Ndipo izi ndi zomvetsa chisoni. Pambuyo pake, pakati pa aluso, otchuka ndi otchuka, nawonso, palibe akazi owerengeka, ndipo dziko lauzimu nthawi zina ndi lolemera komanso losiyana kwambiri ndi amuna. Nthawi zonse timakhala okongola komanso ochititsa chidwi, timatha kupanga anthu chidwi, timadziwa kugonjetsa komanso kudabwa. Ndiye chifukwa chiyani ulemu wathu wonse suli woyamikiridwa kwathunthu, kumabweretsa patsogolo zinthu zowonjezereka.
Makamaka mabuloka akukula umunthu wa mkazi m'banja. Pamene zofuna zake zonse zikukakamizidwa kupita kumbuyo, pofuna kukonda zosowa ndi zosowa za mwamuna wake ndi ana ake. Chifukwa chake, zonse zomwe mkazi adatha kudziunjikira yekha mpaka nthawi yaukwati, sizingowonjezeredwe nthawi ya moyo wa banja.
Ndipo zikhoza kuoneka, kodi tikuchita chiyani cholakwika, kuti timayamba kuchepetsa pang'onopang'ono komanso molimbika ngati aliyense?
Nchiyani chimatipangitsa ife kuchepetsera chitukuko chathu, kudzipangitsa tokha, kutaya chidwi mu dziko, anthu, osakwanira ndi osasangalatsa?
Tili ndi mayankho a mafunso awa. Ndipo kotero, ife timamvetsera ndi kukumbukira.
Timakondedwa.
Gawo loyambalo ku chiwonongeko monga umunthu wa mkazi mu banja ndi chikhumbo chake cholankhula nthawi zonse pokhapokha payekha. Kukambirana mobwerezabwereza ndi anthu oyandikana nawo, ngakhale osadziwika, tumizani ku banal "koma ine", "koma iwe ukudziwa kuchokera kwa ine", "iwe, inde", ndi ena ambiri "I", ndi paliponse m'mbali zonse za moyo . Kawirikawiri izi zimapangitsa kuti onse omwe akukuyandikirani akhala akudziwani, ndipo zochitika zatsopano sizili zofunikira poyerekeza ndi kuchuluka kwa zomwe mwapereka zokhudza nthawi yonse ya moyo wanu. Kusakhutira kumvetsera zomwe mwazipeza posachedwa kubwerera kwa iwe. Munthu mwachibadwidwe ndi kudzikonda, komanso kukonda kwambiri munthu wake, Anthu sangakonde kukumverani ngati mukukonzekera nokha, osati kuwasamalira kwenikweni monga malo anu. Zotsatira zake ndi kusowa kwakulankhulana kwathunthu.
Mfundo yakuti mayi alandire banja, makamaka ngati ali ndi nyumba, amapeza bwenzi lapamtima, TV, komanso ali ndi mphamvu kwambiri. Zosangalatsa zokhazokha, osati zowona, zenizeni zosiyana, ndi nkhani zokhudzana ndi moyo wa bizinesi zapanyumba ndi zakunja - zimalowetsa zokondweretsa moyo weniweni, kuwerenga mabuku, miyambo ya chikhalidwe. M'tsogolomu mudzatha kulankhulana pamitu yomwe ili pafupi kwambiri ndi inu - pulogalamu ya telecasts, miseche ya nyenyezi, ndipo pamene, pomaliza, Jose adzamvetsa kuti Maria, uyu si mwana wamkazi wa Roberto, koma msuweni wachiwiri wa amalume ake omwe anabwera kuno chaka chapitacho kuchokera ku kusimidwa, ingoyang'ana chisangalalo chanu.
Zochita zathu.
