Kodi chirichonse sichingawopsyeze?
Anthu ambiri, powerenga ndimezi, anganene kuti mawu ngati amenewa adzawoneka achiwawa kwambiri. Koma omwe ali mu mkhalidwe umenewu, izi zingathandize. Ndipotu, si amayi onse omwe sangathe kukhala ana, ambiri amafuna ana awa. Iwo ankakhudzidwa ndi chikhumbo cha mwamuna, khalidwe la banja ndi zina zotero. Aliyense anali ndi nkhawa ndipo anaphedwa chifukwa chakuti mkaziyo sakanatha kutenga mimba. Pamapeto pake, pakuyang'ana momwe aliyense amadziwira, mzimayiyo akuyamba kukhulupirira kuti ali ndi chisoni chachikulu ndipo akufuna kukhala mayi wamisala. Ngakhale, ngati panalibe kutengeka koteroko kwa ena, mwachiwonekere, iye adzazindikira mkhalidwewo. Choncho, ngati mwapezeka kuti muli ndi vutoli, khalani ndi nokha. Palibe chowopsya komanso chowopsya kuti mkazi sangafune kuti ana aphedwe moyo wake wonse chifukwa chosakhalapo. Choncho, yang'ananibe momwe zinthu zilili ndikudzipatseni mayankho enieni. Musati mudandaule ndi zomwe ena angaganize. Izi sizikuwakhudza iwo nkomwe. Munthu wamba yemwe amakukondani adzakhala wokondwa, monga wokondedwa wake amaletsa kuzunzika.Ndipo omwe ayamba kulira ndi kudabwa momwe angakhalire moyo wodalirika, ndipo samalira mtolo tsiku liri lonse, sali woyenera kumvetsera, chifukwa pafupi ndi anthu otero sangathe kutchedwa mophweka. Zotsutsana zilizonse sizinapangidwe ndi anthu, anthu amene amatikonda, sangachite bwino kutsatiridwa ndi izi ndipo adzasangalala kuti zakhala zosavuta kwa ife.
Lolani chithandizo
Ngati chochitikacho chiridi chifukwa cha zikhumbo zosakwaniritsidwe, ndiye muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungagwirire nazo ndipo palibe chifukwa chake muyenera kudzipangitsa kuti mukhale okhudzidwa ndi zomwe zinachitika. Ndichifukwa chake mukufunikira chithandizo choyenera. Pafupi ndi inu muyenera kukhala munthu amene angakuthandizeni kuchoka ku vutoli, lomwe, makamaka, lidzayamba chifukwa cha zomwe zinachitika, ndipo sikudzakuyendetsa kuphompho kwa kukhumudwa. Choncho, mulimonsemo, musadzilole kwa iwo omwe akudzimvera chisoni. Ndizoti simukusowa chifundo. Inde, poyamba mudzafuna kulira ndikuyankhula ndipo wokondedwa wanu adzayenera kumvetsera, kumvetsa chisoni, kuthandizira. Koma patapita nthawi, njira zothandizira zidzasinthidwa. Amene ali ndi inu motsatira, ayenera, m'malo mwake, asakulolereni kuganizira nthawi zonse ndikukumana ndi maganizo anu. Tsoka ilo, pali anthu omwe amafanana ndi kuvutika kwa ena. Ndi munthu wotere amene adzakhale ndi inu pambali ndi kumalira nthawi zonse: "O, ndiwe wosawuka wosauka bwanji, momwe Mulungu adakukhalira iwe. Ndizoopsa kwambiri kuti simudzakhala ndi vuto lililonse. Kak mukhoza kukhala ndi chisoni choterocho. " Komanso, mkazi wotere ayenera kulira mwanjira yotere (ndipo khalidwe ili la milandu asanu ndi anayi mwa khumi ndilo lakazi) lingathe kufika mosalephera. Ngati inu nokha mutayamba kuyesa kuchoka mu vuto la kupsinjika maganizo, zidzakufulumizitsani