Nchiyani chikuchitika?
Pamene munthu ali wamng'ono, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti adzinenere yekha. Kusukulu, ochepa akhoza kudzitamandira pazochitika zenizeni: bukhu lofalitsidwa, wogulidwa ndi ndalama ndi galimoto, diploma ndi kusiyana ... Apa zikuwoneka kuti ambiri njira yokhayo ndiyo kuyamba kuseka anthu ena. Ndi chitsimikizo chopusa - ngati mumanyozetsa ena, ndiye kuti mukutsutsana ndi mbiri yawo mukuwoneka kuti ndinu amphamvu. Aliyense yemwe anawonekera pa nthawi imeneyo kuti akhale munthu woyenera akhoza kuyang'anitsitsa syeer. Izi ndizovuta. Nanga bwanji ngati mukuchititsidwa manyazi?
Zida zawo.
"Mapazi"
Njira yowonjezereka yozunza ndi yowopsya. Njira zikhoza kukhala mulu: kuchokera kunyoza mu kampani mpaka kumenyedwa kwenikweni kumbuyo. Lamulo lalikulu: musasonyeze kufooka kwanu, kulira kapena kuukira.
Ndi bwino kulankhulana ndi anthu omwe kale musanakukomereni. Afunseni mwakachetechete ngati mwawachita chinthu choipa ndi chifukwa chake amachita ngati ng'ombe, kusintha maganizo a anthu angapo. Izi zingathandize, chifukwa chokha ndizovuta kwambiri kuthana ndi mavuto, makamaka ngati mukuchititsidwa manyazi. Koma ngati wapita kutali, usakhale chete ndipo usaope kulankhula ndi makolo ako. Izi sikumvetsetsa, koma chikhumbo chokambirana nkhaniyo mwa njira yayikulu ndikupeza njira yotulukira - ndipo nthawi zonse, musakayikire. Mwinamwake pamsonkhano wa banja mumasankha kuti mungasinthe sukulu kusiyana ndi kuyesa mitsempha yanu kuti muphunzitse adani malamulo a mawu abwino kapena kuchititsa manyazi ena.
"Kunyamula"
Zida zawo ziri chete.Ngakhalenso mabwenzi okhulupirika amalephera kulankhula ndi inu, bwenzi lanu lapamtima siliyankha mayitanidwe anu, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti zonse zofunika kwambiri zimakupatsani. Simukuchititsidwa manyazi, koma simunanyalanyaze. Inde, izi ndizovuta kwambiri, koma musadandaule kwambiri. Kumbukirani chinthu chimodzi chophweka: kuthana ndi chida chachinsinsi ndipo, monga kunyansidwa konse, kumawoneka kokongola kokha ngati mbali zonse ziwiri zikuchita nawo. Ndiko kuti, pamene simusamala. Koma pali maphunziro okwanila okwanira padziko lapansi popanda kuyankhulana ndi gulu la anzanu apamtima! M'malo mogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu poyesa kulankhula momasuka, werengani mabuku: izi ndi zosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo zidzawapatsa ndendende bwino pamphuno.
The Yellow Press.
Zikuwoneka kuti yunivesite yonse sichita kanthu koma imakambirana magawo onse omwe mumatenga, ndikuyikongoletsera ndi fictions. Pano mukufunikira njira yolemekezeka omwe ayenera kumvetsera okha komanso osati monga choncho. Zimakhala zopanda nzeru kudzidziyimira nokha - mulibe cholakwa chilichonse, ndipo ngati anthu alibe chokambirana, ndiye mavuto awo okha, osati anu, kodi? Miseche kawirikawiri imagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro abwino - komanso ndi moyo wosangalatsa kwambiri. Ndipo mwa njira, iyi ndi mayeso abwino. Ngati bwenzi lanu lapamtima linkakhulupirira nkhani zabodza za anthu ena, popanda kukufunsani ngati zinalididi, mwinamwake sanali wodzipatuliradi kwa inu?
Gwiritsani ntchito
Chilichonse chomwe chikutichitikira ndi njira yabwino yophunzirira chinachake chatsopano, jumphani ku mlingo wotsatira, monga masewera a pakompyuta. Ngati akukuvutitsani - ichi si chifukwa chomvetsa chisoni - funani ma bonasi.
Kulankhulana. Eya, apa mwakanidwa. Koma kodi simunayiwale kuti anthu pafupifupi 7 biliyoni akhala padziko lapansi? Musati mukhale nokha kudziko la kalasi yanu, yonjezerani malire: kambiranani ndi anthu atsopano, pitani ku maphunziro, lowetsani gulu la otchuka la gulu lanu lomwe mumakonda kapena gulu lavina. Lekani kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanu pa anthu omwe sakufuna kulankhula ndi inu komanso omwe amakuchititsani manyazi - ndipo mwamsanga musaiwale za inu (sizosangalatsa kumunyoza munthu amene sazindikira ngakhale kuzunzidwa kuchokera kunja). Ndikhulupirire, iwe udzawaiwala iwo mofulumira mofanana.
