Bwenzi langa linakondana ndi wolamulira wankhanza, kodi angamuthandize bwanji?

Iwo amati chikondi ndi khungu. Ndipo izi sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa pamene timayamba kukondana, timayamba kuchita zinthu mosasamala. Mwamuna wachikondi amatha kufotokozera zochepetsetsa za theka lake. Ndipo pakadali pano, achibale amafuna kuthandizidwa kokha ndi chikondi sichichita chilichonse chopusa. Amayi ambiri amavutika ndi nkhanza kuchokera kwa amuna. Koma si onse omwe amazindikira kuti khalidwe la mnyamata ndilochilendo ndipo izi ziyenera kumenyedwa. Kawirikawiri, atsikana okondedwa kwambiri kuti ali okonzeka kulongosola chochita chirichonse, ngakhale chimodzi chomwe, ndithudi, palibe cholungamitsa. Ngati muwona kuti mnzanu wagwera m'magulu a depot, mwachibadwa mumafuna mwanjira inayake kumuunikira ndikumutsogolera njira yoyenera. Koma ndi chinthu chotani chomwe mungachite kuti mubweretse malingaliro anu kwa mtsikanayo mwachikondi osati kumuchotsa kwa mnzanu kwa mdani woipitsitsa.


Sintha

Nthawi zina, ambiri amavomereza kulakwa kwakukulu-amayamba kukanikiza munthu. Iwo pamphumi amanena kuti mnyamatayu ndi woipa, kuti amachitira zoipa ndipo amafunika kuti azilekanitsidwa. Koma m'malo moyankha mokwanira, mwadzidzidzi amasiya kuvomereza mkwiyo wa mnzako yemwe amamutsimikizira mwachangu mnyamata wake. Kuti musagwirizane ndi mnzanu, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungayang'anire bwino zinthu. Pakali pano, chibwenzi chanu ndikumverera. Iye samvetsa chenicheni ndipo samadziwa kwenikweni zomwe akuchita. Zikuda za Ichirans zimadziwa bwino "brainwash." Amaonetsetsa kuti ozunzidwawo ali ndi chidaliro pa zolakwika zawo, zofooka ndi zina zotero. Koma iwo amadziyang'ana okha pamaso. Izi ndizakuti, bwenzi lanu likuganiza kuti chibwenzi chake ndi mfumu. Iye ali ndi chidaliro pa zolondola za mawu alionse omwe iye akunena ndi chisankho chimene watenga. ZizoloƔezi zake zonyansa, amadziona kuti ndizochitika mwachizolowezi zolephera zathu, zomwe, zikuwoneka ngati iye, ndi nyanja chabe. Choncho, ngati mumayamba kutsutsa mwana wakeyo ndikumuuza kuti ndi ndani kwenikweni, chifukwa cha bwenzi lanu limakhala vuto lenileni komanso maganizo amodzi. Iye wamuvulaza kwambiri ndi mnyamata wake wonyenga kuti mawu aliwonse otsutsa iye akuwoneka ngati akunyoza. Bwenzi lanu limakondadi mnyamata wake kwambiri, samangofuna kuona choonadi. Ndipo ngati mukufunadi kumuthandiza, musati mutenge njirayi.

Chiberekero chingadulidwe kwa anthu omwe ali ndi chikhalidwe chokwanira. Tsoka lake, chibwenzi chako tsopano sichikwanira. Chibwenzi chake chimaganizira ndikukamba za iye. Ndipo ngati akuona mdani wa chibwenzi chake, ndiye kuti mudzakhala mdani wawo. Ngakhale mutakhala mabwenzi pafupifupi miyezi inayi, kwa iye izo sizikutanthawuza kanthu. Pakali pano, iye si munthu yemwe inu mumamudziwa. Kumbukirani kuti otsutsa nthawi zonse amayesa kutembenuza miyoyo yawo kukhala munthu wabwino omwe adayamba kuganizira. Ndipo opondereza ambiri amafuna kuti mkazi woteroyo akhale iwo okha, chifukwa chifukwa cha zochitika zawo zamkati iwo amawopa kutaya. Choncho n'zotheka, wogonjetsa kale akukhazikitsanso mnzanuyo ndipo ngati mwachita mosadziwika, mungathe kungosiya. Choncho, mmalo mwa kukambirana momveka bwino, ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito njira ina, yomwe ingathandize msungwana kutsegula maso ake ku zochitika zenizeni.

