Zifukwa za kubadwa kwa mwana wamwamuna ali ndi zaka 40 ndizo zambiri. Kuwonekera kwa mwana pafupi zaka makumi anai nthawi zambiri kumakhala chifukwa cha maganizo a mkazi kumoyo. Amayamba maphunziro, kenaka amapanga ntchito, kupeza chuma, kudzipezera yekha nyumba, ndi zina zotero. Ndipo atangomaliza zolinga zake, amaganizira za mwanayo, makamaka popeza mankhwala amasiku ano amavomereza. Choncho, m'zaka zaposachedwapa, chiwerengero cha amayi omwe asankha mwana m'zaka 40, chikuwonjezeka osati m'mayiko a ku Ulaya, komanso m'dziko lathu.
Mwana wamng'ono - sali woipa kuposa ana ena. Poyambirira, pamene ana ambiri amabereka (momwe Mulungu angaperekere), kenako ana amafooka, pamene thupi la mayi linatopa mphamvu zawo panthawi yomwe anabadwa. Koma pakali pano siziri choncho. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, akukhulupirira kuti ana omwe ali ndi makolo okhwima amakhala ochenjera komanso ali ndi luso kwambiri kuposa makolo ocheperapo. Koma mfundoyi siinali yobadwa ndi mphatso, koma chifukwa chakuti mwana wam'mbuyo ali ndi chidwi komanso chidwi.
Sitiyenera kuiwala - ndi msinkhu, kuthekera kwa mwana kumachepetsedwa kwambiri. Kuonjezera apo, chiwerengero cha matenda osiyana ndi msinkhu chimakula. Choncho, ngati mwaganiza kubereka ali ndi zaka pafupifupi makumi anai ndi mtsogolo, ndiye kuti muyenera kusamala kwambiri za thanzi lanu. Ndikofunika kuti mufufuze mokwanira. Ndiponsotu, pazaka zino, mavuto omwe thupi lathu lakumana nalo lingasokoneze mchitidwe wamakhalidwe abwino. Madokotala amanena kuti wamkuluwo, mavuto ambiri, ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mwana komanso wathanzi amachepetsedwa.
Ndipo komabe, ngati mkazi ali ndi zaka makumi anayi ali ndi thanzi labwino ndipo sali wosabereka - ndiye akhoza kubereka mwana wamphamvu ndi wathanzi. Inde, ali ndi zaka makumi anayi mimba ilibe chitetezo. Padzakhala pali chiopsezo china. Tiyenera kulingalira mosamala za thanzi lathu ndikukhala moyang'aniridwa ndi dokotala nthawi zonse.
Pakati pa mimba mochedwa pali ubwino. Ali wamkulu, amai ali okonzekera kubereka, kubereka ndi kulera mwana. Amayi oterewa sangakhale okhudzidwa kwambiri, panthawi yomwe ali ndi mimba. A psyche a akazi oterowo ali okhazikika ndipo iwo amalangidwa, ndipo moyo uli wokonzeka. Azimayi oterewa amamvetsera kwambiri kuikidwa kwa dokotala. Amatsatira chakudya chamagulu ndi umoyo wa moyo.
Inde, muzaka 40 ndi nthawi yokhala agogo, koma nthawi yoyamba kukhala mayi. Zikadakhala kuti zaka makumi anayi ndizopenshoni komanso zochepa. Koma moyo wathu wamakono wasintha kwambiri kumvetsetsa kwa mkhalidwewu. Mtengo wa miyoyo yathu wasintha kwambiri, amayi amasunga ubwana wawo ndi nthawi yayitali. Choncho, anthu ambiri amaganiza za mwanayo kwa nthawi yoyamba osati kale kuposa zaka makumi anayi ndipo chiwerengero chawo chikukula mofulumira ndi nthawi.
Malingana ndi madokotala, nkofunikira kusankha pa mwana ndi kubereka mpaka zaka makumi atatu. Koma m'moyo muli zosiyana siyana ndipo motero ndi bwino kuyesedwa kafukufuku wapadera kuti azindikire chromosomal pathologies yomwe ikugwirizana ndi msinkhu wa mkaziyo. Ndilo kubadwa kwa nthawi yochepa kuti mwana ali ndi chiopsezo chosiyana.
Amanena kuti mayi abereka nthawi yoberekera. Ndipo ndithudi, moyo wanu uli wodzaza ndi tanthauzo latsopano, mulibe nthawi yopuma ndi kupuma, kuphatikizapo zonse zomwe zimapangidwira thupi lanu. Pambuyo pa zonse, pa usinkhu umenewo, makumi anai, ndinu mayi wamng'ono.
Ndi liti kuti abereke mwana woyamba kubadwa? Pa makumi awiri, makumi atatu kapena patapita zaka makumi anai - izi zimasankhidwa ndi mkazi aliyense. Ndipo yekha amapanga chisankho. Kubeleka ndi chisangalalo ndi tanthauzo la moyo wa mkazi pa msinkhu uliwonse. Chinthu chimodzi chikuwoneka kuti: Azimayi omwe adasankha mwana pambuyo pa zaka makumi anayi ali azimayi amphamvu komanso olimba. Amakhala nthawi yaitali kuposa ena, chifukwa amafunika kulera mwana ndikumuika pamapazi ake.
Zaka zaposachedwapa zatsimikiziranso kuti kutenga mimba m'moyo wamtsogolo kungapindulitse thanzi la amayi, ngakhale kuti pangokhala kuwonongeka pang'ono kwa thanzi. Kuberekera kumapeto kumaphatikizapo mu thupi lachikazi malo onse omwe anali atabisika pamenepo, omwe amapititsa moyo. Amayi okhwima amakhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi moyo zaka zana.
Moyo wamasiku ano ndi wakuti malingaliro okhudza moyo wa banja asintha mwakuya. Chifukwa chake, madzimayi aang'ono azamalonda sakufulumira kukhala ndi ana, makamaka chifukwa chakuti sitepeyi ndiyomwe imakhala ndi udindo. Koma amayi oterewa ayenera kukumbukira kuti pamene mukuchedwa, mavuto omwe mungapeze ngakhale mankhwala amasiku ano sangathe kukuthandizani kupeza chisangalalo cha amayi. Zonse ziri bwino pa nthawi. Tsopano inu mukudziwa momwe mungasankhire pa mwana pa 40 ndikuwona chisangalalo cha amayi, mosasamala za msinkhu.