katswiri wabwino sangakupatseni yankho la funsoli nthawi zonse, koma ayesa kukutsogolerani ku chisankho choyenera, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, akuthandizani kumvetsetsa zomwe mukukumana nazo. Nthawi zina sitidziwa funso lomwe tingafunse kuti tipeze yankho lolondola. Kuti muchite izi, mukufunikira katswiri wa zamaganizo amene angachite. Adzakuuzani zoyenera kuchita pamene ubale uli pamapeto.

Kodi katswiri wa zamaganizo angayankhe chiyani? Kodi angathandizedi? Anthu ambiri ali otopa kwambiri ndi mavuto omwe amaganiza kuti ndi olakwika okha, koma nthawi zambiri amakhulupirira zabwino. Koma nthawi zonse pali njira yopitilira, ndizo zabwino komanso zosangalatsa kwambiri!

Izi ndizovuta komanso zosokoneza, sizili zovuta kuthetsa. Zimandivuta kunena chinachake pamene simunamve, kuyesera kupeza zomwe zikuchitika, ndipo ndi zovuta kuti mugawane ndi wokondedwa wanu, ngakhale kuti chibwenzi chanu chafika pamapeto. Tifunikira kumvetsetsa tokha: chofunika kwambiri kwa inu-kukhala ndi munthu uyu, mosasamala kanthu kalikonse, kapena, ngakhale kutayika, kulandira malo anu?

Koma nthawi zonse timaiwala kudzifunsa tokha zomwe tikuyembekeza kuchokera ku maubwenzi omwe amayamba kwambiri kuchokera kumbali yazimayi kusiyana ndi iye? Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti nthawi zambiri ubale umenewu ukhoza kufika pamapeto. Chitsanzo chotsindika pamwambapa ndi chakuti mnyamatayo amasonyeza chidwi ndi moyo wa mtsikana nthawi ndi nthawi. Ndipo izi zikuwonetsa kuti amakondwera ndi chidwi chake, chikondi chake kwa iye, koma zambiri samakonzeka. Chikondi chimangolamulira mumtima mwake.

Msungwanayo akuganiza kuti samamuyamikira. Koma amaiwala kuti ayankhe funso lina lofunika: kodi amadziyamikira motani? Chifukwa kuti ife tizikondedwa, tiyenera kudzikonda tokha!

Ngati pali nthawi yovuta kumvetsetsa komanso mafunso mu chiyanjano, ayenera kuthetsedwa ndikufunsidwa mwamsanga! Musamawabwezeretse, mwinamwake padzakhala mochedwa kwambiri, ubalewo watha, ndipo nthawi yatha. Zimakhala zovuta kupeza munthu watsopano mumzimu, choncho muyenera kudzifunira nokha zomwe tikuyembekezera kuchokera ku maubwenziwa ndikufunsa mnyamata wanu mofanana. Nthawi zambiri sitifunsa mafunso, ndipo izi ndi vuto la awiriawiri. Iwo samangolankhulana wina ndi mzake za zomwe zimawavutitsa iwo. Ndipo izi mosakayikira zimabweretsa kusamvetsetsa ndi kulekanitsa maubwenzi. Ndipo ntchito yathu ndi kusunga ndi kuyisamalira. Ichi ndi ntchito ya aliyense payekha mu chiyanjano.

Kodi ndiyenera kuchita chiyani pamene chiyanjano chiri pachimake? Palibe yankho losavomerezeka, popeza zochitika zonse ndizopadera. Ndipo udindo wakupanga ichi kapena chisankhocho chiri ndi inu komanso ndi inu nokha. Muyenera kumvetsetsa ngati mukufuna kulolera kapena ayi, kaya mukufuna kupitilira kapena kupita bwino ... Ndipo izi zonse zimafuna kuti mukhale ndi makhalidwe abwino ndikudzipereka kwanu. Pakhoza kukhala Soviets ambiri, koma chiganizocho chidali chanu. Mvetserani kwa liwu lanu lamkati ndikudzipatseni yankho ... Ndipo musawope chilichonse! Moyo nthawi zonse umapitirirabe, ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti zonse zatha, ndipo nthawi zambiri zingakupatseni zodabwitsa zodabwitsa!