Mofananamo, kukula kwa umunthu wa amayi m'banja, kudzakhala ndi khalidwe labwino pazochitika zake tsiku ndi tsiku. Kwa amayi ena, tsikuli lajambulidwa maminiti iliyonse, ndipo ndondomeko nthawi zonse imakhala yofanana, ndikukonzekera tsiku lochoka ndikuchoka. Zoonadi, izi sizingowonjezereka ndi mkazi, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta zokhudzana ndi udindo wake kwa abambo, akuluakulu, achibale ndi anthu ena. Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo, amayi ambiri amakhutira ndi malingaliro amenewa, ndipo samayesa kusintha kanthu, kufotokozera kuthekera kwa mtundu wina wokha, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti akhale kholo labwino kapena wogwira ntchito, koma osati munthu wokondweretsa komanso wogwira mtima. Nthaŵi zina mu kusagwirizana koteroko ndalama ndizolakwa. Zingakhale zovuta, ndiye mkazi nthawi zambiri amadzipulumutsa yekha pa banja, kapena mosiyana, kupulumuka kumangopulumutsa panthawi yapadera. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti nkhani yoteroyo chifukwa cha ntchito yosatha sizimawuka, ndalama zimapita ku zomwe zikufunika, osati zomwe mukufuna. Kotero zikutuluka, pamene abwenzi akudzitamandira paulendo wopita ku malowa, ulendo wanu wakutali kwambiri kwa chaka chonse, anali kudziko pambuyo pa mbatata, kapena ngakhale pang'ono.
Ndipo komabe, ndi liti pamene iwe unapitiliza kukawona abwenzi omwewo akubera? Ndipo inu mulibe nthawi imeneyo, ndiye mukukhumba, koma inu simunayitanidwe ngakhale ndi anzanu, podziwa kuti mudzakapezebe kupita patsogolo komwe sikudzabwere. Ndipo pambuyo pake mukufuna kudzitcha nokha kukhala wokondweretsa ndi wopangika umunthu?
Motero, ngati simukupita kulikonse, ndiye kuti simukudziwana ndi anzanu atsopano, maubwenzi ochititsa chidwi ndi inu. Inde, ndipo mumakhutitsidwa ndi mabwenzi anu ang'onoang'ono, omwe, mwangozi, ngati simunayiwale, sakukuitananso.
Maganizo athu.
Zoonadi, zochita zathu zimadziwitsa maganizo athu. Momwe timaganizira zimakhudzidwa ndi zizoloŵezi zathu, mfundo zathu, makhalidwe abwino. Ndipo ngati tisankha kusasintha, ndiye kuti zosiyana mmoyo wathu sizinayambitsidwenso. Bwanji, chinachake chatsopano, ngati pali chitsimikizo chokalamba. Musalole kuti dziko lakunja likukhudze inu. Perekani zonse zomwe poyamba sizinali mbali ya dziko lanu, zomwe mwalenga nokha.
Mwa njira, ndi liti pamene mudawona maonekedwe anu? Mwachidziwikire, njira yanu yopita ku salon yakula osati ndi udzu, komanso mitengo. Koma, kuti kuonekera kwa munthu kulibe kanthu ndipo dziko lamkati ndilofunikira kwambiri sikuti ndilolondola kwenikweni, ndipo mwaziwona nokha kwa nthawi yaitali. Makhalidwe a munthuyo amadziwonetsera osati mukumatha kwake kulankhula, luso komanso chidziwitso, koma komanso kuwonetsera kwakunja kwake. Zikuwoneka kuti panyumbamo simukusowa chovala kuchokera kwa munthu wokonda mtengo wa mafilimu, komanso chikongoletsedwe cha chic, koma masomphenya athu enieni, kukhoza kuwonekera kumathandiza pakupanga umunthu wathu.
Kotero, akazi okondedwa, dzifunseni nokha. Ukwati si kutha kwa dziko, ndipo si chifukwa choiwala nokha. Dzikondeni nokha, bweretsani zosiyana pa moyo wanu, kuyankhulana ndipo panopa, funso lanu ngati munthu m'banja, silidzatha. Pambuyo pake, kuti ndinu umunthu wowala, aliyense adzadziwa zonse.