Kufooka kwakukulu kwa amuna ozoloŵera kumawasokoneza akazi ku zovuta zotere, ngakhale kuntchito. Kuthamanga, pa chirichonse chimene sichikukakamiza kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuntchito kapena wina aliyense sichidzasokoneza. Tayang'anani pa akazi omwe amamverera kuti amakonda amuna, iwo amatanthauza "kusefukira" ndi chimwemwe. Ngakhale amanyazi kwambiri a mapiko "mapiko akukula". Aloleni ambiri asamangoganizira zokondweretsa izi, koma malingaliro awo, malingaliro omwe mkazi angakumane nawo adzakhudza kwambiri kudzidalira kwake.
Buku la utumiki, malinga ndi amayi achikulire, siliyenera kukhala, chifukwa izi, ngakhale fad, zimalepheretsa ntchitoyi, imayambitsa kuonongeka, kugawidwa kwa antchito m'makampu awiri "omwe ali" ndi "omwe akutsutsana." Atsikana amakono alibe magulu osiyanasiyana, amasonyeza thupi lawo ndi kugonana ndi ulemu. Ndipo ndi munthu uti amene angatsutse "kukongola" kotereku? Nthawi zina amuna amaukakamiza amayi kuti ayambe kukondana, ndipo mkazi, "kukonda" chidwi, amayamba "kusewera" ndi mwamuna, akuyesa ngati "mpanda wolimba," pang'onopang'ono amamukoka munthuyo ku "malo awo".
Chikondi cha utumiki ndi amayi osiyana chimadziwika mosiyana. Kwa ena, ichi ndi china chosangalatsa, koma kwa ena chimathera muukwati. Ngati mkazi asanakumane naye "kalonga", kuyembekezera ndi amuna, ngakhale kuntchito, zidzatheketsa kusankha mtundu wa munthu yemwe akusowa.
Kawirikawiri chikondi chimabwera panthawi yamakampani, omwe amakhala "otsutsa" m'mabuku a ntchito. Ogwira ntchito akupuma, kumwa mowa kumayambiranso, kulankhulana kumakhala "abale", ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale "imvi" imasintha khalidwe lawo.
Ngati mwamuna ali ndi udindo wotsogolera ndipo mukugonjera, ndiye kuti malingaliro a amayi, chikondi cha chikondi chingathandize kupititsa patsogolo ndondomeko ya ntchito kapena kutsogolera kuukwati, koma ndiye mudzayamba kukayikira kuti amayi ambiri omwe ali mu chiyanjano chake ali ogwirizana ndi mwamuna wanu, chifukwa kuti iwo omwe poyamba anali mu udindo umenewo. Mtsogoleriyo amagwirizanitsidwa ndi mwamuna weniweni yemwe ali ndi bizinesi, ndalama, zolinga, ndipo izi zimakopeka kwa atsikana omwe atangoyamba kumene kupanga ntchito.
Pakati pa antchito, bukuli likhoza kukhala laling'ono komanso lokhazikika kwa zaka zambiri. Icho chidzatulukamo, ndiye nkubwezeretsanso. Mkazi amene ali ndi chibwenzi ndi wogwira ntchito, monga lamulo, akuyimira mkazi wake "mu mitundu yakuda", mwinamwake, sakanayang'ana pozungulira. Chowonadi nthawi zambiri chimakhala chosiyana. Kuntchito munthu woteroyo akhoza kufotokozera "maso", komanso kunyumba kuti akhale mwamuna wachikondi ndi wachikondi wa ana ake. Nchifukwa chiyani amachita izi? Chifukwa kunyumba - mkazi, ana, maudindo, ndi kuntchito zonsezi siziri.
Ndipo ngati zilakolako zake zinayamba kugonjetsedwa? Kodi adali ndi chizolowezi chatsopano? Nthawi zina akazi amadziwa kuti khalidweli ndilopandukira. Iwo amalingalira kale kuti munthu uyu ndi "wawo" ndipo ali wokonzeka "kuphwanya" wotsutsa, mwa njira zonse. Kenaka kuntchito kwenikweni "ku Mexico" kukuwonetsa kumayambira ndipo "ntchito" izi nthawizonse zimakhala ndi "owonerera", ngakhale omwe nthawi zambiri amachedwa ntchito, ayamba kubwera nthawi kuti apeze nkhani.
Palinso njira ina, pamene abambo aakazi "akuukira" ake. Pamene mgwirizano wautumiki umayamba kuzunzidwa, kawirikawiri "wogwidwa" akuchotsedwa, koma ngati sakudziwa yekha, atakhazikitsa ntchito yina akugwirizananso ndi "mayiko akunja".