kukubwezerani, kukumbukira momwe zinthu zoipa ziyenera kukhalira ndi moyo woopsa ndi wopanda nzeru omwe muli nawo tsopano. Kuti zinthu zikhale zabwino, khalani kutali ndi anthu oterewa. Bwenzi labwino lomwe likufuna kuthandizira, sangachite zimenezo. Adzakupangitsani kulira, adzipangitse yekha kuti adziyanjanitse ndikukhalanso zokambirana pakati pa inu ndi anthu omwe muli nawo. Kotero ngati simukufuna kuti muvutike chifukwa cha moyo wanu wonse ndikufuna kuthana ndi vuto lanu, onetsetsani kuti mumayesetsa kulankhula momasuka ndi munthu amene angakuthandizeni. Kwa munthu woteroyo, simukuyenera kugwiriridwa, zomwe muyenera kugwedeza ndi kulira naye. M'malo mwake, nthawi zonse amayesa kukukumbutsani kuti inu - munthu wamphamvu adzakonza vutoli. Kwa anthu ambiri, munthu wotere amakhala mwamuna. Koma ngati siziri choncho-ndizo zabwino. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti sakukukakamizani ndipo sangatembenuke kukhala munthu wokhumudwa, wamuyaya. Ndipo thandizo lingapezeke kwa amayi, abwenzi apamtima, mlongo. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti munthuyu amadziwa bwino kwambiri ndipo amafunika kuuzidwa kuti akuthandizeni, kukukonzerani bwino komanso musamulole kuti asatengeke. Ngati mumalankhulana ndi munthu wotero nthawi zonse, m'kupita kwanthawi mudzazindikira kuti zimakhala zophweka. Ndipo muzinthu zambiri izo zidzakhala ubwino wake, chifukwa iye adzakukakamiza kuti udzipange wekha palimodzi, kusintha zinthu, kuchita chinachake, osati kuzunzika kunyumba, kuvutika ndi kudana nokha pa chinachake chimene iwe sichimakhala nacho cholakwa.
Iwo samangovutika kokha kuchokera kwa Mulungu
Ngati mukufunadi kukhala mayi ambiri, choyamba, mukufunikira mwana amene mumamukonda. Zoona, kubereka kwanu ndikwangwiro, koma ngati kulibe kuthekera koteroko, nthawi zonse mukhoza kupulumutsa moyo wa wina. Pitani ku nyumba ya ana amasiye. Ndipo simukusowa kumvetsera kwa iwo omwe amati: "O, sakudziwika kuti mwana wake ndani, ndipo mwadzidzidzi majiniwo ndi oipa, koma mwadzidzidzi amakulira munthu wamng'ono kapena khalidwe labwino." Chibadwa - chinthu chosadziwika. Ngakhale m'banja lanu penapake panalidi zidakwa zomwezo. Ndipo pali kuthekera kuti iwo adzaperekedwera kwa mwana wanu mu mibadwo isanu ndi umodzi. Choncho, wina sayenera kumvetsera zachabechabe. Ngakhale choledzera cholandira chokhoza kulera mwana wamba, ngati muika makhalidwe abwino mwa iye, mum'phunzitseni kuti asamachite zolakwitsa ndikungotchula zochitika ndi zina. Choncho musachite mantha ndi malirime omwe akukuuzani. Ndipo musasokonezedwe ndi mfundo yakuti mwana sangakhale ngati Navas. Pakapita nthawi, adzalandira zizoloŵezi zanu, mawu, manja ndi kumuyang'ana, palibe amene adzakayikire kuti uyu ndi mwana kapena mwana wanu. Kumbukirani nthawi zonse kuti ana amakhala achibale osati chifukwa choti tidawabala, koma chifukwa timawakonda ndikudziyika nokha ndi moyo wathu mwa iwo. Choncho musamavutike.