Munthu uyu

Kuti mnzanuyo azindikire omwe akukumana naye, akufunikira kupanga zochitika zomwe adzawona kusiyana pakati pa maanja okwatirana ndi munthu weniweni, wachibadwa. Kwa mnzanuyo anayamba kumvetsa zomwe zikuchitika, ziyenera kuzunguliridwa ndi amuna oterewa. Mwachibadwa, nkofunikira kuchita izi ngati mwadzidzidzi komanso momasuka Ngati akukudandaulirani kuti mukugwira ntchito, ndiye kuti palibe kutsutsana. Msungwanayo amatha kunena mofatsa za munthu aliyense, chifukwa mudziko lino, theka la ozunza nthawi zambiri amawafotokozera za chirichonse, ndipo amalingalira ndikumutsimikizira kuti ndinu bwenzi loipa ndikuyesera kumuletsa kuti asakhale gawo. Choncho, m'pofunika kuchita mosasamala. Ingoyesani zoatee mu kampani, kumene muli anyamata okwanira. Mukhoza kuuza anzanu za zomwe zikuchitika kwa chibwenzi chanu ndikuwapempha kuti awathandize. Simungathe kunena kanthu ngati simukudziwa kuti chigamulochi ndi cholondola. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti achinyamata awa anali abwino komanso osangalatsa, kutanthauza kuti, atsikana okondedwawo akufuna kutaya nthawi, ngakhale kuti zombie zakhala zotani. Chowonadi ndi chakuti pamene munthu adziwa anthu atsopano omwe ali okondweretsa kwambiri kwa iye, palibe kugwilitsa ubongo sikungakhazikitse chilakolako cholankhulana, chifukwa ngakhale mu chikhalidwe ichi, bwenzi lanu laling'ono limasiyidwa mozama mu moyo mwa munthu amene anali naye asanamudziwe naye ndi anzake . Mukungoyenera kukakamiza ndikumbukira ndikupeza pang'ono zofufuza. Ndibwino kuti mwamsanga muchenjeze: Anyamata sayenera kuchita. Ayenera kuchita monga momwe amachitira nthawi zonse. Izi zikutanthauza kuti anthu akhoza kutsutsa ndi kufotokoza malingaliro awo, zomwe sizigwirizana ndi maganizo a mnzanu. Eya, pamene abambowa ali chidziwitso chatsopano kwa mtsikana, monga malingaliro a anthu apamtima, akhoza kufunsa, koma abwenzi atsopano nthawi zonse amawoneka olondola komanso akuyang'ana zinthu.

Musaiwale kuti cholinga chanu sichisokoneza. Simusowa kuti mupange chibwenzi ndi mnzako. Cholinga chanu ndi china-kusonyeza kuti anyamatawa ndi abwino kuposa olamulira ake. Mu kuya kwa moyo, mkazi ali wopweteka kwambiri komanso wonyansa kuchokera ku khalidweli, koma amawopa kunena izi mokweza, chifukwa ali otsimikiza za kulakwa kwawo. Iwo amaganiza kuti ndi opusa ndipo munthu aliyense wamba amadzichita yekha ndi iwo komanso chibwenzi chawo. Koma ngati msungwana woteroyo adzakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira kuti akhale ndi amuna okwanira omwe amalemekeza maganizo ake, muzimusamalira ngati mwamuna, osati monga kapolo, mumupatse nthawi zonse komanso nthawi zonse, pomwepo mtsikanayo ayamba kuzindikira kuti pali zinthu zomwe zikuchitika mu chikondi, ndiye osati izo. Ndipo pakadali pano mukuchotseratu zombification, kuyamba kuyesa, kuyerekeza ndi kuyerekeza. Chotsatira chake, pafupifupi makumi asanu ndi anayi mphambu asanu ndi anai, milandu ya uzhenshchin, maso ndi otseguka ndipo amathyola maubwenzi olakwika ndi opweteka, ndikuyamika abwenzi-abwenzi kuti asalole kuti apite.