Pezani mphamvu.
Mu moyo, kudziimira kumathandiza. Kuchokera kuntchito ya othawa, mukhoza kukhumudwa ndi dziko lonse - kapena kupeza mfundo yothandizira nokha. Momwe mungapitirire - ziri kwa inu. Koma kumbukirani kuti nthawi zambiri omwe amanyalanyaza ena ndi anthu ofooka kwambiri: samadziwa momwe angachitire okha, ndipo amadzimva okha pahatchi, amafunikira nsembe yodziwika. Ndipo muli ndi mwayi wophunzira kuti musadalire thandizo la wina. Pambuyo pake, simukuyenda bwino kapena kupambana kuchokera ku mayeso ena - inu nthawizonse mumakhala inu. Ndipo mutangomvetsetsa izi, zochitika zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito "zomwe amalingalira za ine" simungathe basi - zomwe zikutanthauza kuti moyo udzakhala wosavuta, ndikukhulupirirani.
Kumvetsa anthu.
Mu zoopsa, anthu enieni amawululidwa nthawi zonse. Msungwana wokongola amene nthawizonse wakhala akukunyoza za mafashoni akhoza kuchoka kwa iwe, osangodziwa kuchepa kwa chiwerengero chako pakati pa ena ndikuyamba kukuchititsani manyazi. Koma munthu wanzeru yemwe sanakhalepo wotchuka, mwadzidzidzi akhoza kubwera kwa inu ndi kupereka thandizo: amadziwa zomwe zimakhala ngati akuzunzidwa ndi ena. Chabwino, nchifukwa ninji mumasowa abwenzi omwe amangogwedeza chithunzi chawo okha, koma samakuwonani? Phunzirani kuyamikira anthu chifukwa cha kulimba mtima ndi kukoma mtima, osati chifukwa cha jeans ya mtengo wapatali.
Osati kuti muyanjanenso.
Khalani okondana. Nthawi zina zigawenga sizimayambira pomwepo, ndipo ndi bwino kuganizira ngati ndinu bwenzi lenileni nokha. Ngati wamanyazi, muyenera kuganizira zifukwa. Sikoyenera kuti aliyense apereke zolemba zanu pa choyamba chofunika, koma sizili zovuta kuyitana wodwala naye sukulu ndikumuuza mutu wa maphunzirowo. Zing'onozing'ono? Ayi, ichi ndi chisamaliro.
Dziyese nokha.
Kusatsimikizika kumamveka kuchokera kutali, koma munthu amene amadzilemekeza yekha, si zophweka kukhumudwitsa. Mmalo mofuna zofooka mwa inueni, phunzirani kuyamikira ubwino wanu. Ndipo phunzitsani izi kwa ena, musalole kuti mukhale ndi manyazi.
Musakhale mbali ya gululo.
Musatengere mbali pozunza ena. Izi ndizobodza, zonyansa, komanso zimasonyeza kuti mumatsatira malangizo a anthu ena mosadziŵa. Ndipo bwanji, inu nokha simungakhoze kudziwa yemwe ali woipa kwenikweni pano?
Dziwani mdani panokha.
Mtsogoleri. Pagulu lirilonse liri lokha, koma chinthu chimodzi chimagwirizanitsa iwo - chikhumbo cha mphamvu ndi kukhoza kuwatsutsa ena. Aliyense akhoza kukhala wovutitsidwa. Amene sanapereke thandizo pa nthawi yake. Iye amene anadzigulira yekha chovala chokongola. Kapena ngakhale yemwe sanachite kanthu nkomwe: chifukwa cha kuukira, palibe chifukwa chapadera chofunikira.
Svita. Zimayendayenda mtsogoleri nthawi zina chifukwa chofuna kukhala otchuka kwambiri, nthawi zina chifukwa cha mantha omwe angapeze.
The consonants. Anthu ambiri samakonda kutenga nawo mbali muzunzo. Koma iwo akupitiriza kunyalanyazidwa ndi inertia. Anzanu amanjenjemera: powayankhula motsutsana nawo iwo amatha kukhala ozunzidwa. Kotero iwo amakonda kuyang'ana mwakachetechete akuyang'anitsitsa, ine ndikuganiza kuti palibe choyipa chochitidwa. Koma kwenikweni, khalidwe ili ndilo lofunika kwambiri. Ndipo ngati aliyense wa iwo sanawope kulankhula, sipadzakhalanso kuzunzidwa konse.